batterybro42 wrote:3ammy3uck3ts wrote:
Jimmy Butler is a guy who wasn’t wanted by his parents, and to me this is more about a vulnerability issue and a need for validation than it is about the money with a max deal.
That I can get....
I had an ex=GF that went through the foster care system... amazing lady, she had the biggrst heart, but.....the fear of abandonment and every action of mine being weight against her fears was too much. Forming a long term, trusting relationship was exhausting and most likely impossible. It was the weirdest mindset, random hobo on the street corner that most of us would be on guard about... she saw no reflags and would go up and hug and talk to. Meanwhile all her friends had every positive and negative action micro analyzed for every possible negative outcome that in her head was a "planned" possibility.
I am sure Jimmy is not that bad, but even if he has a touch of that... I could see how spoon feeding his emotions could be taxing.
























