ArthurVandelay wrote:Raps Next GM wrote:ArthurVandelay wrote:Is there a difference between:
A player demanding to be traded to just one team and making it known he’d be unhappy anywhere else thereby lowering trade value
Versus
A player lowering their trade value by making it known he would refuse to sign an extension with any new team
???
Massive difference!
Scenario 1 is a guy who has a made a commitment and is requesting to break that commitment, but will only accept one resolution that is only helpful to himself.
Scenario 2 is a guy who will accept being put in a completely different situation but is simply saying that he is not prepared to commit to this unknown long term.
The first is basically like your wife telling you she wants out of the marriage, but wants the kids, the house, the cars… and you should accept whatever she is willing to let you have.
You want to find a win-win situation but she only wants it her way whether you like it or not.
The second is like you have a longtime girlfriend and your relationship is struggling. You think buying a home together will fix your problems but she doesn’t want to make that commitment given how precarious things are between you.
She tells you to buy a home if you want, but she is not ready to co-sign on the mortgage.
Thanks for your insights…sincerely.
Only thing I’d point out is both Lillard and Siakam’s actions have undermined their respective teams. Definitely a debate to be had about to what extent.
Your analogy made me think of the old joke:
Why are divorces so expensive?
Because they’re worth it! Lol
Good discussion. Interesting to compare the Siakam and Dame situation. I don't see Pascal as undermining the team. When you leaked your intentions to trade him the blame is on you for not handling your communications. It's not the responsibility of that employee to accommodate your error, especially when it impacts their life directly.














