Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women

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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#461 » by G R E Y » Thu Nov 3, 2022 5:44 pm

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Capn'O wrote:I don't know how Pop survives this let alone the rest. This is astonishing.

In the press conference, psychologist's lawyer flat out stated that by GM that she informed it referred to Brian Wright, not RC. And while she was told that Pop was told, lawyer said they believe she was being lied to at the time.

Not sure how you come to that statement, then.

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Nothing's been laid at RC or Pop's feet. It's fair to say when they found out, decisive actions were taken. I think until it's confirmed otherwise, they get benefit of doubt.


I hope this is the case.

Sure. I refer back to her lawyer's statement about it for clarity.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#462 » by CptCrunch » Thu Nov 3, 2022 5:45 pm

Ageism, racism, sexism, victim blaming into one statement. Primo's lawyer is something else.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#463 » by Ice Trae » Thu Nov 3, 2022 5:47 pm

Primo’s lawyer a high schooler? That statement was rough :lol:
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#464 » by Optimus_Steel » Thu Nov 3, 2022 5:48 pm

Primo's lawyer's statement is probably the worst statement from a lawyer I've heard. That was disgusting.

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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#465 » by Cubbies2120 » Thu Nov 3, 2022 5:49 pm

D.Brasco wrote:If this is the best his lawyer can come up with he's screwed

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It's the woman's responsibility to tell the man his dick is repeatedly hanging out in front of her.


Put yourself in the situation. You're a psych, you have a meeting with Primo on this schedule:

July 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
July 15: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
Aug 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out

Are you going to continue for another 6 sessions when you're uneasy and potentially in an unsafe environment? And inform nobody about it until you decide "You know what, the first 8 times I'm gonna let slide, but this 9th one..ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!"?
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#466 » by D.Brasco » Thu Nov 3, 2022 5:52 pm

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D.Brasco wrote:If this is the best his lawyer can come up with he's screwed

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It's the woman's responsibility to tell the man his dick is repeatedly hanging out in front of her.


Put yourself in the situation. You're a psych, you have a meeting with Primo on this schedule:

July 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
July 15: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
Aug 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out

Are you going to continue for another 6 sessions when you're uneasy and potentially in an unsafe environment? And inform nobody about it until you decide "You know what, the first 8 times I'm gonna let slide, but this 9th one..ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!"?


I'm not a woman so it's hard to put myself in that position but I am a man with a dick and it's never accidentally slipped out multiple times in front of a woman in a work setting. Primo seems to be the only one on the whole team who is having that issue as she isn't complaining about any other player.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#467 » by Dirk » Thu Nov 3, 2022 5:52 pm

Cubbies2120 wrote:
D.Brasco wrote:If this is the best his lawyer can come up with he's screwed

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It's the woman's responsibility to tell the man his dick is repeatedly hanging out in front of her.


Put yourself in the situation. You're a psych, you have a meeting with Primo on this schedule:

July 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
July 15: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
Aug 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out

Are you going to continue for another 6 sessions when you're uneasy and potentially in an unsafe environment? And inform nobody about it until you decide "You know what, the first 8 times I'm gonna let slide, but this 9th one..ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!"?


She informed the Spurs after the first time and they said they'd handle it.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#468 » by G R E Y » Thu Nov 3, 2022 5:56 pm

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D.Brasco wrote:If this is the best his lawyer can come up with he's screwed

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It's the woman's responsibility to tell the man his dick is repeatedly hanging out in front of her.


Put yourself in the situation. You're a psych, you have a meeting with Primo on this schedule:

July 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
July 15: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
Aug 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out

Are you going to continue for another 6 sessions when you're uneasy and potentially in an unsafe environment? And inform nobody about it until you decide "You know what, the first 8 times I'm gonna let slide, but this 9th one..ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!"?

I believe her.

And this is weird.

And I keep rethinking about duty to warn. Isn't it aplicable in this case? IF so, then why weren't authorities outside of the team informed?
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#469 » by SNPA » Thu Nov 3, 2022 5:56 pm

Few things about the timeline will tell us a lot.

When did it first happen according to her?
When did she first address it with him?
When did she first address it with the Spurs?

Nine times is the key here. That many times means she either agreed to work with him on it as a mental health issue, or the Spurs are completed F’ed because they forced her to continue (I find this the least likely because a professional Dr. would say no and refer to the appropriate professional) or her story has holes. Or some combination.

Even if it was “accidental” slippage out of shorts a professional would still directly address it.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#470 » by Slim Charlez » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:00 pm

Capn'O wrote:I don't know how Pop survives this let alone the rest. This is astonishing.


A lot of people sure do have a hard on for Pop on here smh.

