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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#121 » by Thorn » Tue May 13, 2014 2:29 pm

basketboule wrote:I find everything and everyone surrounding prostitution utterly pathetic.

Sorry about the offense, I just can't get my head around it. It's so low. Buy three beers, talk to a woman. No luck? Get up, try again next week. Life is about trying hard and getting the **** back up after a beatdown again and again and again... not about buying fake enthusiasm.



What bothers me, is that men would delude themselves into thinking the women involved are super into sex with them. I also intend no offense, but this is part of the fantasy these girls are selling.

Even the biggest nympho has his or her limits, and they want to have sex with partners of their choosing. Now are their dirty tramps who want to bang every man walking without regard for what they look, taste, and smell like? Sure, Ill buy that but I am going to go out on a limb and say those numbers are VERY LOW.

Then the whole "The see girls are artists who enjoy plying their trade, enjoy the act, and work hard to pleasure you because they care about their job" that is kind of crazy talk... do they want you to come back? Sure some of you, not all of you. But not because they want you to be happy, or because they want your approval as sex partners... but because they want your money.

Don't fool yourself into thinking they like it, or you... that really makes you look like a sucker.

Sorry.

Remember they are there for your money, and you are there for their body. YOU might crave their approval "I aint no punk, you like this don't you baby"... sure as much as I like going to my 9 - 5 and I don't have fat, sweaty, disgusting men laying on top of me all day with skin conditions. Now are there good looking professionals who are Johns? Sure there are but I am willing to bet a fair number are pretty much disgusting.

Also even high priced call girls who might have fewer clients and a better quality of client are not necessarily into their jobs, even if they have horrible daddy issues and get paid very well. Some sure, but again you have to be talking about a minority... at the end of the day you are trading bodily fluids for money with people not of your choosing. (yeah yeah I know some can refuse work).

The argument being made that girls who are not prostitutes are JUST as likely to have diseases or MORE so is in fact laughable. Are prostitutes getting checked more often than housewives? Sure, some may be but they are also banging thousands of guys a year not one or two. SO the chances they are going the exposed to a disease is greater by a magnitude of thousands. EVEN if their own husbands cheat on them and have a mistress.

Lets be honest with our selves about what this is and what it isnt.
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#122 » by LoyalFan » Tue May 13, 2014 2:40 pm

sounds like there are some dudes on here who have never seen a passport stamp before. that and maybe quite a few of them are very young.
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#123 » by AndroidMan » Tue May 13, 2014 3:05 pm

I was in Cartegena, Columbia a few years back. Same place the secret service got busted for having prostitutes prior to Barack Obama's visit. I was even in the same bar the same secret service were at when they picked up the prostitutes. Let's just say finding a normal girl that you can just go and talk to while in Cartegena is pretty much non existent in that region. Not saying I did or didn't solicit, but the quality of the working girls there are pretty high. Like knockouts. And they're in abundance. I'm a guy who likes going out and partying wherever I go on vacation. In Cartagena, all the clubs and bars I ventured too were filled with girls working. Some of them came up from bogota, medellin, and elsewhere.

Morality wise, I think it's pretty darn stupid too judge people that choose to do so. Sure, if you are in college, prostitution seems desperate as you're around horny girls that are willing to give it up readily easily. Same goes for young people working in working environments filled with a lot of women. As you get into your 30's and 40's, and after people marry and have divorced or what not, finding a no strings attached appeal of just having sex is an option for some men. I know a friends who';s a lawyer, who's happily married and a quality stand up guy, not sleeezy.. We were talking about the subject and he himself admitted to me that he had friends that went through tough divorces and there friend make yearly trips to DR and Columbia, yet he doesn't judge them negatively.

My view on it is, if you're frequently looking for a prostitute as your main companion every week, then you have a problem. Same for the kind of people that need to visit strip clubs every week. I personally prefer to meet regular women and converse and hookup the normal way, but I'm not judging the people who may solicit prostitutes on occasion, for whatever reasons they desire. IMHO, high class escorts are no different than porno stars. Both are being paid well to perform. One just happens to a be a little more discreet about and not have it displayed to the world. And to be honest, a high priced escort, isn't hooking up with filthy street level people, but the lawyers, doctors, and business men that are revered and thought highly of. I just find it odd that the same people who bash prostitutes are likely the same people who celebrate pornography. Kind of ironic how girls become porno stars and receive fame for doing so on camera, yet prostitutes, even high class and priced one, are looked down upon for selling out for money. Too me, the high priced escort isn't displaying for the world her business, nor embarrassing her parents for all to watch.
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#124 » by prophet_of_rage » Tue May 13, 2014 3:42 pm

