The Sheik wrote:-= original quote snipped =-
haha man its the funniest sh^+ though. I have been with her for 14 months and lately we have kinda been fighting about how she wants to get married. Her sisters are married and thats her only incentive. I have a ton of money saved up, but I have a good 1.5 yrs left of school and I wouldnt even consider it. So anyway she comes with an ultimatum that I need to marry her or were done, thinking that I would cave and not wanna lose her. Lately Ive just been thinking I love her, but not in love and I don't wanna end up contributing to the 50% of divorces. So I told her the love, but not in love speech and then we argued/talked for 3hrs and in the end she was shocked that I said "then leave me". And she is probably gonna beg me to take her back, but in all honesty Im kinda getting sick of this sh^t.
ohhhh yuck. You don't want a girl that pushed you into that. Hopefully she'll realize that, but if not o'well.
I'm guessing the Persian culture is very traditional and encourages marraiges early. I'm not a big fan of it, but I'm sure she's been brain washed by that, besides the fact that her sisters are both married.
Its wierd 'cause now that my girl and I are coming to that point she barely talks bout it anymore. I love that. Before she would bring it up, but we both knew it was nowhere in site. I'll be done with my desgin degree in about 6 months and reality is really hitting.

I don't even get scared about moving in, buying things together, heck, we even merged a couple accounts together, but marriage just seems like a huge thing.
You did the right thing by not letting your hand get forced, and if she's a girl that was meant to work it, she'll realize that.