Sweet Meat Lew wrote:One_and_Done wrote:Sweet Meat Lew wrote:
You shouldn't find humor in rape. Neither do I.
Your statement about a claim to innocence just isn't true. Under that same logic, you could say no true rape victim would sue in a civil case and not pursue a criminal conviction against the accused.
Kobe was under immense pressure by the league, his team, the brands he represented, his family, etc. to put this story to bed and resume his career. He's not any random citizen. His adultery was broadcast internationally and he had his personal indiscretions discussed worldwide. Neither of us knows what that feels like. Rape is a serious conversation and probably shouldn't be thrown out there randomly without full context of the charge. We didn't need this on the board.
Wow.
Exactly...wow. It's nonsensical to make those types of assumptions
What “Kobe” felt like?!?! In Kobe’s statement, even he talked about what his victim had to endure.
First, I want to apologize directly to the young woman involved in this incident. I want to apologize to her for my behavior that night and for the consequences she has suffered in the past year. Although this year has been incredibly difficult for me personally, I can only imagine the pain she has had to endure. I also want to apologize to her parents and family members, and to my family and friends and supporters, and to the citizens of Eagle, Colorado.
I also want to make it clear that I do not question the motives of this young woman. No money has been paid to this woman. She has agreed that this statement will not be used against me in the civil case. Although I truly believe this encounter between us was consensual, Irecognize now that she did not and does not view this incident the same way I did. After months of reviewing discovery, listening to her attorney, and even her testimony in person, I now understand how she feels that she did not consent to this encounter.
Years later, we have a fan worrying about how
Kobe felt. Even more than being raped, he doesn’t acknowledge the death threats and labeling the victim received, and that her name and address was leaked to the public. He still labels the crime “adultery,” when even Kobe says the event was not consensual. There is the accusation she’s trying to get rich, when Kobe says he doesn’t question her motives.
I try to give Kobe fans a pass, because they talk about Kobe-the-player. But your rapist-defense post is just over the top. No amount of pressure from sponsors is going to make any innocent man publicly say he forced a woman into non-consensual sex. This is you grasping at a preposterous excuse because you simply refuse to accept what happened. Don’t make excuses for the rapists you like, just because they are good at basketball.
“Wow” is the right response.