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Re: O.T.- Is it aggressive to take a women friend as a guest to a wedding? 

Post#161 » by 2010 » Wed Jun 13, 2018 11:08 am

There are many reasons a girl may be interested in you and take you to the strip club for your b-day:

* She genuinely isn't the jealous type or the type to be trippin' and just wants you to have a good time on your born day

* She likes girls and could possibly be open to a Steph Curry

* She wants the strip club to be the appetizer that sets the mood while she is the main course afterwards

* She might be the type who is like "one of the guys" meaning she may not be pursuing a relationship with you, but is down for a friends w/ benefits situation and nothing more

* Lastly, maybe she just wanna see how you operate around women in a sexually charged environment. Checking your confidence levels. Since you not picking up on her hints she could think you need a mental Viagra and maybe in her eyes the strip club will do the trick

But to me, this is no indicator of lack of interest. If anything, I see it as a confirmation of interest on some level.
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Re: O.T.- Is it aggressive to take a women friend as a guest to a wedding? 

Post#162 » by EricAnderson » Wed Jun 13, 2018 1:45 pm

Are We Ther Yet wrote:Yo! Who mans is dis? :lol: Why would she want to take you to a strip club? She's either freaky...testing you in some twisted female logic....or trying to get you laid/handjob whatever so you don't push up on her. Other than those 3 reasons...maybe you're in the friend zone hardcore.

Would need more background on the relationship and just in general what kind of chick she is.


YEah part of me thinks her wanting to take me to a stripclub is almost a friend zoning lol it’s like she’s saying pay attention to these other women not me..

But if she’s truly was friendzoning me and trying to show she has no interest taking me to a stripclub then spending the night with me at a wedding is weird way to try to send that message there would be much easier ways to show me she’s not interested
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Re: O.T.- Is it aggressive to take a women friend as a guest to a wedding? 

Post#163 » by EricAnderson » Wed Jun 13, 2018 1:52 pm

2010 wrote:There are many reasons a girl may be interested in you and take you to the strip club for your b-day:

* She genuinely isn't the jealous type or the type to be trippin' and just wants you to have a good time on your born day

* She likes girls and could possibly be open to a Steph Curry

* She wants the strip club to be the appetizer that sets the mood while she is the main course afterwards

* She might be the type who is like "one of the guys" meaning she may not be pursuing a relationship with you, but is down for a friends w/ benefits situation and nothing more

* Lastly, maybe she just wanna see how you operate around women in a sexually charged environment. Checking your confidence levels. Since you not picking up on her hints she could think you need a mental Viagra and maybe in her eyes the strip club will do the trick

But to me, this is no indicator of lack of interest. If anything, I see it as a confirmation of interest on some level.


Like I said part of me wonders if she’s friendzoning me by doing this wheter consciously or unconsciously saying pay attention to other women not me.

On the other hand if she’s trying to tell me I’m friendzone taking me to a stripclub then going to a wedding and staying overnight with me is a extremely odd way of doing that lol
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Re: O.T.- Is it aggressive to take a women friend as a guest to a wedding? 

Post#164 » by 2010 » Wed Jun 13, 2018 2:06 pm

EricAnderson wrote:
2010 wrote:There are many reasons a girl may be interested in you and take you to the strip club for your b-day:

* She genuinely isn't the jealous type or the type to be trippin' and just wants you to have a good time on your born day

* She likes girls and could possibly be open to a Steph Curry

* She wants the strip club to be the appetizer that sets the mood while she is the main course afterwards

* She might be the type who is like "one of the guys" meaning she may not be pursuing a relationship with you, but is down for a friends w/ benefits situation and nothing more

* Lastly, maybe she just wanna see how you operate around women in a sexually charged environment. Checking your confidence levels. Since you not picking up on her hints she could think you need a mental Viagra and maybe in her eyes the strip club will do the trick

But to me, this is no indicator of lack of interest. If anything, I see it as a confirmation of interest on some level.


Like I said part of me wonders if she’s friendzoning me by doing this wheter consciously or unconsciously saying pay attention to other women not me.

