Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women

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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#261 » by G R E Y » Mon Oct 31, 2022 5:59 pm

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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#262 » by jcsunsfan » Mon Oct 31, 2022 6:10 pm

Movies and social media treat this type of behavior as adolescent prankishness and tomfoolery. Girls flash people all the time. I have seen girls flashing traffic as I drive down the freeway. It's wrong. Its gross. He needs to face consequences, but as a culture we need to look in the mirror and realize that the deviance of our entire culture has created this stuff.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#263 » by Dirk » Mon Oct 31, 2022 6:11 pm

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Is there any info on what Primo actually did (in detail) and what exactly lead the Spurs to waive him? Or are we still reduced to speculating based on the generic idea of him exposing himself.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#264 » by skones » Mon Oct 31, 2022 6:15 pm

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Is there any info on what Primo actually did (in detail) and what exactly lead the Spurs to waive him? Or are we still reduced to speculating based on the generic idea of him exposing himself.


Waiting, but I'm sure tidbits have already made their way around the league. Would assume some level of detail has played into no one making a claim.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#265 » by Chinook » Mon Oct 31, 2022 6:26 pm

jcsunsfan wrote:Movies and social media treat this type of behavior as adolescent prankishness and tomfoolery. Girls flash people all the time. I have seen girls flashing traffic as I drive down the freeway. It's wrong. Its gross. He needs to face consequences, but as a culture we need to look in the mirror and realize that the deviance of our entire culture has created this stuff.


If Primo were streaking where he wasn't targeting people I'd buy an immaturity defense. Even if he had an OnlyFans account where consenting adults watch him do his thing, I'd probably go to bat for him. But cornering people or targeting folks who are forced to interact with you and showing them your genitals is way different. That is "degeneracy", but not because of the nudity. The flaunting of consent and the casual use of power to force experiences on others gets excused way too much. Girls flash has its own problems and can definitely rise to the same level of wrong under some circumstances. But Primo didn't do this because society told him sexuality is okay or whatever. If Primo wasn't lying, he's having trouble in large part because he hasn't been able to deal with his sexuality in a healthy way. He did this because society says if you're a big strong rich dude who has women with less power in your orbit, you can get away with this.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#266 » by Woodsanity » Mon Oct 31, 2022 6:27 pm

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Priest24 wrote:Lot of judgement in this thread without any true context. People are acting like he walked in the building and just flashed women in the halls. If the whole story comes out then we should make judgements.



What?! bro nooo you're justifying sexual assault how dare you bro nooooo!!!!

Who is actually surprised by this on a forum that says teams should blow it up after a single loss in game 3 of the regular season. It's all knee jerk reactions.

We both agree exposing your genitals to non-consenting people is wrong, illegal and morally bad, however, like you said - context modulates the just how bad it is. Waiting for some more information is a good idea. Waiving him from the team is also a good idea.


If it was a one off thing sure but it seems like it has happened several times already. When there is smoke there is fire.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#267 » by QingJames » Mon Oct 31, 2022 6:29 pm

jcsunsfan wrote:Movies and social media treat this type of behavior as adolescent prankishness and tomfoolery. Girls flash people all the time. I have seen girls flashing traffic as I drive down the freeway. It's wrong. Its gross. He needs to face consequences, but as a culture we need to look in the mirror and realize that the deviance of our entire culture has created this stuff.


That's a false equivalency. There's a very big difference between flashing titties and flashing genitalia.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#268 » by Blame Rasho » Mon Oct 31, 2022 6:33 pm

jasonxxx102 wrote:It's a sex offense regardless of age, that's the issue.


If you show your fun parts to anyone underage, you are liable to be charged as a sex offender. You know, every year, you have to report yourself to local law enforcement. Your neighbors will know exactly what you did. Your dwelling will be public knowledge. It isn’t just a sex offense. Google sex offenders, and your zip code and you will see what everyone has done. It might terrify you what you find.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#269 » by shi-woo » Mon Oct 31, 2022 6:39 pm

I keep reading all these opinions, and no one actually knows what he did lol

There's a part of me that hopes this is all just one big LOL moment and you all have to act like you did when the details to the Jussie Smollett crime came out :lol:
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#270 » by Blame Rasho » Mon Oct 31, 2022 6:43 pm

shi-woo wrote:I keep reading all these opinions, and no one actually knows what he did lol

There's a part of me that hopes this is all just one big LOL moment and you all have to act like you did when the details to the Jussie Smollett crime came out :lol:


He did something bad enough that he lost his job and no one has been eager to sign him off of waivers.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#271 » by G R E Y » Mon Oct 31, 2022 7:19 pm

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Is there any info on what Primo actually did (in detail) and what exactly lead the Spurs to waive him? Or are we still reduced to speculating based on the generic idea of him exposing himself.

