Big Baby, indeed.
I think it's OK for a leader to yell at his team mates at times, as long as he fares with the truth and has no ill intent. The team must know deep down that their captain will always have their back and the team's best interest in mind. If they do, you can occasionally adrenaline-yell at them and have positive effects from it. As long as your bringing the truth to their attention, you're in the right.
It always seemed to me as if KG's criticism of his team mates was constructive in its intent — for the better of the team.
Kobe is on the right path of becoming a much better leader now, so I guess this is a bit of a re-hash of Kobe's old behavior, which I kind of don't want to do. I'm just really happy to see Kobe's interaction with his team being so much better now than then. Regardless,
Through 2005-2007, Kobe was different than he is now. Very different from KG. And KG was going through similar issues with his team mates. Kobe was sort of on his own island and not really a glue and corner piece for the team chemistry, whereas KG had his team mates eagerly listening to him in the huddle.
Back then, Kobe didn't strike me as the leader that unconditionally had their backs. Besides playing like a god, that is. I think KG did. The way Kobe used to interact with his team mates was different than the way KG has always done it. It's not the same way anymore with Kobe, but I guess that's not what this thread is about. We're talking about Kobe's mentality then vs KG now, right? Kobe seems way more mature now, so this is not an issue like it used to, and there's no vindication to be had here, in my opinion.
Kobe is more engaged, more caring and more big-brotherish these days. Like he should be. He seems to have earned their trust on a bigger scale. They seem to all feel like they're a part of the team now. What a big difference a few years can make. But then again, I'm just guessing. I don't know jack •••• about the inner dynamics of any of those teams, nor do I know Kobe or KG. I'm just glad it's better tha it used to.
P.S. Btw, the truth is the only thing that can hurt that bad. Big Baby will grow up faster because of it. Ridiculous of him to sit there and cry on TV because someone called out his lack of execution, btw. If you're going to do that, hang your head and cover it with a towel or something. Crying in despair on TV because your püߥ hurts?

/$.02