Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women

[PD28]

Movies and social media treat this type of behavior as adolescent prankishness and tomfoolery. Girls flash people all the time. I have seen girls flashing traffic as I drive down the freeway. It's wrong. Its gross. He needs to face consequences, but as a culture we need to look in the mirror and realize that the deviance of our entire culture has created this stuff.

Breasts and genitals are not the same thing

The US is one of the few places in the world that makes it illrgal to be topless. Everywhere else in the first world women have that right. Maybe there are parts of people's culture that need to be fixed when men, no wait... males complain about too many naked breasts.

I'm not speaking for all men, but I'm sure most of would welcome that.

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[Loneshot]

I remember a story in the news (I believe here in SoCal) where a man was charged for indecent exposure or something similar for being seen standing naked in front of his living room window. Apparently he regularly is naked in the morning while drinking coffee, except on this day two people were walking by on the sidewalk, noticed the man in the window, and called the cops.

Edit: wasn't in SoCal.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/erick-williamson-convicted-for-drinking-coffee-naked-in-his-own-house/

[Chinook]

Movies and social media treat this type of behavior as adolescent prankishness and tomfoolery. Girls flash people all the time. I have seen girls flashing traffic as I drive down the freeway. It's wrong. Its gross. He needs to face consequences, but as a culture we need to look in the mirror and realize that the deviance of our entire culture has created this stuff.

If Primo were streaking where he wasn't targeting people I'd buy an immaturity defense. Even if he had an OnlyFans account where consenting adults watch him do his thing, I'd probably go to bat for him. But cornering people or targeting folks who are forced to interact with you and showing them your genitals is way different. That is "degeneracy", but not because of the nudity. The flaunting of consent and the casual use of power to force experiences on others gets excused way too much. Girls flash has its own problems and can definitely rise to the same level of wrong under some circumstances. But Primo didn't do this because society told him sexuality is okay or whatever. If Primo wasn't lying, he's having trouble in large part because he hasn't been able to deal with his sexuality in a healthy way. He did this because society says if you're a big strong rich dude who has women with less power in your orbit, you can get away with this.

The amount of mental gymnastics in this post are off the charts.

Gotta love having to demonize this guy but at the same time defend perverts in general as some kind of acceptable behavior because it's forward progressive thinking. The absolute state of some people these days.

Yeah because historically it's the "degenerates" causing the damage to society and not the people who think it's their place to "correct" them. You need to pick up a history book if you think non-consensual display is a new thing. I guess it's easy to confuse something being talked about more with something happening more.

[Scottie4Bro]

If Primo were streaking where he wasn't targeting people I'd buy an immaturity defense. Even if he had an OnlyFans account where consenting adults watch him do his thing, I'd probably go to bat for him. But cornering people or targeting folks who are forced to interact with you and showing them your genitals is way different. That is "degeneracy", but not because of the nudity. The flaunting of consent and the casual use of power to force experiences on others gets excused way too much. Girls flash has its own problems and can definitely rise to the same level of wrong under some circumstances. But Primo didn't do this because society told him sexuality is okay or whatever. If Primo wasn't lying, he's having trouble in large part because he hasn't been able to deal with his sexuality in a healthy way. He did this because society says if you're a big strong rich dude who has women with less power in your orbit, you can get away with this.

The amount of mental gymnastics in this post are off the charts.

Gotta love having to demonize this guy but at the same time defend perverts in general as some kind of acceptable behavior because it's forward progressive thinking. The absolute state of some people these days.

Yeah because historically it's the "degenerates" causing the damage to society and not the people who think it's their place to "correct" them. You need to pick up a history book if you think non-consensual display is a new thing. I guess it's easy to confuse something being talked about more with something happening more.

This post reads like you didn't know what to reply with but just felt you had to respond with something back. A whole lot of unfocused nonsense, accusations and very little substance to this post. Also, don't come at me with the "degenerate" in quotations shtick when you literally used society in your post. Bottom text.

[Chinook]

The amount of mental gymnastics in this post are off the charts.

