Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women

[Bolts]

I would not be surprised if over time this issue becomes more of a problem for people in general. There is a large amount of porn showing that this sort of behavior works. As porn becomes more normalized and extreme young people get a skewed view of what really works.

I am not taking a position on porn here just that I think this problem will grow in the future. I would be damned confused if I was a teen and maybe without a father or any limitations on what I watched.

[jcsunsfan]

He joins the ranks of Milton Berle and many others.

he could open his own onlyfans account and get paid for it, just like all the girls do.

[bradybunch]

Money grab by the former SA employee.

It's highly inappropriate to flash anyone, but certainly not worthy of a big payout.

Ridiculous lawsuit incoming.

[SpiderX1016]

I'm glad the Spurs did what they did. It's sad people just dismiss it and think it's ok.

[Blame Rasho]

Money grab by the former SA employee.

It's highly inappropriate to flash anyone, but certainly not worthy of a big payout.

Ridiculous lawsuit incoming.

Great post… expect many more memorable posts from you in the future. Everyone is just being obtuse about this and you are the guy who is cutting thru the bs.

[Jabroni Lames]

Money grab by the former SA employee.

It's highly inappropriate to flash anyone, but certainly not worthy of a big payout.

Ridiculous lawsuit incoming.

I’m no lawyer, but from what I can see, indecent exposure is a misdemeanour offense, with most likely no jail time and a modest fine. Hard to see a victim getting a big payout for this type of offense.

[kg01]

I'm glad the Spurs did what they did. It's sad people just dismiss it and think it's ok.

It's really weird. Like some dudes need to have their mother victimized to grasp the gravity of something they refer to as 'no big deal'.

Even then, they'd probably comfort(sic) their own mom by telling her to get over it.

[Blame Rasho]

Money grab by the former SA employee.

It's highly inappropriate to flash anyone, but certainly not worthy of a big payout.

Ridiculous lawsuit incoming.

I’m no lawyer, but from what I can see, indecent exposure is a misdemeanour offense, with most likely no jail time and a modest fine. Hard to see a victim getting a big payout for this type of offense.

Or maybe someone he flashed was 16 or 17 and he needs to be a sex offender… no biggie.

[Salieri]

Every time a thread with this kind of subject pops up in the General Board, we are reminded that there is still a LOOOONG way ahead of us until some dudes around here begin to understand how unfit they are to pass judgment from their privileged perspectives on what should affect a woman.

Every. Single. Time.

The lack of empathy is astounding.

If you need to picture your daughter, mother, sister or wife suffering this in order to empathize, you're already showing an alarming lack of empathy. And those were the "least bad" of the posts. Look at the collection of wisdom pearls:

"Something something the Warriors", "something something Kobe", "I don't see it as that horrible", "thank goodness it's only this", "karma for pop and his virtue signaling agenda", "celebrities dance naked", "people watch porn", "it's not traumatic cuz I wouldn't be traumatized"...

Beautiful, totally unexpected landscape we're painting. I'm more shocked than Philip J. Fry.

[CIN-C-STAR]

Money grab by the former SA employee.

It's highly inappropriate to flash anyone, but certainly not worthy of a big payout.

Ridiculous lawsuit incoming.

I’m no lawyer, but from what I can see, indecent exposure is a misdemeanour offense, with most likely no jail time and a modest fine. Hard to see a victim getting a big payout for this type of offense.

Not sure punitive damages in a civil suit track that closely with the level of criminal charges.
So I agree w you; you are no lawyer

[kg01]

Or maybe someone he flashed was 16 or 17 and he needs to be a sex offender… no biggie.

I admire your attempt but I bet most of the responses will be "Hehe, I wish somebody woulda flashed me some junk when I were 16. Hehe haha"

Sad

[Priest24]

Lot of judgement in this thread without any true context. People are acting like he walked in the building and just flashed women in the halls. If the whole story comes out then we should make judgements.

[God Squad]

Money grab by the former SA employee.

It's highly inappropriate to flash anyone, but certainly not worthy of a big payout.

Ridiculous lawsuit incoming.

lol.

[jasonxxx102]

Money grab by the former SA employee.

It's highly inappropriate to flash anyone, but certainly not worthy of a big payout.

Ridiculous lawsuit incoming.

I’m no lawyer, but from what I can see, indecent exposure is a misdemeanour offense, with most likely no jail time and a modest fine. Hard to see a victim getting a big payout for this type of offense.

Or maybe someone he flashed was 16 or 17 and he needs to be a sex offender… no biggie.

It's a sex offense regardless of age, that's the issue.