God bless prostitutes. Who else will take care of the disabled, the bored husbands, the horny travelers and professional athletes and entertainers without the threat of public humiliation and paternity suits? God bless you, courtesans, brava, I say! Brava!
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#125 » by MaseInYourFace » Tue May 13, 2014 3:46 pm

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so basically you have a VERY low sense of self confidence and you are/were desperate. gotcha. :lol:

copying what I said and rewording it passive aggressively is also kinda sad kiddo. "low opinion of yourself" = "low sense of self confidence".

you sound defensive and bitter that I was and am right. and the ONLY one here with a "low opinion of themselves" is YOU...clearly. if you can't get laid on your own, then you either have physical shortcomings... :nod: and/or have serious mental and emotional issues.



didn't work = girls don't LIKE you. you can't get laid. so you have to pay for it...b/c you're pathetic. and yes there's something seriously disgusting and weird about paying a stranger most likely with std's to get off.



lol the only goddamn "pathetic" one here is YOU. your random defensiveness and passive aggressiveness pretty much proves you haven't gotten laid in half a decade, and are pathetically trying to justify paying a stranger who under other circumstances would have NOTHING to do with your ass.

do you think a future g/f would think you're a real man if she found out you need prostitutes to get laid. lol. no wait, going by your words you probably will never have a g/f again, if you ever have had one.



well losers "spend a lot of money" on their chicks. I've actually had chicks spend WAY more money on ME.

p.s. have some f*ckin self respect kid. jesus Christ. justifying the need for prostitution? :nonono:


Ok guy. How's the view from that high horse?

:roll:

And talk about overreacting. Your the one that was calling people pathetic. That means most dudes are pathetic then. Because most men in the world have been with a prostitute at some point in their lives. You need to relax bruh, your new here.


Hey Mase, the rest of your conversation with this guy is a train wreck and I will stay out of it but I do need to point out most men in the US have not visited or patronized a prostitute if all of the studies are to be believed.

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http://prostitution.procon.org/view.res ... eID=004119

In reality the number is not even close to half in the US, not unsurprisingly in Cambodia... they are rocking out at 80% of all men on the high estimate.


Thorn I'm not surprised by those numbers although I would suspect with our moral hangups that quite a few men lied or those that did have experience chose not be part of the poll. Mind you I said most men in the world not the U.S.

Oh and don't worry I have nothing more to say to that troll.
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#126 » by DRK » Tue May 13, 2014 3:55 pm

mrpoetryNmotion wrote:No, but I did get solicited by one my very first day in South Korea. Good times...


That's strange... Mustve gone to Seoul's Red Light district.

You dont get solicited on the streets walking in Dongdaemun, Namdaemun or Myeongdong, which are high-tourist areas. You mustve gone to some dodgey place.

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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#127 » by knicks94 » Tue May 13, 2014 3:58 pm

No I haven't.But I remember back in my school days there was always a girl who I thought would grow up to be one.
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#128 » by Thorn » Tue May 13, 2014 4:03 pm

MaseInYourFace wrote:
Thorn wrote:
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Ok guy. How's the view from that high horse?

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And talk about overreacting. Your the one that was calling people pathetic. That means most dudes are pathetic then. Because most men in the world have been with a prostitute at some point in their lives. You need to relax bruh, your new here.


Hey Mase, the rest of your conversation with this guy is a train wreck and I will stay out of it but I do need to point out most men in the US have not visited or patronized a prostitute if all of the studies are to be believed.

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http://prostitution.procon.org/view.res ... eID=004119

In reality the number is not even close to half in the US, not unsurprisingly in Cambodia... they are rocking out at 80% of all men on the high estimate.


Thorn I'm not surprised by those numbers although I would suspect with our moral hangups that quite a few men lied or those that did have experience chose not be part of the poll. Mind you I said most men in the world not the U.S.

Oh and don't worry I have nothing more to say to that troll.


Ahh gotcha. My bad then, and yeah man don't feed the trolls we know who you are.

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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#129 » by spree8 » Tue May 13, 2014 4:30 pm

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basketboule wrote:I find everything and everyone surrounding prostitution utterly pathetic.

Sorry about the offense, I just can't get my head around it. It's so low. Buy three beers, talk to a woman. No luck? Get up, try again next week. Life is about trying hard and getting the **** back up after a beatdown again and again and again... not about buying fake enthusiasm.



What bothers me, is that men would delude themselves into thinking the women involved are super into sex with them. I also intend no offense, but this is part of the fantasy these girls are selling.

