tsherkin wrote:shotsquatch wrote:Childhood abuse leads to problems that persist throughout your life. Abuse during your formative years isn't something you grow out of.
I'm not using it as an excuse for his behavior. It's just an explanation I rarely see mentioned.
Right. It's an explanation. Everyone has explanations, but they matter only so much. Shaq's had it pretty good for a long time now. He's had the space and opportunity to grow and heal. He has not. He continues to take it out on others, and hasn't really grown his own knowledge or understanding of the game, etc. So no one really cares in the context of his quotes over other NBA players, because he's still just a dick. His history is sad, but there is a point where no one cares to hear about it anymore because it is just that, an explanation and not an excuse.
Excuses deflect responsibility. Explanations provide context.
The context of Shaq's childhood helps explain why he has a fragile ego and pathological need to criticize anyone he perceives as a threat. I find it hard to blame him for his behavior, since it seems rooted in childhood trauma.











