[God Squad]

I'm going to wait for more information. We've seen this time and time again that without full context and information you can't pass judgement. We've seen with Bouknight, Richaun Holmes and many others before.

[Exp0sed]

I would not be surprised if over time this issue becomes more of a problem for people in general. There is a large amount of porn showing that this sort of behavior works. As porn becomes more normalized and extreme young people get a skewed view of what really works.

I am not taking a position on porn here just that I think this problem will grow in the future. I would be damned confused if I was a teen and maybe without a father or any limitations on what I watched.

my god some ppl seem to think backwards..


Porn has nothing to do it lol

boys learn early and hard to keep their junk to themselves, even to avoid some kind of accidental flash let alone flash a grown man's phallus to women they know or don't know in a public setting, probably coupled with gestures or god knows what

this guy is a predator, it has nothing to do with porn
Porn teaches ppl to flash their genitalia to strangers? get a grip

his predatory and deviant behavior may very well be rooted in some sort of sexual abuse or trauma and that might mitigate the punishment and give direction towards rehabilation but it's certainly not an excuse and it's our duty as a society to get predators away from boys, girls, men and women

If a person doesn't know the difference between the two, perhaps he needs to be in some institution or even locked up

[Exp0sed]

I’m no lawyer, but from what I can see, indecent exposure is a misdemeanour offense, with most likely no jail time and a modest fine. Hard to see a victim getting a big payout for this type of offense.

Or maybe someone he flashed was 16 or 17 and he needs to be a sex offender… no biggie.

It's a sex offense regardless of age, that's the issue.

exactly

perhaps he's a freaky dude who just flashes (bad enough) but usually...it doesn't stop there
complusive deviant behavior tends to escalate with age, further trauma etc.

[Quattro]

Money grab by the former SA employee.

It's highly inappropriate to flash anyone, but certainly not worthy of a big payout.

Ridiculous lawsuit incoming.

lol. Says who?

Are you seriously arguing that being flashed in the workplace by a fellow employee (and one who's FAR higher on the food chain than you are) isn't worthy of a civil suit?

[Lunartic]

Lets use your example, you glossed over what the actual trauma was, the fear that a man will harmlessly expose his penis to a crowded train? If you included something actually harmful I would understand your example. Have you never been exposed to someone's nude body without consent before? Does it haunt you?

This has to be a troll because nobody could read this thread and legitimately have this thought. You are slipping in the word "harmlessly" about sexual assault and saying "why's it so bad"? As has been stated numerous times in this thread, it's not about simply seeing someone's body, it's about the power dynamic in the situation. Imagine you're a woman who works for the Spurs and Josh Primo pulls his dick out with you in the room and stands in the doorway, and you don't know what he's going to do to you next but you know that you can't stop it, whatever it is. Do you still want to work for the Spurs? What about another NBA team where you're in the same situation but a different player? What about the next time you're alone in a room with a man period, knowing what happened last time you were and how you felt then? You don't understand that a woman who can't defend herself would be worried about that?

I'm not saying some people won't be traumatized especially considering we don't know the circumstances of the Primo situation, I'm just curious why people immediately claim humans are automatically traumatized solely bc they saw a part if human anatomy.
It's slightly puritanical. Again, dependent on circumstances which i know absolutely nothing about nor does anyone else.

Maybe you shouldn't be posting a devil's advocate opinion if you don't know the circumstances and don't understand it.

Ah and you do? Please educate us all concerning the cases in which Primo exposed himself.

I've repeatedly said, I don't have the facts of the case and the context matters. I'm not sure why reading my posts before responding is such a labor but I suggest you attempt it.

I actually have said a couple times that if Primo exposed himself in a car to a woman vs in a room alone obviously that is very different because it adds extreme dynamics.

This modern way of thinking is bizarre, "noooo don't question anything or have a discussion outside of platitudes! its dangerous to have a discussion concerning the context of a situation we have to be in lockstep!"

Having a 20 pages of "wow what a scumbag hes terrible women are traumatized!" might be a great read to you but it aint to me.

I'm not justifying what he did or defending it or even minimizing it, I was questioning the context in which the exposure happened. you don't have the facts so you invented a scenario in which he's blocking a door way and preventing a woman from escaping his sexual assault, that proves my point.

But here, just for you - to make it easier and so you're not forced to endure actual discussion, just stick with this;


"noooo hes a scumbag blah bkdihwdidhwd2'

[Sprewell4Three]

Primo made a huge mistake now he lost his job. Can’t do that, he has issue. Hopefully he can get these things resolved. 12 pages over this is excessive but shouldn’t be surprised.