tontoz wrote:payitforward wrote:tontoz wrote:There are only roughly 3 million Muslims in the US. There are over 25 million of them in Saudi Arabia alone. Has it occurred to you that Muslims here aren't very representative of Muslims in the Middle East? Or maybe that Muslims here have learned not to share their true beliefs with members of other religions?
Oh tontoz... So, even experience doesn't mean anything?
Maybe it's just that you don't follow this thread? SFAM has made it clear that he's spent a good amount of time in Islamic countries, & linked to material about those times. I don't have as extensive experience as he seems to, but I've got a significant amount. Trust me, it's worth something.
If I remember right, you (like me) are Jewish. Anti-Islamic prejudice (if I'm reading you right -- feel free to correct me if I'm not) on the part of Jews is one of my least favorite phenomena. Above all because there were a thousand or more years when Christians were killing Jews right & left while Islam protected us. By far the best time & place for Jews in
European history was on the Iberian peninsula when it was under Islamic control. I'm sure you know the name Maimonides. What language did he write in? (Arabic) etc. etc. etc.
I am not Jewish but it sure seems like Muslims detest Jews now.
I have a feeling that Armenians might not share your views about Muslim tolerance.
I know sfam has spent time in other countries and I find it comical that he just assumes that Muslims who decide to immigrate here either already share our values or will suddenly change their values after moving here. The more likely scenario is that they want to come here for financial/security reasons and will bring their crazy af values with them.
Actually, your first point isn't correct. E.g. I know a lot of Muslims. As well, I have firsthand experience of lots & lots of business deals among/between Jews & Muslims. I've been in meetings where Jews & Muslims work together easily & productively. &, finally, I have a reasonable number of Islamic friends.
IOW, you don't know what you are talking about in this case, which btw you are not required to know anything about the subject. It's just happenstance that I do. But, given knowing nothing, it would maybe have been a good idea not to make any blithe assertions, not even under the cover of an "it sure seems." Especially if they are slams on a huge number of people none of whom you know.
The Armenian holocaust by the Turks was awful. But it had nothing to do with Islam. I take it you are a Christian. How much worse was what the Germans did than what the Turks did? You ready to issue the same blanket condemnation of Christians as you did of Muslims? Of course not -- nor should you. In either case.
As to Muslims who have immigrated here, do you know any? Isn't at least some knowledge required to make your statement? Could you tell me some of the values of the Islamic religion? Have you read the Koran? Didn't Jerry Lee Lewis marry his cousin when she was 12? Was he a Muslim?
As to marriage in Islam, listen up: what Islamic law says is that to marry a female must have menstruated, & she must be ready physically & psychologically (i.e. emotionally) for a sexual relationship, to bear children, & to be Mother of a family. As well, for any marriage to be legal, there must unforced, sincere consent on the part of the female; for consent to considered "sincere," she must be capable of understanding the relationship she is entering. Nor can her parent or guardian force her to marry. That's Islamic law. Perhaps the first piece of Islamic law you've ever had explained to you.
No doubt, however, you are thinking of things like this: in Yemen it is legal to marry a 9 year old girl. I am sure you & I have the same opinion of this law (& I'll ask you to watch what you say, tontoz, as I have daughters). But this is a national law, a disgusting one w/o a doubt. It's not Islamic law.
As to arranged marriages in general, have you ever known such a couple? I know a few; happy & in love in the cases I know. In fact, much of the time (I've been told), a late teenage boy and girl fall for one another and get their parents to "arrange" the marriage.
Are there horrors in the Islamic where grown men molest children? Sure. Are there men who sell their young daughters? Sure. &, you know what, tontoz? We have that kind of thing right here in America.
One of my best friends is a psychotherapist who for many years has worked with children who are the victims of sex abuse. It's almost always a family member, usually the Father. My friend has testified in
numerous cases, as well, in which a man has pimped out his daughters (in one case starting at age 4). These are all Christians, btw.
A few years ago, right here in the town where I live, we had a case of a pediatrician who had abused over 500 child patients. He's in prison now. You might be interested to know that he had been accused many times before finally being found out. For years, the local hospital & medical establishment closed around him, defending him & dismissing the accusations. He's a Christian, in case you wondered.
Long, long ago -- before Islam had been invented, before Christianity had been invented, before Jews were anything but "Judaeans" who (like all peoples) had their own God -- the Roman playright Plautus wrote:
Homo homini lupus est -- man is wolf to man. Sadly it's a fact. Try not to add to the trail of horrors, tontoz, by casually assigning something like 1.6 billion people, almost a quarter of all human beings, to the side of evil. It's kind of bad karma as they say in yet another religious tradition.