Nothing. Yet. Or maybe ever.

Tom Orsborn asked very politely but frankly about the W5H of it all in a pre-game presser but Pop stuck to the staying by our released statement. Inappropriate to comment more at this time, etc.

He was asked by another reporter how he was feeling the last 48 hours given all that transpired, same response.

Buford's initial statement did say '... at this time...' so there may be more info coming. Or not.

I can't stand that Primo's reps and him get to be in the background of this with no comments and please respect my privacy lol but the team is stuck carrying the Q&A load but there it is.

I'm sure Shams et al are on it... fingers and ears burning but no confirmations other than what we now know.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#272 » by slick_watts » Mon Oct 31, 2022 7:27 pm

jcsunsfan wrote:Girls flash people all the time.


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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#273 » by Sunlight » Mon Oct 31, 2022 7:31 pm

Is this guy the KEY to contenders win Pokale or what?
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#274 » by whitehops » Mon Oct 31, 2022 7:55 pm

there's obviously not a lot of details out at the moment but "exposing himself" doesn't just mean flashing and then tucking it back in. it could be anything under the umbrella of masturbation (like louis ck), exposing himself and trying to coerce sexually activity, etc.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#275 » by TheGOATWill » Mon Oct 31, 2022 7:59 pm

Anyone every found them self in a take out your junk gray area? I've always felt the circumstances surrounding that act were very black and white.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#276 » by GSWFan1994 » Mon Oct 31, 2022 8:07 pm

Dirk wrote:Is there any info on what Primo actually did (in detail) and what exactly lead the Spurs to waive him? Or are we still reduced to speculating based on the generic idea of him exposing himself.


Yes, I agree... this has been my exactly thought in this process as well.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#277 » by Bornstellar » Mon Oct 31, 2022 8:09 pm

jcsunsfan wrote:Movies and social media treat this type of behavior as adolescent prankishness and tomfoolery. Girls flash people all the time. I have seen girls flashing traffic as I drive down the freeway. It's wrong. Its gross. He needs to face consequences, but as a culture we need to look in the mirror and realize that the deviance of our entire culture has created this stuff.


Breasts and genitals are not the same thing
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#278 » by Johnny Bball » Mon Oct 31, 2022 8:11 pm

Memories wrote:
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Yuri Vaultin wrote:For the record the reports state he exposed himself to multiple women, NOT "woman".

The fact that many think it's simply a cash grab by a woman tells me about them than it does the situation.

Lots of entitled incel dirtbags here.


I like how open they are about beings incels, at least.


Ever since Trump, people took their “masks off” with their racist, sexist and antisemitic behavior. They are more than “open” about it now, they are “proud” of it too.


If they could only they be about pround and admit they are subservient underconfident men that prefer to line up behind strong authoritarian men. What's that term people use for that these days...
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#279 » by Johnny Bball » Mon Oct 31, 2022 8:13 pm

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jcsunsfan wrote:Movies and social media treat this type of behavior as adolescent prankishness and tomfoolery. Girls flash people all the time. I have seen girls flashing traffic as I drive down the freeway. It's wrong. Its gross. He needs to face consequences, but as a culture we need to look in the mirror and realize that the deviance of our entire culture has created this stuff.


Breasts and genitals are not the same thing


The US is one of the few places in the world that makes it illrgal to be topless. Everywhere else in the first world women have that right. Maybe there are parts of people's culture that need to be fixed when men, no wait... males complain about too many naked breasts.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#280 » by Scottie4Bro » Mon Oct 31, 2022 8:17 pm

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jcsunsfan wrote:Movies and social media treat this type of behavior as adolescent prankishness and tomfoolery. Girls flash people all the time. I have seen girls flashing traffic as I drive down the freeway. It's wrong. Its gross. He needs to face consequences, but as a culture we need to look in the mirror and realize that the deviance of our entire culture has created this stuff.


If Primo were streaking where he wasn't targeting people I'd buy an immaturity defense. Even if he had an OnlyFans account where consenting adults watch him do his thing, I'd probably go to bat for him. But cornering people or targeting folks who are forced to interact with you and showing them your genitals is way different. That is "degeneracy", but not because of the nudity. The flaunting of consent and the casual use of power to force experiences on others gets excused way too much. Girls flash has its own problems and can definitely rise to the same level of wrong under some circumstances. But Primo didn't do this because society told him sexuality is okay or whatever. If Primo wasn't lying, he's having trouble in large part because he hasn't been able to deal with his sexuality in a healthy way. He did this because society says if you're a big strong rich dude who has women with less power in your orbit, you can get away with this.


The amount of mental gymnastics in this post are off the charts. :lol:

Gotta love having to demonize this guy but at the same time defend perverts in general as some kind of acceptable behavior because it's forward progressive thinking. The absolute state of some people these days.

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