Gotta love having to demonize this guy but at the same time defend perverts in general as some kind of acceptable behavior because it's forward progressive thinking. The absolute state of some people these days.

Yeah because historically it's the "degenerates" causing the damage to society and not the people who think it's their place to "correct" them. You need to pick up a history book if you think non-consensual display is a new thing. I guess it's easy to confuse something being talked about more with something happening more.

This post reads like you didn't know what to reply with but just felt you had to respond with something back. A whole lot of unfocused nonsense, accusations and very little substance to this post. Also, don't come at me with the "degenerate" in quotations shtick when you literally used society in your post. Bottom text.

I like how your only argument is that you don't think I had an argument.

I don't know if "degenerates" and "society" have some pairing in your code language, but I don't know that link. When I'm talking about damage, I'm not talking some stupid moral purity. I'm talking actual war and oppression. Folks being sexually liberal doesn't cause that. Primo taking pics of his junk and sharing them on porn sites would be fine. He'd still be on the team, and we probably wouldn't even know provided he wasn't posting his face. It's that he seems to get off on accosting folks with his pecker out that's the issue.

[LakersLegacy]

He’s a teenager that made a huge mistake.

His life is ahead of him. Hope he wants to change and is successful making the necessary changes

[Wolveswin]

Ever since Trump, people took their “masks off” with their racist, sexist and antisemitic behavior. They are more than “open” about it now, they are “proud” of it too.

PLease don't attribute anti-semetism to Trump and the right. There are just as many anti-semites on the far left as there are on the far right, maybe even more to be honest.

I agree--We should focus on the sexism and racism which pours out of Trump and the Right.

Only took 14 pages for Trump to enter the conversation. It is getting a little better. Trump use to enter before double digit pages not too long ago.

For those in which Trump is living rent free in your head, I feel for you and how much you have been bamboozled. Life is hard enough as it is.

[Dick Tate]

I was shocked when the new Kids In The Hall started off their first episode with a couple of the actors fully exposed, jumping around with their johnsons swinging all over the place. Must be a Canadian thing...

[Xatticus]

Every time a thread with this kind of subject pops up in the General Board, we are reminded that there is still a LOOOONG way ahead of us until some dudes around here begin to understand how unfit they are to pass judgment from their privileged perspectives on what should affect a woman.

Every. Single. Time.

The lack of empathy is astounding.

If you need to picture your daughter, mother, sister or wife suffering this in order to empathize, you're already showing an alarming lack of empathy. And those were the "least bad" of the posts. Look at the collection of wisdom pearls:

"Something something the Warriors", "something something Kobe", "I don't see it as that horrible", "thank goodness it's only this", "karma for pop and his virtue signaling agenda", "celebrities dance naked", "people watch porn", "it's not traumatic cuz I wouldn't be traumatized"...

Beautiful, totally unexpected landscape we're painting. I'm more shocked than Philip J. Fry.

Or perhaps those that disagree with you aren't the ones displaying an ignorant worldview?

We all have mothers. If your mother was the pillar of virtue that you believe she is, you wouldn't be here to type your messages on an internet forum. Mothers aren't as naive as you think they are. They just pretend to be in front of their children. It's actually quite instrumental in the propagation of the species, ya know?

It's never a good thing when rational gives way to political. Border patrolling is a self-serving endeavor, don't think for a moment that others don't know this.

Personally, I find this collective reaction to be a far greater threat to society than one man's deviances. It is the mechanism by which a 19-year-old stumbling in an elevator turns into a massacre.

But if you are so bothered... you can all get together and form a committee. You can call it the Committee of Public Safety.


Warning: Don't bring up another user's mother.

-Dirk

[DwayneSchintzus]

He should get waived and slapped around by a husband or two but c'mon guys

Seeing genitalia is traumatic? Is he creating even more flashers by flashing innocent people? You know people watch porn, have sexual intercourse, attend things like Mardi Gras, the beach, nude beaches, etc, who exactly is traumatized because some skinny little teenager takes out his dick?

