Guano wrote:realgm knicks forum is one of the last places on this sh*tty planet I would come to for advice on females.
You're right. The last place would probably be the Raptors forum.
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Guano wrote:realgm knicks forum is one of the last places on this sh*tty planet I would come to for advice on females.
DaGawd wrote:That 3 day wait rule is bs..
HarthorneWingo wrote:DaGawd wrote:That 3 day wait rule is bs..
Damn right. They want to hear from you right away so that they you they got you by the balls.
Then just start saying "yes" to everything she wants.
BKlutch wrote:HarthorneWingo wrote:DaGawd wrote:That 3 day wait rule is bs..
Damn right. They want to hear from you right away so that they you they got you by the balls.
Then just start saying "yes" to everything she wants.
Some girls have this weird fetish. They don't have what you think they do between their legs - it's really an ATM deposit slot.
HarthorneWingo wrote:BKlutch wrote:HarthorneWingo wrote:
Damn right. They want to hear from you right away so that they you they got you by the balls.
Then just start saying "yes" to everything she wants.
Some girls have this weird fetish. They don't have what you think they do between their legs - it's really an ATM deposit slot.
BKlutch keeping it real.
Nostrand Ave wrote:I was checking out this check at some eatery. But I got zero eye contact or response. She left and that was over. But all of a sudden I got a strong sense another chick was checking me out. I looked over but I couldn't get a sense of how she looked from my vantage point. So I decided to leave to the rest room and while leaving out the door I could check her out. I went into the restroom and after 5 mins left and there she was and she said "Hi" while smiling at me. She was cute. So I left the store. And walking outside the store, I was like "wait, let me approach." I felt strong vibes that she was interested in me. So I waited for her outside the store. Bad move right there? Is that creepy?
Anyway, she came out the store and I approached. We chatted for like 5 minutes and I got her number. I called the next day and got voice mail and left a message. 2 days later (yesterday) I texted her and no response. So I've pretty much moved on. But just for future references, did I mess up? I want some constructive criticism.
Starks wrote:Nostrand Ave wrote:I was checking out this check at some eatery. But I got zero eye contact or response. She left and that was over. But all of a sudden I got a strong sense another chick was checking me out. I looked over but I couldn't get a sense of how she looked from my vantage point. So I decided to leave to the rest room and while leaving out the door I could check her out. I went into the restroom and after 5 mins left and there she was and she said "Hi" while smiling at me. She was cute. So I left the store. And walking outside the store, I was like "wait, let me approach." I felt strong vibes that she was interested in me. So I waited for her outside the store. Bad move right there? Is that creepy?
Anyway, she came out the store and I approached. We chatted for like 5 minutes and I got her number. I called the next day and got voice mail and left a message. 2 days later (yesterday) I texted her and no response. So I've pretty much moved on. But just for future references, did I mess up? I want some constructive criticism.
OK I didn't read any reply so I might be repeating a previous answer but still:
This one is easy as it gets: case was over as soon as you left the venue only to wait for her outside. Why? cause by doing this you basically conveyed all the wrong signs nearly every girl picks up, consciously or not.
Here are the signs (not saying you're like this in real life, just what she probably felt): she says hi and you leave? you're a guy who crumbles under pressure and run away from tension. You ended up waiting for her outside? so not only do you lack confidence and spontaneity, but you're also hesitant when it comes to your decision making as a man.
All of those traits just turns a woman off, there's no way around it, and trust me they can see through us like it's second nature. Even moreso the cute ones.
Not to mention, thinking too much in this type of situation just makes you more nervous than you'd be if you were to act spontaneously. You might have said some weird/awkward things to her because you acted kind of needy.
That's my take anyway, nothing that can't be fixed for the next time
Nostrand Ave wrote:Starks wrote:Nostrand Ave wrote:I was checking out this check at some eatery. But I got zero eye contact or response. She left and that was over. But all of a sudden I got a strong sense another chick was checking me out. I looked over but I couldn't get a sense of how she looked from my vantage point. So I decided to leave to the rest room and while leaving out the door I could check her out. I went into the restroom and after 5 mins left and there she was and she said "Hi" while smiling at me. She was cute. So I left the store. And walking outside the store, I was like "wait, let me approach." I felt strong vibes that she was interested in me. So I waited for her outside the store. Bad move right there? Is that creepy?