Even the biggest nympho has his or her limits, and they want to have sex with partners of their choosing. Now are their dirty tramps who want to bang every man walking without regard for what they look, taste, and smell like? Sure, Ill buy that but I am going to go out on a limb and say those numbers are VERY LOW.

Then the whole "The see girls are artists who enjoy plying their trade, enjoy the act, and work hard to pleasure you because they care about their job" that is kind of crazy talk... do they want you to come back? Sure some of you, not all of you. But not because they want you to be happy, or because they want your approval as sex partners... but because they want your money.

Don't fool yourself into thinking they like it, or you... that really makes you look like a sucker.

Sorry.

Remember they are there for your money, and you are there for their body. YOU might crave their approval "I aint no punk, you like this don't you baby"... sure as much as I like going to my 9 - 5 and I don't have fat, sweaty, disgusting men laying on top of me all day with skin conditions. Now are there good looking professionals who are Johns? Sure there are but I am willing to bet a fair number are pretty much disgusting.

Also even high priced call girls who might have fewer clients and a better quality of client are not necessarily into their jobs, even if they have horrible daddy issues and get paid very well. Some sure, but again you have to be talking about a minority... at the end of the day you are trading bodily fluids for money with people not of your choosing. (yeah yeah I know some can refuse work).

The argument being made that girls who are not prostitutes are JUST as likely to have diseases or MORE so is in fact laughable. Are prostitutes getting checked more often than housewives? Sure, some may be but they are also banging thousands of guys a year not one or two. SO the chances they are going the exposed to a disease is greater by a magnitude of thousands. EVEN if their own husbands cheat on them and have a mistress.

Lets be honest with our selves about what this is and what it isnt.



Bud, it doesn't seem like you're being very reasonable on the topic..

Sure, not every prostitute loves to be with every single client, and of course they may put on an act to make their client feel better because that's what their business is...to show their client a good time, and they can certainly enjoy giving a man what he's lacking in life. In addition, they are human, and if they have an attractive client they can genuinely have a fun time for sure. It's not like some fat old guy comes in and thrusts himself onto her and then bounces...these girls are schmoozed and romanced for the most part to the point where they establish some report ...as result they are comfortable and legitimately willing to satisfy.

Also, as some of us are saying, in regards to the top level girls, they're absolutely not having sex with 1000 men a year. The ones I've talked to say they have maybe 3 men per week max...some of those men request more than a standard hour. They may book them for a whole day or even two and take them out to lavish places as their escort. Again, they only do this a few months a year, so let's say 5 months...their rates are approx $800-$1000 per hour.

Do the math...for arguments sake, let's say they get one all day session out of the 3 per week, and 2 one hour sessions. Let's say the all day session is like, I dunno, approximately a $5000 special, then add two $1000 days...that's $7000 a week, times 4 weeks= $28,000 a month times 5 months =$140,000 per year and only 60 men per year for a couple years until they finish school most likely or open up a business of their own or something...whatever their goal is.

Again, the level of protection they go to ensure they don't catch any diseases...they use rubbers for intercourse and oral, and some don't even kiss. So where exactly would the infection come from? Although it may be possible for high level clients to carry diseases, it's not as frequent as some scumbag off the street looking to bang a 2 dollar hooker.

I know plenty of girls who have had sex with a dude without protection, as well as dudes I know that have had unprotected sex with girls...hell I've done it myself in the heat of the moment when I was younger and stupid...thank god I didn't catch anything, but the fact is that all of us were susceptible to catching something. I'm sure plenty of people here either have done that or know someone who has...therefore, even if it's only %1 of all girls that have slipped up once, the fact is that 100% of prostitutes use protection...that's just the fundamental rule...that statistic alone can argue that point that they are disease ridden. They are probably more likely to get an infection from drug use if we are talking about cheap hookers.

You almost make it seem like the only girls in the world who carry diseases are prostitutes. I used to be in the medical field and it's shocking the things you see and hear about people getting infected. It's funny you mention house wives because I recall one situation where a wife cheated on her husband, caught an std and gave it to her husband. It's possible to get diseases in the most unlikely of situations, but prostitutes are predominantly very careful...especially the top level.

Bottom line is that prostitution has been around for...well, damn near forever...millions of men take part in it, whether they admit it or not...this consists of the highest class of men through the lowest as well as women. It also consists of men who have no problem getting women on their own and those who depend upon their companionship ...even for married men.

