OT - My girl got fat

[Wes_Tiny_Abe_]

I'm only going to marry a chick who is at least 5 years younger than me. Maybe go for a 30 year old when I'm nearing 40, not neccaserily because of the weight thing but I don't want someone who isn't going to age badly and look older than me. You can say these sort of things when you're in ya early 20's.

My most recent girlfriend was 19 years younger than me.

[Wes_Tiny_Abe_]

Kinda disappointed in MJ tbh.

I'm not one of those "elbows are too pointy" kids on the internet but I mean he's MICHAEL JORDAN, shouldn't he be able to get any dime he wanted?

Well to be fair she is kind of covered up in those 2 pics.

[Red Vines]

Just because someone is overweight is no reason to treat them like they're sub-human. It's not either a person is dateable or they are a disgusting human being. My gawd.

[seren]

Just because someone is overweight is no reason to treat them like they're sub-human. It's not either a person is dateable or they are a disgusting human being. My gawd.

It is not like people have a lot of choices. More than a third of the population is obese.

[H_20]

Just because someone is overweight is no reason to treat them like they're sub-human. It's not either a person is dateable or they are a disgusting human being. My gawd.

It is not like people have a lot of choices. More than a third of the population is obese.

The majority of Americans will become fat pieces of sh*t in the near future. What's so hard about exercising 3x a day for at least 30mins? They can do at home in their own room! Oh, i forgot they have to watch mindless reality television shows while eating nachos and drinking diet coke which has aspartame. I don't want to hear the excuses about school and work and how they don't have enough time. Anyone can exercise if they put their heart into it.

[seren]

The majority of Americans will become fat pieces of sh*t in the near future. What's so hard about exercising 3x a day for at least 30mins? They can do at home in their own room! Oh, i forgot they have to watch mindless reality television shows while eating nachos and drinking diet coke which has aspartame. I don't want to hear the excuses about school and work and how they don't have enough time. Anyone can exercise if they put their heart into it.

Exercise by itself is not a solution. We are simply consuming more calories than previous generations. The fact is every nation is getting fatter as food prices are going down, eating out becomes more common, and food industry is pumping out food content with more sugars, fat etc.

The difference between here and say France is simply we are ahead of the curve. But make no mistake they are catching up. Problem is everywhere.

[SonOfMars]

That obesity rate, is there any charts/articles that seperate males/females?

Personally, i can say im quite slender..

But by scrolling down my own Facebok newsfeed, alot of the guys are skinny, "brolic", or just a bit "chubby"

But my female friends, its seems to be either thick, chubby or obese.....with a few slender girls making an appearance every so often

In short...it seems to be a chick problem..

[nykballa2k4]

That obesity rate, is there any charts/articles that seperate males/females?

Personally, i can say im quite slender..

But by scrolling down my own Facebok newsfeed, alot of the guys are skinny, "brolic", or just a bit "chubby"

But my female friends, its seems to be either thick, chubby or obese.....with a few slender girls making an appearance every so often

In short...it seems to be a chick problem..

That trend could be explained by women having more 'currency' than men. A guy judges a girl on her figure, her parts, and her use of those parts. Guys only get to "use" those parts if they show off their own. In other words, a guy has to work out because there is competition for girls (even chubby ones) whereas girls always have something that is HEAVILY sought after. the va-jayjay is quite a bargaining chip.

Another more likely idea, that probably has its roots in my first hypothesis is men typically like activities that involve being/getting in shape. My friends and I play sports whenever we can and like to compete with each other in general. Girls typically get together, maybe walk/shop, but the ones that play athletic sports are not too common. You are going to have your runners on both sides, but in terms of other sports, women athletes are less common than male athletes (in terms of recreation). So yea, the guy who is trying to get in shape so he can beat his buddies in a football game is going to be in better shape than the girl who spends her recreation walking the city, likely buying something fatty, chilling with her friends.


In terms of the OP, that was rough!! I mean, when 'things' are happening she is probably feeling her sexiest, and safe with you, and you TORE her. Then again, she was keen on blaming you for sleeping around, so she clearly set herself up. Something was wrong, and she chose to blame you.

[Wes_Tiny_Abe_]

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I doubt anybody on this forum remembers this but the message in this song is still relevant today.

[MigrainePatrol]

Bro, my girl is like 5'5 and 260lbs + so I know how you feel.

OMFG, speechless...

The reactions here are snippet. I see many people with bigger partners walking about the streets and know they are the real gm poster type. My gf may be big but it's not like some of y'all don't have a big girls too or you delusional about her actual weight. We had a son together and she exploded from 190lb to just over 260lbs, that happens. She's an apple body shape which means her thighs and butt are just fine but she carries the flap right above her waist. I concentrate on the lower portion so I'm set...

