NY2TheBay wrote:Greenie wrote:NY2TheBay wrote:Seems like it could be temporary which I hope it is. Relationships are tough, man. Takes a lot of sacrifice by both sides. This is going to be a trying offseason for melo, but I dont feel bad for the man. He lives lavishly and has a beautiful son, hes blessed beyond belief.
What does that have to do with him losing his spouse? Money isn't everything.
I would give up money for my husband.
There are many people that go throughout life and never find their soul mate or true love. I would give up my money for it as well, as would many people. Stay blessed.
He has the money to ensure his son is set up for success despite any detours that would arise from the marriage. Divorces mainly occur over finances, in turn the finances directly affect the children.
I sure dont feel bad for the man now, I definitely do for LaLa and the kid.
Money cant buy love or happiness, it can buy a damn good lawyer and many problems. But money can make sure the kid goes to the best schools and has all the proper means to succeed.
Money is really only un-important when you have it.
Since Im on the topic, the no. 1 reason marriages dissolve is over finances. The ones that would give up their money for their spouse, by the stats, would be putting their marriage at serious risk. That doesnt mean all, and I said I would do the same, but given the stats, in the world we live in would be fighting an uphill battle.