KGdaBom wrote:jscott wrote:Wolves21 wrote:I wouldn't say hate,people have different view points on players i.e. Towns & Gobert and the teams outlook but would safely say all and I mean all us Wolves fans in the end just want the team to be good and to finally win a title. Now how we get their is up to a debate which I think is the whole point in even posting on a site like this.
Yeah, for sure.
I’d say it’s probably not the debate that is grating but rather how the debate is conducted. It’s possible to disagree and have tact - maybe even achieve a little more understanding even - but it seems like some people like to dig their heels in and get a bit edgy about it.
I appreciate what you have to say, but it qualifies as flat out hate to me. It seems several persons here despise our own players. At least judging by what they post about them they do. This hate seems to be primarily directed at KAT and to a lesser degree Gobert. Part of that hate is based on them having large contracts, but the reason they have large contracts is they earned them through stellar play.
This conversation popping up over and over makes me sad.
I do not understand the rationale of posters consistently getting so triggered and upset over criticism of our players coaches and GM.
The distinction I draw is between people saying negative things about the players/coaches/front office, and people attacking other posters for those negative opinions.
The first is what this place is here for. It's a social media forum to be critical/positive about professional sports.
The second is what I find unacceptable/reprehensible, and it grows like a cancer anytime this franchise makes bad/controversial decisions or experiences failure.
Attack/defend your post, not the poster. This should be a cardinal rule for everyone.
Debate their ideas not their tones. Don't assume their motivations.
Don't throw around serious heavy handed terms like hate for trivial garbage like opinions about basketball players.
They can't hear you and they don't need your help.
It makes me sick when posters go the extremes of trying to gaslight other posters that there is something wrong with them for holding negative opinions. These are the same people crying about everything they don't like being misinformation and trying to cancel everything they disagree with including the ironic Fire the Gm/coach thread we've had here for pretty much everyone other than Flip Saunders for 15+ years running.
At the heart of it is a deep insecurity and inability to handle negativity.
It takes all kinds in life.
Being in a constantly negative headspace is harmful, but the truth also doesn't care if you are positive or negative.
The key to navigating the upsides and downsides of life is to always have your eye out for the truth, wherever that takes you.
KAT has had a lot of success and good times here. He's also had a lot of struggles, especially in the playoffs.
His contract, taking up 35% of the cap is a big issue. All these things are true.
I don't see any name calling or personal attacks here against him or any other player.
A poster wanting to move on from a player or coach or GM doesn't make him/her a hateful person, it just means they see a different path forward for their team.
Keeping this team together after this year will be very expensive and difficult, KAT and Gobert will combine for 96 million next year.
We will be about 20 million into the tax and over the very punitive 2nd tax threshold before even thinking about re-signing 2 of our top 7 players, Conley and Anderson. Trading KAT or Gobert this offseason is a legit talker.