When I first heard the news, I was shocked and speechless. I remained shocked for several hours, and then I weeped. I never feel this way about the deaths of famous people, but now I understand what it was like for those who went through their JFK, Princess Diana, Prince, Michael Jackson, etc. Not comparing this to 9-11, but this is another event in which I will always remember the who, what, when, where and how of my discovery of it for the first time.
I'm 39 years old, and I essentially grew up with Kobe. I witnessed his maturation from a teenager into a man, from potential into one of basketball's all-time greats...so many great memories and moments during what I consider to be the peak of NBA basketball as a sport.
I never post on RealGM anymore. One of the reasons why is because in the past few years, I made a decision to begin fulfilling my potential as a person. I ran the NYC marathon at 36 years old (training for my 2nd marathon right now). I learned to ride a bike at 36. After being divorced and given up for many years, I met my soulmate on a language learning app, moved halfway across the world to pursue a relationship with her, and we are now happily married. I tried to learn swimming at 37 (failed so far, but will try again soon). I learned to play the ukulele at 38 (proposed with it and just performed on it for our anniversary).
I still have so many dreams I'm currently pursuing and want to pursue. And for me, Kobe's passing is a reminder that life is short. He is a reminder to pursue your dreams and passions with all that you've got, no matter the situation, no matter how big or small, no matter the timeline. For me, that is the legacy through which I view him for having. That's the impact he's made on me. It's truly beyond his accomplishments as a basketball player. How he lived his life during his career and post-career is an inspiration that I will carry with me as I continue to live out my dreams to the fullest.