sikma42 wrote:Vol wrote:basketballto wrote:What he did wasn't uncommon and some of your parents or grandparents did the same thing. To go after someone uneducated poor with a direct link to slavery who did what everyone around him did shows either you don't know or understand his story or want to punch down to make yourself feel better.
Yep. My grandma and grandpa got together at 14 and 19, and were married for over 60 years, until my grandma died 5 years ago. Gramps died 2 years later. RIP <3 They had 3 beautiful children, both of them worked full time jobs well past retirement age to support family, bought land and built their own homes. They were excellent role models. During one of our holiday parties one of my younger cousins once asked them about the age gap and they said age gaps like that weren't a big deal in those times.
I don’t want to comment on your family dynamic.
But this girl wasn’t even 14, she was 12. Is there an age where this doesn’t fit your world view re “that time”? Would it be different if she was 11? 10?
Just a very weird discussion. It was rape. She was a child.
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My personal opinion is that yes, 10 and 11 is too young. I guess I just felt the need to reminisce about my grandparents after reading the post I quoted.