mjkvol wrote:Man, fans are just built differently today. I grew up a fan of all four teams here, and they've all gone through times way worse than what we've had here the last few seasons.
I'm not saying to not be unhappy and vent, but all of this "I'm done" and "I wish I rooted for a different team" stuff is just bizarre to me. What, we only follow a team if they're exactly as we want them to be?
I don't care a fraction as much as I did 30-40 years ago - money and mercenary players tok care of that - but the idea of rooting for another team just doesn't register.
Guess it's the age of social media and the way sports are not local like they were, but the idea of adopted and temporary fandom is just strange.
But I've never been a "fan of the jersey" - I need to like the team to root for them. I'll take time away if the team is unlikable, but find another team? C'mon.
I used to be that way when I was younger, but as I've gotten older I've totally changed on it and now I totally get why fans would change teams. Do the math. One team wins per year, so as a fan you have a 1 of 30 chance(or in the NFL 1 in 32 chance) of being a fan who gets joy at the end of a season. So 99% of fans every year are going to experience heartbreak and no supreme joy when watching their team play. They'll have games here or there where they get joy, but no ultimate joy.
I used to believe if you win one championship, it makes up for all the anxiety and heartbreak. And a fan may feel like that in the moment when your team wins a title. But once the next season starts you realize that it doesn't. A few days of elation doesn't make up for years of anxiety, angst, heartbreak. So if a fan wants to be happy and is tired of not getting any joy out of their team, frankly, I don't see why they wouldn't change teams.
I know people who have changed teams and are genuinely happy having done so.
And honestly, from my perspective, no team deserves blind loyalty. Why? Just because their name happens to say "Philadelphia" in front of it? You don't owe them anything. They don't care about you or anyone else. You're a dollar sign to them, nothing more.
It's funny, we, as fans, subconsciously "hate" our rivals when they have success. But if you think about it, it makes more sense to hate your own team when they fail rather than your rivals for having success. All your rivals are doing is what they're supposed to be doing. To try and win. But your own team is what's causing you your heartbreak. The Celtics didn't hurt you guys yesterday, the Sixers did. Years of ineptitude and incompetence led to yesterday. And you should be furious at the Sixers for that.
I've said it before, I honestly loathe the Sixers as an organization. I truly hate them. Not "ha ha I hate them!" in a joking way. No, I mean I legitimately dislike them like I do the Dallas Cowboys and NY Mets. They're the team that stole the joy of Sixers basketball away from me. No one else. Them. They're the ones who took what was a promising future and destroyed it. That is all them. And I'll never forgive them for it. And at this point, Joel Embiid is the only thing remaining keeping me even remotely neutral on them. If Embiid got traded tomorrow, I'd instantly become a Sixers hater and root for them to lose every game they play until Josh Harris sells the team and they get new ownership in there. Because frankly, I find this organization detestable from top to bottom.