[aggo]

Bro, my girl is like 5'5 and 260lbs + so I know how you feel.

OMFG, speechless...

The reactions here are snippet. I see many people with bigger partners walking about the streets and know they are the real gm poster type. My gf may be big but it's not like some of y'all don't have a big girls too or you delusional about her actual weight. We had a son together and she exploded from 190lb to just over 260lbs, that happens. She's an apple body shape which means her thighs and butt are just fine but she carries the flap right above her waist. I concentrate on the lower portion so I'm set...

help her get her weight back in check

5'5" at 260+ is not healthy

[TheToothFairy]

Did we ever get a pic?

[seren]

That obesity rate, is there any charts/articles that seperate males/females?

Personally, i can say im quite slender..

But by scrolling down my own Facebok newsfeed, alot of the guys are skinny, "brolic", or just a bit "chubby"

But my female friends, its seems to be either thick, chubby or obese.....with a few slender girls making an appearance every so often

In short...it seems to be a chick problem..

Here if you are interested:

http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db82.pdf

For 20-39 age group, obesity rate is 33.2 percent among men and 31.9 percent among women.

It used to be that women were more likely to be obese, but thanks to this last generation, men caught up.

[Clyde_Style]

5'5" at 260+ is not healthy

That sounds like a square human being.

[boomann21]

5'5" at 260+ is not healthy

That sounds like a square human being.

[Woodsanity]

That obesity rate, is there any charts/articles that seperate males/females?

Personally, i can say im quite slender..

But by scrolling down my own Facebok newsfeed, alot of the guys are skinny, "brolic", or just a bit "chubby"

But my female friends, its seems to be either thick, chubby or obese.....with a few slender girls making an appearance every so often

In short...it seems to be a chick problem..

There are more obese men than women actually. Don't remember the exact numbers and it would vary from study to study but its pretty conclusive that more men are obese in the U.S.
Also your facebook feed is a pretty dam small sample size lol.

Women have a harder time losing weight then men but they are more concerned about losing weight for various reasons.

[Never Wrong]

Bro, my girl is like 5'5 and 260lbs + so I know how you feel.

OMFG, speechless...

The reactions here are snippet. I see many people with bigger partners walking about the streets and know they are the real gm poster type. My gf may be big but it's not like some of y'all don't have a big girls too or you delusional about her actual weight. We had a son together and she exploded from 190lb to just over 260lbs, that happens. She's an apple body shape which means her thighs and butt are just fine but she carries the flap right above her waist. I concentrate on the lower portion so I'm set...

[Brownsville's Finest]

Ahhhh the sad life of dealing with a thick chick.

We should all drink a cold brew in memory of the past life you lived in, for you shall now live in a life reminiscing of past achievements.


She's not ging to get back to that original shape man. Like you said she got too comfy & that usually happens in relationships whether it's the guy or the girl. Shawty is gonna decide to lose the weight then go back to being comfortable & chillin. She gonna decide okay I'm finally going to lose this weight, then she's gonna relapse & go back to chillin. Trust me I know from TWO past situations. One was black, the other was spanish.

Smh.

exactly this is the problem with thick chicks

[mdemers938]

Dude, THREAD OF THE YEAR right here bro. This **** was both enlightening and **** hilarious!

I've never had this problem, but man--- I think you handled it the right way.

Everyone who is calling this dude shallow is full of ****!!! Physical attraction is 90% of a relationship. If you disagree, let me ask you--- if you were single, would you be seeking out fat chicks at the bar? NO (unless you were 30 burs deep). A girl who takes care of her body is extremely attractive and it shows that she is trying for you.

This dude did everything he could to hint that his chick needed to lose some **** weight and she called his bluff! In turn, he CAME THROUGH WITH HIS WORD!!! WAY TO BE A MAN BROTHA!!! She had to know you weren't **** around. YOU wear the **** pants.

Enough of this "weight doesn't matter because she gets me" bull from some of you--- there is no excuse that she can't get her ass in a gym or go out for a run for an hour instead of pounding beers on the couch watching television.

THIS IS WHY AMERICA IS FAT, everyone wants to look good- but no one wants to put in the hard work. Just like everyone wants to be rich, but no one wants to put in the work.

In the 50's, if a father and son saw a man driving down the street in a nice car and suit, the father would say to his son "now see son, if you work hard and bust your ass you can have that!". NOWADAYS when this happens a kid just says "HEY WHY DOES HE HAVE A NICE CAR? I DESERVE ONE TOO!".

[gethigh]

This thread has the potential to be one of the all time greats.