Quake Griffin wrote:Kelphus wrote:At times the emotionalism and hyperbole on this board gets to a point where some of us are discouraged from entering in at the risk of being attacked just because we do not see things the same way as someone else. Thank you for this last post and for the recent change of direction in this thread. Remember this is all fun right? We're supposed to be fans and hoping for the best right?
There's nothing about this that has been fun as a fan.
No amount of "it's better than the Sterling years" is gonna rinse the stench off of choking and playoff failure. Getting texts and made fun of by your Laker fan friends IS NOT fun. I get it. Ha ha ha, it's just sports. It's not that serious. Yeah yeah yeah. Still not fun.
We need a poised and mentally strong team that can withstand playing with expectations and one that isn't going to cower just because Luka didn't kneel and kiss the lack of rings.
Nah. This aint fun at all and hasn't been in a while imo.
Okay--I'm gonna disagree. For me, it's fun. It was fun during the Sterling years too. I mean, it was fun for Red Sox and Cubs fans for a century when they weren't getting to the World Series.
Am I sorry when we lose? Yeah. Am I more upset about losing as the team improves and stakes get higher? Yes and yes. But I also am able to live enough in the moment to appreciate what we have. That's the best gift for a sports fan. Joy in the moment. Hope springs eternal.
A bad series hurts. It affects me. For a few weeks. Maybe a month or two. But I move on because the team moves on because time moves on. Carrying all the anger from the past sends you down the rabbit hole. I like to think about it the way Dave DeBusschere did, as Bill Bradley described it. Bradley missed a game winning shot in a critical game during a playoff run.
After the game I was dejected. Back at the hotel. Dave, who had joined the team from Detroit two months earlier, saw how I felt and put me straight. ``You can't go through a season like this,'' he said. There are too many games, Sure, you blew it tonight, but when it's over, it's over. Let it go. Otherwise you won't be ready to play tomorrow night.'' It was NBA lesson #1; Don't make today's loss the enemy of tomorrow's victory.
Don't make today's loss the enemy of tomorrow's victory. Great quote. If there are mistakes, acknowledge them and try to fix them. Be honest, but don't wallow in pity or anger; those are the real enemies of progress.
Clipper fan for over three decades. Still fun for me.