Capn'O wrote:Im Coming Home wrote:Most people here agree, yet they're still somehow here after posting homophobic images and just overall doing the same stuff they've been doing for 3+ years now. I mean they had to get their own thread created because they couldn't stop mentioning former players. I just don't understand it, they must have some dirt on the mods at this point. Only explanation, especially when more long time standing posters have gotten banned for much much less.
Taking this post to Hamsterdam which, it should be clear to you now, was not just meant for one poster. I'm keeping this in public as I think some of this response will be informative to other posters in how to best interact with the team. But also because it started public and when you're on the team you can't really defend yourself here without deepening the issue. In my retirement leisure however...
Dude, when you file a report you need to give the mod team a minute to cook. These indicting attacks and PMs on the mod team do nothing but prolong action because then they have to address them in addition to considering the reported posts etc. The above is a board violation of "backseat moderating" which could, and given the nature of the attacks probably should, get _you_ dinged. Same with firing back at the offender (derailment and often personal attacks), where mods then have to look at the composite of actions instead of just the instigator, assuming the instigator is even the reported post in question.
With that, a response can't happen immediately. Once the report is filed, a mod needs to be on the forum to see it. From there, if a mod thinks it requires greater action than we can administer (we can only ban up to 12 hrs on our own), we bring it to the team, bring it to Howard, and wait on his availability to take action. Then we have to deal with blowback on the board often including multiple PMs sent to our entire team, where we have to discuss who sent what to whom and ensure we're responding in cohesion. In total, each incident can amount to literally hours of work per mod. We're not on here 24/7 and we don't always have hours of time at our disposal.
It was a PM chain from you that was the culminating instance that led to me throwing in the towel as a mod. My daughter, who has severe anxiety, and I had woken up at 430 in the morning to fly back east to visit our nephew for the first time. We ended up missing our flight and had to rebook on a multi-stop flight plan that landed us at midnight, meaning we didn't get to bed until about 2am. So almost a full day in transit. So partway through the trek I log in and see a bunch of reports and go to the threads and find that both sides have made posts that warrant action and it's like - do I spend my time in the airport ignoring my exhausted, stressed daughter as we go through this tough day to clean up the thread and then deal with the aftermath... or not. Then when I'm finally up in the morning and able to spend a little time on this I open my PMs to an indicting, personal PM like the message above from you and it's like... why am I doing this. I'm not getting paid. The hours and hours I put in gaining support for this thread and trying to clean up the forum afterwards still lead to that kind of disrespect accusing me of being paid off or dirty somehow. So I didn't. There was a second (third?) PM that I didn't even open. I went and spent time with my brother, met my nephew, and went about my vacation day.
That wasn't the first straw by any means but it was the last straw and I decided I wasn't going to do it anymore. Like in law enforcement, mods spend 95% of our time on like 5% of the posters who are allegedly part of this community. Grown ass men who get into unceasing squabbles over crap posted on a basketball message board and have to call in the po po to handle it while the rest of the community dwindles, largely in part to that dynamic. Like... just file the report and stop engaging.
From there, give these mods time to cook and if you do have to touch base, do it with respect that they're dealing with this **** when they can. Don't give 'em any reason to look at your actions and if you have to blow off steam... copy and paste that **** over here where by and large mods won't touch it.
This thread should be poppin', frankly. A huge percentage of the posts I've seen lately belong here, if anywhere.
All good Cap I talked to JFGully today about it all and we have a positive discussion.
The whole "give mods time to cook" thing is a bit misleading too as plenty of people have followed mods request to "report the post and things will get done" yet it's been going on for 3+ years and it feels like no action taken multiple times. I'm not the only poster who felt like we were being ignored over and over again through the years when the people clearly were breaking rules, being toxic and antagonizing others and they would still be posting the next day. I've seen mods issue warnings in public to posters saying last warning and then they continue to act the same way and get another last warning over and over.
But as I said I talked to JVGully and it was a positive discussion about PMing mods instead of being public about grievances.
























