floppypoppy wrote:you are not the authority on racism.
sounded racist to many.. but the white guy says it's not. oh ok.
you need to be more self aware and stop this clown sh#t bro
I by no means feel I'm an authority on racism.
I said two things though:
1: It wasn't Danny Ferry's words, but someone else's words. This was conclusively, beyond a shadow of a doubt proven.
This is a factual correction, and people shouldn't be stating things about Ferry which are factually inaccurate and cast him in a much worse light than he deserves. Its ironic, because the actual author of these words got off with nothing.
2: I did not say it was okay. I said it was wrong and insensitive. I said it wasn't abhorrent in my opinion.
I understand why you may not want to have a nuanced discussion about how racist something is. Any time you get into that discussion it can sound like justification or excusing racism which wasn't my intent (Though I can see why it sounded that way).
If you want a nuanced discussion though, to me abhorrent racism would indicate malicious intent and hate vs ignorance and insensitivity. This sounds more like the second of those things.
The distinction is important because the first person whom has malicious intent and hate will likely never change barring some massive, unlikely intervention that shocks them out of their world view. The second person will very often change quickly and feel genuinely bad about their actions if they can be shown the impact of their words.
My wife is of another race, and I very much notice the massive amount of insensitivity there can be towards her race as well as a lot of weird looks / behavior from people that we get for being together.