On the other hand if she’s trying to tell me I’m friendzone taking me to a stripclub then going to a wedding and staying overnight with me is a extremely odd way of doing that lol


Read everything I wrote over again.

Your main issue is confidence level. Stop assuming the worst. The strip club invite does not have to equate to a friendzoning. I have been taken to stripclubs by a female and smashed right after. I also have been taken to a stripclub by a female and we left with one of the strippers (threeeeeee point goal, Steph Currryyyyyyy).

Relax man, you got this! :lol:
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Re: O.T.- Is it aggressive to take a women friend as a guest to a wedding? 

Post#165 » by El Poochio » Wed Jun 13, 2018 2:24 pm

EricAnderson wrote:
2010 wrote:There are many reasons a girl may be interested in you and take you to the strip club for your b-day:

* She genuinely isn't the jealous type or the type to be trippin' and just wants you to have a good time on your born day

* She likes girls and could possibly be open to a Steph Curry

* She wants the strip club to be the appetizer that sets the mood while she is the main course afterwards

* She might be the type who is like "one of the guys" meaning she may not be pursuing a relationship with you, but is down for a friends w/ benefits situation and nothing more

* Lastly, maybe she just wanna see how you operate around women in a sexually charged environment. Checking your confidence levels. Since you not picking up on her hints she could think you need a mental Viagra and maybe in her eyes the strip club will do the trick

But to me, this is no indicator of lack of interest. If anything, I see it as a confirmation of interest on some level.


Like I said part of me wonders if she’s friendzoning me by doing this wheter consciously or unconsciously saying pay attention to other women not me.

On the other hand if she’s trying to tell me I’m friendzone taking me to a stripclub then going to a wedding and staying overnight with me is a extremely odd way of doing that lol


I am going to save you a lot of time and headache OP

Ask her if she is friendzoning you or whatever that means
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Re: O.T.- Is it aggressive to take a women friend as a guest to a wedding? 

Post#166 » by Are We Ther Yet » Wed Jun 13, 2018 2:52 pm

EricAnderson wrote:
Are We Ther Yet wrote:Yo! Who mans is dis? :lol: Why would she want to take you to a strip club? She's either freaky...testing you in some twisted female logic....or trying to get you laid/handjob whatever so you don't push up on her. Other than those 3 reasons...maybe you're in the friend zone hardcore.

Would need more background on the relationship and just in general what kind of chick she is.


YEah part of me thinks her wanting to take me to a stripclub is almost a friend zoning lol it’s like she’s saying pay attention to these other women not me..

But if she’s truly was friendzoning me and trying to show she has no interest taking me to a stripclub then spending the night with me at a wedding is weird way to try to send that message there would be much easier ways to show me she’s not interested


Ask her out on a real date my man. You obviously feel something for her. What's the worst that can happen? She says no? You will get your answer and will be able to move on. No sense trying to decipher hidden meanings in her behavior.

That's what I would do. GROW A PAIR!!! :lol: Women usually prefer confidence and stability...not timid indecision. :thumbsup:
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Re: O.T.- Is it aggressive to take a women friend as a guest to a wedding? 

Post#167 » by Buttah304 » Wed Jun 13, 2018 3:37 pm

2010 wrote:There are many reasons a girl may be interested in you and take you to the strip club for your b-day:

* She genuinely isn't the jealous type or the type to be trippin' and just wants you to have a good time on your born day

* She likes girls and could possibly be open to a Steph Curry

* She wants the strip club to be the appetizer that sets the mood while she is the main course afterwards

* She might be the type who is like "one of the guys" meaning she may not be pursuing a relationship with you, but is down for a friends w/ benefits situation and nothing more

* Lastly, maybe she just wanna see how you operate around women in a sexually charged environment. Checking your confidence levels. Since you not picking up on her hints she could think you need a mental Viagra and maybe in her eyes the strip club will do the trick

But to me, this is no indicator of lack of interest. If anything, I see it as a confirmation of interest on some level.


Everything you said is so spot on its scary. But if I had to choose one it would be the bold.

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