Context matters and when/where/how all play a role so if he cornered them or did anything else to exacerbate the situation (underage, threats, etc) that definitely will change my evidence-less assessment. As of now, if a female exposed her breasts to you while you waiting to fill up your car at Citgo, would you report it? Why? Why not? How would you rate your trauma?

But yeah, he should be waived because that's still criminal and very unprofessional. I'd deport him.

He’s like 6’6”, 215. If youre caught alone in a hotel room you are prob worried you are about to be raped.

These people were at work- not mardi gras. of course i wouldnt mind some woman flashing me. This is not the same thing.

Not everything is a “just rub some dirt on it” situation ffs.

[Xatticus]

He should get waived and slapped around by a husband or two but c'mon guys

Seeing genitalia is traumatic? Is he creating even more flashers by flashing innocent people? You know people watch porn, have sexual intercourse, attend things like Mardi Gras, the beach, nude beaches, etc, who exactly is traumatized because some skinny little teenager takes out his dick?

Context matters and when/where/how all play a role so if he cornered them or did anything else to exacerbate the situation (underage, threats, etc) that definitely will change my evidence-less assessment. As of now, if a female exposed her breasts to you while you waiting to fill up your car at Citgo, would you report it? Why? Why not? How would you rate your trauma?

But yeah, he should be waived because that's still criminal and very unprofessional. I'd deport him.

He’s like 6’6”, 215. If youre caught alone in a hotel room you are prob worried you are about to be raped.

These people were at work- not mardi gras. of course i wouldnt mind some woman flashing me. This is not the same thing.

Not everything is a “just rub some dirt on it” situation ffs.

I get the apples to oranges thing you are pointing out, but it's important to note that we charge people with what they actually do as opposed to another's fears of what they might do. If the latter were the case, there really wouldn't be many people free from incarceration.

[dhsilv2]

Movies and social media treat this type of behavior as adolescent prankishness and tomfoolery. Girls flash people all the time. I have seen girls flashing traffic as I drive down the freeway. It's wrong. Its gross. He needs to face consequences, but as a culture we need to look in the mirror and realize that the deviance of our entire culture has created this stuff.

If Primo were streaking where he wasn't targeting people I'd buy an immaturity defense. Even if he had an OnlyFans account where consenting adults watch him do his thing, I'd probably go to bat for him. But cornering people or targeting folks who are forced to interact with you and showing them your genitals is way different. That is "degeneracy", but not because of the nudity. The flaunting of consent and the casual use of power to force experiences on others gets excused way too much. Girls flash has its own problems and can definitely rise to the same level of wrong under some circumstances. But Primo didn't do this because society told him sexuality is okay or whatever. If Primo wasn't lying, he's having trouble in large part because he hasn't been able to deal with his sexuality in a healthy way. He did this because society says if you're a big strong rich dude who has women with less power in your orbit, you can get away with this.

The amount of mental gymnastics in this post are off the charts.

Gotta love having to demonize this guy but at the same time defend perverts in general as some kind of acceptable behavior because it's forward progressive thinking. The absolute state of some people these days.

There's no law against being a pervert...

[Dave DaButcher]

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[G R E Y]

He exposed himself to a psychologist

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[-Profanity-]

I didn't say that I knew the circumstances; I tried to explain to you why it's bad to expose your genitals to women, since you said that you didn't understand and likened it to watching porn, nude beaches or a theoretical scenario about a man "harmlessly" exposing himself on a train.

You have absolutely minimized it and effectively defended it by your posts saying things like "Have you never been exposed to someone's nude body without consent before? Does it haunt you?". Attempting to now pretend like it's some ideological take about "this modern way of thinking" is a joke. I'm not familiar with any way of thinking where it's considered acceptable to make creepy comments about women and scenarios where maybe it's not so bad to expose yourself to them.

A majority of people in a thread agreeing that a man repeatedly exposing himself to women is bad, regardless of the context, is exactly what news like this should result in. It's society's way of rejecting it and saying this behavior isn't acceptable. It's a bar that most of us hold up and say "this isn't something we want to happen to us or the people we care about". Someone who argues about context and when it might be okay to expose yourself to a woman isn't a philosophical free thinker, it's just someone I wouldn't trust around my family.