Anyway, she came out the store and I approached. We chatted for like 5 minutes and I got her number. I called the next day and got voice mail and left a message. 2 days later (yesterday) I texted her and no response. So I've pretty much moved on. But just for future references, did I mess up? I want some constructive criticism.
OK I didn't read any reply so I might be repeating a previous answer but still:
This one is easy as it gets: case was over as soon as you left the venue only to wait for her outside. Why? cause by doing this you basically conveyed all the wrong signs nearly every girl picks up, consciously or not.
Here are the signs (not saying you're like this in real life, just what she probably felt): she says hi and you leave? you're a guy who crumbles under pressure and run away from tension. You ended up waiting for her outside? so not only do you lack confidence and spontaneity, but you're also hesitant when it comes to your decision making as a man.
All of those traits just turns a woman off, there's no way around it, and trust me they can see through us like it's second nature. Even moreso the cute ones.
Not to mention, thinking too much in this type of situation just makes you more nervous than you'd be if you were to act spontaneously. You might have said some weird/awkward things to her because you acted kind of needy.
That's my take anyway, nothing that can't be fixed for the next time
I was supposed to start talking to her as she was about to enter the restroom? I don't understand this.
BKlutch wrote:HarthorneWingo wrote:BKlutch wrote:Some girls have this weird fetish. They don't have what you think they do between their legs - it's really an ATM deposit slot.
BKlutch keeping it real.
Well you see, I was a kid when I married my ex wife. I thought that was what was supposed to be there. At the divorce, the label on it changed to "Put all your money here, then walk away. All future earnings can be deposited by mail."
NightbreeD wrote:Guano wrote:realgm knicks forum is one of the last places on this sh*tty planet I would come to for advice on females.
You're right. The last place would probably be the Raptors forum.
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Chanel Bomber wrote:This board really is full of bad people.
NightbreeD wrote:Guano wrote:realgm knicks forum is one of the last places on this sh*tty planet I would come to for advice on females.
You're right. The last place would probably be the Raptors forum.
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HarthorneWingo wrote:BKlutch wrote:HarthorneWingo wrote:
BKlutch keeping it real.
Well you see, I was a kid when I married my ex wife. I thought that was what was supposed to be there. At the divorce, the label on it changed to "Put all your money here, then walk away. All future earnings can be deposited by mail."
It's a hard lesson some of my friends and family went threw too. I was always a little leery myself, obviously. I just saw too many miserable couples.
symbiotic wrote:Look on the bright side.
You live in the CITY (I presume) where you can meet 5-30 more at any given moment.
Go to Coney Island right now and work your magic. Talk to the girl sitting next to you in the N/R/Brighton Line train and ask her if she has a good phone/music player.
Nostrand Ave wrote:Starks wrote:Nostrand Ave wrote:I was checking out this check at some eatery. But I got zero eye contact or response. She left and that was over. But all of a sudden I got a strong sense another chick was checking me out. I looked over but I couldn't get a sense of how she looked from my vantage point. So I decided to leave to the rest room and while leaving out the door I could check her out. I went into the restroom and after 5 mins left and there she was and she said "Hi" while smiling at me. She was cute. So I left the store. And walking outside the store, I was like "wait, let me approach." I felt strong vibes that she was interested in me. So I waited for her outside the store. Bad move right there? Is that creepy?
Anyway, she came out the store and I approached. We chatted for like 5 minutes and I got her number. I called the next day and got voice mail and left a message. 2 days later (yesterday) I texted her and no response. So I've pretty much moved on. But just for future references, did I mess up? I want some constructive criticism.
OK I didn't read any reply so I might be repeating a previous answer but still:
This one is easy as it gets: case was over as soon as you left the venue only to wait for her outside. Why? cause by doing this you basically conveyed all the wrong signs nearly every girl picks up, consciously or not.
Here are the signs (not saying you're like this in real life, just what she probably felt): she says hi and you leave? you're a guy who crumbles under pressure and run away from tension. You ended up waiting for her outside? so not only do you lack confidence and spontaneity, but you're also hesitant when it comes to your decision making as a man.
All of those traits just turns a woman off, there's no way around it, and trust me they can see through us like it's second nature. Even moreso the cute ones.
Not to mention, thinking too much in this type of situation just makes you more nervous than you'd be if you were to act spontaneously. You might have said some weird/awkward things to her because you acted kind of needy.
That's my take anyway, nothing that can't be fixed for the next time
I was supposed to start talking to her as she was about to enter the restroom? I don't understand this.