damecurry wrote:TheBallDoLie wrote:damecurry wrote:This (common) philosophy is very stupid on a multitude of levels.
What's stupid about it? If you don't agree it's stupid?
1. There is a difference between confidence and arrogance
2. "you can't be the best if you don't believe you are the best." Is a completely non-sensical statement. You must be confident and driven but you thinking your the best or not actually has nothing to do with your being the best.
3. Deluded confidence, hubris, typically only leads to bad things, to overextension, feelings of invulnerability, over-reaching. You know what you actually need to be the best? A sense of self-recognition, of being able to look out there and say "I'm clearly not the bests scorer cause I don't score the most, I'm clearly not the best all-around offensive player because every aspect of my production lags behind LBJ/KD and I'm clearly a mediocre at best defender so I've clearly got plenty of work to do to be amongst the true elite."
4. Even if you believe this, what is the benefit of broadcasting it to the world when there's no clear evidence to support it? At best it makes you look arrogant, at worst stupid and downright delusional. There's just no call for such a claim from Harden. Let the pundits/media/viewers decided subjective pointless bs about rank and whatnot, just go out and work your hardest at being your best and keep arrogant unfounded beliefs to yourself.
You make fair points. I didn't literally mean to be the best you only have to believe you are the best. Obviously a lot more goes into it. It's just a mentality most professional athletes have. It was a mentality I had as an athlete and I was taught to have as an athlete. Now obviously I didn't have the skills to make it to the NBA. But every time I walked out on the court, as a team we believed we were always better than the other team. Even if they were better than us record wise and obviously talent wise. I was taught as an athlete the minute you think your opponent is better is the minute you lost the game. Yes it was deluded confidence ant times, but so what. I felt it helped us play with a strong mentality. Which is what the coaches wanted. Maybe that is wrong, but it was just a mentality created when I was young. And obviously there are others ways to extract maximum effort from your players.
And same thing when I played one on one with somebody. If I played someone better than me I would always carry the mentality I was better than him at the time. Maybe it's stupid and dumb in your eyes but that's just how I feel. And with professional athletes I'm sure some of them carry this mentality all the time. As basketball is now not only just a game for them but their way of life.
Is James Harden the best all around player in the NBA. Hell no. But in my eyes I have no problem with him saying that. When Derrick Rose won MVP, he told everyone before that season he felt he could win MVP. "Why can't I win MVP of the league?", he said. In his mind he was the best player in the NBA. Now I'm not saying it was cause of that he won MVP. Cause it was mainly all the hard work he put in all summer long. But I have no doubt his deluded confidence helped him play at the high level he did all season, cause in his mind he was the best player on the court every night. And to be fair most nights he played like it.
James Harden is just carrying a high confidence about himself. If you see it as arrogant fine, I get that. And it is a little arrogant. And if you don't like or respect that well fine, that's your opinion. From everything I read about Harden he is a hard worker. He might think he is the best all around player, but it doesn't prevent him from working hard on his game. If I truly felt it affected his game I would feel different. I don't think this way of thinking is "STUPID" like you said. Even if you don't agree.