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TyCobb wrote:OMG. I think my girl > yours Danny. I think her last suggestion may have put her on top.
She wants to watch me **** another girl...
Which last suggestion was that? Glad I could help.. also if you want to keep her for long don't... wait you're young... do do do.
btw my girl i had to say goodbye today... too many other girls and she's getting to be a very awesome boat anchor, but a boat anchor none the less. More about getting music done right, but there's a few hotties in the wings.
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Whoa Whoa Whoa... stop the train just read the rest of your posts.
OK... first off no. If you have an ounce of jealousy in you and she wants a real committment then you are already in trouble. With the cheating statistics it's pretty safe to say it's a real risk. In a long term relationship it's really not going to be a good thing for the both of you.
So I would say if you want something long term, see how intent she is:
a- if very intent, it's already over. separate your feelings do what you want to in a fun but non regret way.
b- if it seems like a trap and she doesn't want to for herself.. don't do it-it's a damn trap.
c- if you think she's just so into what you want for real and not motivated by her own kinkyness you will want to back off, reassure her of how much you like her and don't need more but will be happy to take some extra bennefits directly from her instead.

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Phil_2.0 wrote:-= original quote snipped =-
Here is the deal.. she is dirty. I am not sure how long you have been together and what your intentions are for the future. I have known some chicks like this and they are fun but not a long term type thing.
If you dont have any long term plans and what to have fun then do it.... if not, then I am afraid to tell you she just wants to have fun now and you are either on board or the next guy she is with ..will be stoked.
Again, I dont know what your long term plan is with her.. but if its not in the stars and you are down with something like this... have fun.
Yupppppp ....... good call Phil .
The other thing is she is opening the door for herself to do as she pleases , sort of like ...... Hey would you mind if I got banged by 2 guys while you watch or if she cheats on you and she gets caught , she can always throw the guilt back on you , and say well I didnt have a problem with you and other girls .
I see it this way sort of like Phil said , if you actually care about this girl and see a future in her .......Dont do it .
If you dont , then see if you can have more than two .
Me personally , Im cool with one girl .
Though I have had chances to be with multiple but I could never see myself doing that .
Its just not something I have had interest in .
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Okay, so I talked to her more last night about it and... she said it because she is afraid of losing me and wants to keep me happy and not get bored so I don't leave her...that's 3/4 of the reason why she suggested it. I reassured her that I only need her to make me happy and not another girl... she said she is just scared I will leave her.
Then we got to talking more about it and it turns out she says that would really, really turn her on. I was like...are you saying this cause you want to **** another guy? She said no not at all, and I believe her cause she's really attached to me..
Then I talked to her more about it and I was like, but don't you think it will ruin our relationship? And she was like no, I won't love you less.. I'd just be sad that you aren't all to me.. then I said yeah, and I don't want you to feel like that. So then we talk more and she says, well at least once.. and I'm like we'll talk about this more some other day to see if you still want that.
Thoughts? She's a freak...I know it.. she knows it...but so am I, and I think that would be really awesome, but I have a feeling it could ruin our relationship. So I don't know yet...
Then we got to talking more about it and it turns out she says that would really, really turn her on. I was like...are you saying this cause you want to **** another guy? She said no not at all, and I believe her cause she's really attached to me..
Then I talked to her more about it and I was like, but don't you think it will ruin our relationship? And she was like no, I won't love you less.. I'd just be sad that you aren't all to me.. then I said yeah, and I don't want you to feel like that. So then we talk more and she says, well at least once.. and I'm like we'll talk about this more some other day to see if you still want that.
Thoughts? She's a freak...I know it.. she knows it...but so am I, and I think that would be really awesome, but I have a feeling it could ruin our relationship. So I don't know yet...
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I've done the multiples a couple times... not really a fan. It's more about ego. Great to say, "I'm the man, I hit it with multiple women"
But really nothing for me is more fun that one girl who knows what she's doing and you are into.
Multiples end up being a distraction, but then again, I do cherish being able to say I did.
Hmmm decisions decisions
But really nothing for me is more fun that one girl who knows what she's doing and you are into.
Multiples end up being a distraction, but then again, I do cherish being able to say I did.
Hmmm decisions decisions

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Corvus Crow wrote:I've done the multiples a couple times... not really a fan. It's more about ego. Great to say, "I'm the man, I hit it with multiple women"
But really nothing for me is more fun that one girl who knows what she's doing and you are into.
Multiples end up being a distraction, but then again, I do cherish being able to say I did.
Hmmm decisions decisions

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Hmmm is right. It's hard... you either say no and make her happy that you only want her even though she says its okay. But if you say no, then you turn her down really...
But the reason why she wants to see me **** another girl is so she can see what it looks like when I do her. But I think I'm just going to say no and we can just record it that way you can see what it looks like without you sharing me.
****, I never knew this would be one of the hardest decisions I would have to make in my life...
But the reason why she wants to see me **** another girl is so she can see what it looks like when I do her. But I think I'm just going to say no and we can just record it that way you can see what it looks like without you sharing me.
****, I never knew this would be one of the hardest decisions I would have to make in my life...
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TyCobb wrote:Okay, so I talked to her more last night about it and... she said it because she is afraid of losing me and wants to keep me happy and not get bored so I don't leave her...that's 3/4 of the reason why she suggested it. I reassured her that I only need her to make me happy and not another girl... she said she is just scared I will leave her.
Then we got to talking more about it and it turns out she says that would really, really turn her on. I was like...are you saying this cause you want to **** another guy? She said no not at all, and I believe her cause she's really attached to me..
Then I talked to her more about it and I was like, but don't you think it will ruin our relationship? And she was like no, I won't love you less.. I'd just be sad that you aren't all to me.. then I said yeah, and I don't want you to feel like that. So then we talk more and she says, well at least once.. and I'm like we'll talk about this more some other day to see if you still want that.
Thoughts? She's a freak...I know it.. she knows it...but so am I, and I think that would be really awesome, but I have a feeling it could ruin our relationship. So I don't know yet...
Oh well thats cool you don't want to ruin what you already have. You're a better man than me though.

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Ty,
You're a good man. I thought for a while we had lost you to the dark side...
Here's my advise:
Use the cam with just you and her first. If that's not enough for her to watch, you went far and beyond to respect her and can then (with a guilt free conscious) "allow her" to let you **** another one while she's watching, if she still wants to watch you do that at that point (which I think she will).
I'm not so sure she's not a bit bicurious, though. Instead of asking her about another guy, ask her if she'd want to get it on with another girl and yourself. I think that might be what she's trying to tell you. She just needs bad boy Ty's approval before she will admit her dirty secret. Aks her if she wants to be filmed or watched by you with the same girl she wants you to feast on.
You're a good man. I thought for a while we had lost you to the dark side...

Use the cam with just you and her first. If that's not enough for her to watch, you went far and beyond to respect her and can then (with a guilt free conscious) "allow her" to let you **** another one while she's watching, if she still wants to watch you do that at that point (which I think she will).
I'm not so sure she's not a bit bicurious, though. Instead of asking her about another guy, ask her if she'd want to get it on with another girl and yourself. I think that might be what she's trying to tell you. She just needs bad boy Ty's approval before she will admit her dirty secret. Aks her if she wants to be filmed or watched by you with the same girl she wants you to feast on.
