Post#189 » by gandlogo » Wed May 22, 2024 3:24 pm
The biggest issue here is that there is one poster whose petulant behavior and inane postings render the board unreadable on some days (many days, really) - and nothing is done about it. We are told constantly - and by constantly, I mean a ridiculously repetitive number of times - that we cheer the wrong way, that we're elitists, that our viewpoints on the Wolves (despite being Wolves fans) are not welcome. The fact that one poster is consistently at the center of dust ups between other posters - and has been for years - should not be lost on the powers that be. And when told to knock it off, the schoolboy-esque response of “he started it” was often the refrain. If allowed, I could spend a little time verbally flaying, but worse than potentially getting banned, my fear is the lack of intellectual capacity would result in my efforts being for naught.
To the surprise of nobody, an internet message board is filled with different personalities, just like in the real world. Anonymity likely amplifies personalities even more. There are plenty of posters here that I often agree with, many others that I think have trash takes, and of course many that are on both sides of that coin on the same day. I'm guessing that my postings are viewed a similar way. That's life. Not much different than being in a bar. You can disagree with a guy at a bar and still end up buying him a beer at the end of the night. Or, eventually you have enough of the loudmouth and you lay him out. The only difference is that in the loudmouth example, being smart enough to know I value myself - and my stuff - more than unleashing. Just like potential criminal and/or civil action dissuade physical confrontation, there should be something akin to that here.
Before anyone suggests using the foes list, that option was exercised years ago - and quickly presented its shortcomings. If a poster is a high-volume poster, eventually somebody replies to them, and you are quickly re-exposed to their idiocy. And it also doesn't prevent a foes poster from calling out your posts - which has happened numerous times. Every single time that happened I sat here and did not respond. Mama Jude's paraphrasing Thumper from Bambi ringing in my ears - "if you can't say something nice...don't say nothing at all." She's probably spinning in her urn while I typed this, but a man's got to know his limitations - and I've reached mine.
Over the years I have sent PMs to multiple people (mostly posters from other teams visiting our board) saying to ignore the poster and not engage because it's not worth it. I stand by that thinking because I believe it makes this place better. A lawless swamp of inflammatory behavior quickly loses its appeal. However, the kid glove treatment of a habitual antagonist is equally detrimental to the board.