Post#671 » by Coach Carter » Fri Apr 20, 2018 4:10 am
With injuries, not being the best player, becoming a liability on the court and being called up on it, Parker simply can't cope and is not thinking rationally at the moment. He is very immature and will regret those comments in 5 - 7 years from now. He is also displaying inauthentic behaviour because he lacks self awareness. He also seems to embrace taking a rebellious stance. He's done with the coaches but there's resentment and jealously towards his teammates which isn't justified. He needs a good talking to. Perhaps even a therapist that has mastered how to talk to people in this kind of head space. Choice of words and tone make all the difference. The coaches aren't expected to be proficient in this area. Off-course it also depends on the individual and maturity levels. Like i said the way jabari is thinking now, he won't be thinking this way 5-7 years from now. Offcourse the bucks can't wait for jabari to mature and assuming he can't comprehend his wrong doings, you have to cut him for the sake of the team. I would make one last attempt though to get through to him. I'm not making excuses but i remember a reporter asked giannis about the difficulties he faces on the court. Giannis responded by saying basketball is not tough, other things are tough. He could be referring to the loss of his father but giannis faced adversities in his life long before he was in the nba. Sure he started playing and training later than most prospects, but through his life experiences, he has been training his mind his whole life and training it to deal with adversities. I don't know parker's whole history but it could be that he has never faced true adversity up until entering the league. In other words this is new to him, leaving him feeling confused. I can relate because, life was smooth sailing for me up until the age of 17 where i became depressed. I'm fine now but at the time couldn't deal nor comprehend what was happening.
In reference to our title winning year
Coach Carter wrote:This year is a wash and most of us know it.