[AbC?]

He exposed himself to a psychologist

Read on Twitter

Bro... he exposed himself TO the psychologist!! Lawd

[Salieri]

Every time a thread with this kind of subject pops up in the General Board, we are reminded that there is still a LOOOONG way ahead of us until some dudes around here begin to understand how unfit they are to pass judgment from their privileged perspectives on what should affect a woman.

Every. Single. Time.

The lack of empathy is astounding.

If you need to picture your daughter, mother, sister or wife suffering this in order to empathize, you're already showing an alarming lack of empathy. And those were the "least bad" of the posts. Look at the collection of wisdom pearls:

"Something something the Warriors", "something something Kobe", "I don't see it as that horrible", "thank goodness it's only this", "karma for pop and his virtue signaling agenda", "celebrities dance naked", "people watch porn", "it's not traumatic cuz I wouldn't be traumatized"...

Beautiful, totally unexpected landscape we're painting. I'm more shocked than Philip J. Fry.

Or perhaps those that disagree with you aren't the ones displaying an ignorant worldview?

We all have mothers. If your mother was the pillar of virtue that you believe she is, you wouldn't be here to type your messages on an internet forum. Mothers aren't as naive as you think they are. They just pretend to be in front of their children. It's actually quite instrumental in the propagation of the species, ya know?

It's never a good thing when rational gives way to political. Border patrolling is a self-serving endeavor, don't think for a moment that others don't know this.

Personally, I find this collective reaction to be a far greater threat to society than one man's deviances. It is the mechanism by which a 19-year-old stumbling in an elevator turns into a massacre.

But if you are so bothered... you can all get together and form a committee. You can call it the Committee of Public Safety.

What? I mean, what?

Propagation of the species? Rational gives way to political? Border patrolling? A teenager stumbling in a elevator? What in the world are you talking about?

Listen, buddy. You're free to misread my post and write a nonsensical reply that addresses literally nothing of what I said while you go on your personal crusade against whatever bothers you, a whole lot of things according to your post. That's fair game as far as I'm concerned.

But when you drag my mother into the argument with not very pleasant implications, that's when I hit the report button.

Have a good day.

[Promezclan]

I'm curious what more context people are looking for. He intentionally exposed himself repeatedly to unwilling women, including at work. He wasn't unexpectedly caught peeing in the bushes - his motivation was the same as any bus-stop flasher: he gets a sexual thrill out of the transgression of forcing himself on a horrified and/or scared witness.

[HomoSapien]

He should get waived and slapped around by a husband or two but c'mon guys

Seeing genitalia is traumatic? Is he creating even more flashers by flashing innocent people? You know people watch porn, have sexual intercourse, attend things like Mardi Gras, the beach, nude beaches, etc, who exactly is traumatized because some skinny little teenager takes out his dick?

Context matters and when/where/how all play a role so if he cornered them or did anything else to exacerbate the situation (underage, threats, etc) that definitely will change my evidence-less assessment. As of now, if a female exposed her breasts to you while you waiting to fill up your car at Citgo, would you report it? Why? Why not? How would you rate your trauma?

But yeah, he should be waived because that's still criminal and very unprofessional. I'd deport him.

He’s like 6’6”, 215. If youre caught alone in a hotel room you are prob worried you are about to be raped.

These people were at work- not mardi gras. of course i wouldnt mind some woman flashing me. This is not the same thing.

Not everything is a “just rub some dirt on it” situation ffs.

I get the apples to oranges thing you are pointing out, but it's important to note that we charge people with what they actually do as opposed to another's fears of what they might do. If the latter were the case, there really wouldn't be many people free from incarceration.

Flashing your genitals without consent is considered legally to be indecent exposure. That's a crime and in most cases causes you to be registered as a sexual offender. I'm not sure what's difficult to understand about this.

[Capn'O]

I was shocked when the new Kids In The Hall started off their first episode with a couple of the actors fully exposed, jumping around with their johnsons swinging all over the place. Must be a Canadian thing...

KITH has new material???????

Well, I know how I'll be spending my night!