OT - My girl got fat

[NoStatsGuy]

all time classic

[NYKinMIA]

zombie thread!

I remember this one

[Moose]

She used to be perfectly thick when I first met her. She toed that line between thick and fat perfectly. Over the last year shes gained mad weight. Like 40 pounds. Our sex life has suffered as a result. I find it harder and harder to stay erect when we get busy. I often have to peetend Im banging a hot model chick just maintain my boner. Shes obviously gotten way too comfy with me and now Im afraid Im gonna end up leaving her or cheating on her. I still love her to death but I cant spend my life with a fat girl, shallow as that sounds. Any yall ever been in this position or know anybody who was?

It rarely gets better and if it does, it likely won't be with you (she may lose weight after a breakup, etc)

My rec would be to move on. You can't fake desire. Enjoy the single life and then when you find a girl you actually like to chill and have fun with, make sure her values lineup with yours in terms of fitness and wanting to maintain looks

Maybe avoid thicc chicks knowing skinny/average girls will likely put on weight and thicc chicks have a better chance of getting fat

Shallow or not, if that's what you want, don't deny yourself of it. I think it may be worse if you force a relationship and waste someone's time

Good luck

Edit: Lolol I should have checked the date before posting. Hope it all worked out lol