Even the doctor's lawyer claimed they don't believe pop knew. Try again.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#471 » by Pharmcat » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:01 pm

So the defense is he’s got big junk? Haven’t heard that one before :lol:
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#472 » by Homerclease » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:05 pm

G R E Y wrote:
Capn'O wrote:
G R E Y wrote:In the press conference, psychologist's lawyer flat out stated that by GM that she informed it referred to Brian Wright, not RC. And while she was told that Pop was told, lawyer said they believe she was being lied to at the time.

Not sure how you come to that statement, then.

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Nothing's been laid at RC or Pop's feet. It's fair to say when they found out, decisive actions were taken. I think until it's confirmed otherwise, they get benefit of doubt.


I hope this is the case.

Sure. I refer back to her lawyer's statement about it for clarity.

Yeah, Joe Paterno knew nothing about Sandusky either. You have to be living under a rock to believe that pop didn’t know
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#473 » by zimpy27 » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:10 pm

Well it could be true that he has big junk, underwear can be pretty uncomfortable even for average junk. It is conceivable that wearing shorts could reveal a dong unintentionally based on that person sitting in a chair or in a way that is unusual.

But why did Primo say he had mental health issues, doesn't marry up to make that statement if it was accidental.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#474 » by Texas Chuck » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:11 pm

Homerclease wrote:Yeah, Joe Paterno knew nothing about Sandusky either. You have to be living under a rock to believe that pop didn’t know


These situations are not remotely the same. Good grief. What a terrible post. Delete it and I will delete where I quoted you.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#475 » by R-DAWG » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:13 pm

Blaze the Nugz wrote:Apparently one of the sessions was virtual. Josh was at summer league and the therapist was at home. How does one accidentally show their junk to the laptop camera? Just not believable. Accidentally letting the D slip out through shorts while laying on the couch is believable. Not the virtual therapy case, though.


Believable if it happens once, that could be considered a careless accident. And if it only happened once AND the Spurs properly addressed it - including not requiring her to have sessions with him - then we likely wouldn't be talking about this today. But you don't make the same mistake 9 times.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#476 » by CIN-C-STAR » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:17 pm

Homerclease wrote:
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I hope this is the case.

Sure. I refer back to her lawyer's statement about it for clarity.

Yeah, Joe Paterno knew nothing about Sandusky either. You have to be living under a rock to believe that pop didn’t know


If Brian Wright were trying to cover things up for Primo, why would he also tell Primo's coach what was happening?
Seems like if you're covering things up you'd, you know, not tell a lot of people (or give them a sanitized version of events to downplay the seriousness).
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#477 » by zimpy27 » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:17 pm

Dirk wrote:
Cubbies2120 wrote:
D.Brasco wrote:If this is the best his lawyer can come up with he's screwed

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It's the woman's responsibility to tell the man his dick is repeatedly hanging out in front of her.


Put yourself in the situation. You're a psych, you have a meeting with Primo on this schedule:

July 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
July 15: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
Aug 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out

Are you going to continue for another 6 sessions when you're uneasy and potentially in an unsafe environment? And inform nobody about it until you decide "You know what, the first 8 times I'm gonna let slide, but this 9th one..ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!"?


She informed the Spurs after the first time and they said they'd handle it.


I guess I'd want to know who she told and who was responsible to inform Primo. Was this all communicated to him? Why was there a breakdown in communication?
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#478 » by Bird4Three » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:19 pm

zimpy27 wrote:Well it could be true that he has big junk, underwear can be pretty uncomfortable even for average junk. It is conceivable that wearing shorts could reveal a dong unintentionally based on that person sitting in a chair or in a way that is unusual.

But why did Primo say he had mental health issues, doesn't marry up to make that statement if it was accidental.


Those mental health issues that cause him to be unable to realize that his dong is sticking out of his shorts. It’s a legit medical issue these days.
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Re: Report: Joshua Primo allegedly exposed himself to women 

Post#479 » by Dubnation » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:22 pm

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Post#480 » by SNPA » Thu Nov 3, 2022 6:22 pm

zimpy27 wrote:
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Cubbies2120 wrote:
Put yourself in the situation. You're a psych, you have a meeting with Primo on this schedule:

July 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
July 15: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out
Aug 1: Meet with Primo, dick hanging out

Are you going to continue for another 6 sessions when you're uneasy and potentially in an unsafe environment? And inform nobody about it until you decide "You know what, the first 8 times I'm gonna let slide, but this 9th one..ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!"?


She informed the Spurs after the first time and they said they'd handle it.


I guess I'd want to know who she told and who was responsible to inform Primo. Was this all communicated to him? Why was there a breakdown in communication?

Something here is BS. She is a Dr. It’s understandable if the first time she didn’t feel comfortable alone in a room addressing it with a much larger male. But…after that she has the ability to control the situation. She can refuse to have sessions alone with him if the Spurs aren’t putting the right steps in place, or refuse to see him at all. She can refer him to a specialist. She has lots of options and a professional duty.

Nine times is key.

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