Whiskey Slick wrote:Prokorov wrote:Whiskey Slick wrote:So if that's your story, and I appreciate the honesty, why didn't you EVER make the personal sacrifice like refusing that spot in a good college and insisting it be given to a more qualified black man or woman instead?
It isnt just one thing. And it is alot more obvious in hindsight. Im 43. so going back to grammer school or high school, this is like the 80s and early 90s. the idea that inequality was a systemic thing wasnt really acknowledged and access to information wasnt really there with no internet. so you kind of took the news reporting at face value. and my parents where boomers, a generation riddled with racism. so when a minority got the short end, everything in my circle and in the news and in the papers was about how the minority didnt really deserve it or slandered them as a criminal or deviant.
part of it is selfishness. when your young, you typically have tunnell vision. trying to get yours. part of privilige is living in a bubble where everything isnt that bad and the injustices can be explained away. with that, its easy to just worry about yourself... again something minorities and blacks especially dont have the luxury of.
so i guess in short, some of it was ignorance some of it was selfishness and some of it was living in a world that painted everything as normal and just.And why, until this day, haven't you done likewise with your cush job?
I do now. giving up my job to a black person isnt really a thing. and whatever job i got to replace it would just be the same, me taking the job of someone probably more qualified. What i have done is worked with our owner/CEO to have a mantadory DEI program (diversity, equity, and inclusion) and partnered with organizaitons to help get blacks hired at a more representive rate in my field (IT). We also are spending a ton of resources into STEM programs and working with the YWCA to try and get more women into IT, where the male/female ratios is signifcantly less diverse then black/white
i do a lot personally to, but this isnt about trying to pretend im some saint. im not. but the issue is important to me and im trying my best to be an anti-racist, which is challenging when you never considered yourself racist or perpetuating things to begin with. but i certainly had my inherit biases and ignorances.
You know what, I appreciate your honesty and have a lot more respect for you now. IMO this is your best post ever, and even if we don't agree on this or that, it's obvious that you care about people and I really value that in a person. It's also clear that you are doing what you can to rectify what you view as injustice, and even if I don't see it the same way, I respect your opinion and that you are backing it up with actions, not just words.
God bless your two children too.
I appreciate it. for what its worth, i dont discount your view or your personal story. i have a really different perspective and probably some hard bias' or overcorrections to former bias'. please dont take my rebuttles or disagreements as criticisms of you. i appreciate you digging in and facilitating a real personal discussion and not just trying to go back and forth. i know first hand its easy to do that.
bless you and yours as well.