Also, regarding that poll...where the hell was I when they ran that? I was never asked...and I'm sure all the people I know weren't...so how can stuff like that be accurate when they aren't asking all of the men in the USA? It actually says how unreliable the study is within the study lol.
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#130 » by spree2kawhi » Tue May 13, 2014 4:59 pm

An experiment:

Imagine sticking a fat, stinking dick real deep inside you for 200 $ or something in that range. Hell, make it 1000 $, but imagine! Now think about how sad this will make you to be so very much in need that this smelly dude noisily rails you and your soul at the moment.



These would be the only feelings I could have when having a prostitute: pity and sadness.
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#131 » by AndroidMan » Tue May 13, 2014 5:04 pm

basketboule wrote:An experiment:

Imagine sticking a fat, stinking dick real deep inside you for 200 $ or something in that range. Hell, make it 1000 $, but imagine! Now think about how sad this will make you to be so very much in need that this smelly dude noisily rails you and your soul at the moment.

These would be the only feelings I could have when having a prostitute: pity and sadness.


Dude spending $1000 for a women likely has the money to blow and is likely not smelly. Think about lawyers, doctors, and business men. And from my experience, women are turned on by dude's with money regardless of their looks. In fact, i can name quite a few who've married or slept their way into money with some very unattractive men. Women are attracted and seduced by men with lots of money. Try again.
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#132 » by Knicksman780 » Tue May 13, 2014 5:25 pm

Boss_ wrote:Once during the 90s..peer pressured by my friends..I always had a gf so I never cared for prostitutes plus I think they are disgusting and all the johns they pick up are disgusting.

Btw, my friend picked up a "girl" with his car that night, it turned out to be a guy :lol:
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Post#133 » by Knicksman780 » Tue May 13, 2014 5:27 pm

"I once got a hooker and let her go down on me in the car. I then felt between her legs and found out she was a man. I was like 'Dude....... hurry up'!"
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Post#134 » by Knicksman780 » Tue May 13, 2014 5:28 pm

^I forgot what comedian said those, but they were pretty funny lol
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#135 » by spree2kawhi » Tue May 13, 2014 6:35 pm

AndroidMan wrote:
basketboule wrote:An experiment:

Imagine sticking a fat, stinking dick real deep inside you for 200 $ or something in that range. Hell, make it 1000 $, but imagine! Now think about how sad this will make you to be so very much in need that this smelly dude noisily rails you and your soul at the moment.

These would be the only feelings I could have when having a prostitute: pity and sadness.


Dude spending $1000 for a women likely has the money to blow and is likely not smelly. Think about lawyers, doctors, and business men. And from my experience, women are turned on by dude's with money regardless of their looks. In fact, i can name quite a few who've married or slept their way into money with some very unattractive men. Women are attracted and seduced by men with lots of money. Try again.


Is that your image of women? :lol: :crazy: and are you saying a fat rich man's dick smells like flowers after a night out. you're not makin any sense...
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#136 » by EchelonNYK » Tue May 13, 2014 7:08 pm

Nah. But a while back i was at this Bus Station and this woman came by and on a occasion would look at me and even sat next to me at one point. I wasn't really feeling her like that so i kinda just ignored it.
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#137 » by AndroidMan » Tue May 13, 2014 7:09 pm

basketboule wrote:
AndroidMan wrote:
basketboule wrote:An experiment:

Imagine sticking a fat, stinking dick real deep inside you for 200 $ or something in that range. Hell, make it 1000 $, but imagine! Now think about how sad this will make you to be so very much in need that this smelly dude noisily rails you and your soul at the moment.

These would be the only feelings I could have when having a prostitute: pity and sadness.


Dude spending $1000 for a women likely has the money to blow and is likely not smelly. Think about lawyers, doctors, and business men. And from my experience, women are turned on by dude's with money regardless of their looks. In fact, i can name quite a few who've married or slept their way into money with some very unattractive men. Women are attracted and seduced by men with lots of money. Try again.


Is that your image of women? :lol: :crazy: and are you saying a fat rich man's dick smells like flowers after a night out. you're not makin any sense...


No you're the one equating that anyone with money and the desire to go see a prostitute must be a fat guy who's smelly, when in fact the exact opposite may be the case. Could very well have some celebrity, hedge fund manager, surgeon, politician, athlete, or balling ass attorney who's a very desired bachelor who's hot and rich. He may just need a companion who's not going to make things difficult for him in the long run.

Also, when you're a $1000 an hour prostitute, I think you call the shots at that point. You can decide who, when, and where you want to bang. Pretty sure a high priced escort is making more than your average Joe's annually and can be just as picky when selecting customers. Most of the high priced one's work independently, will screen potential customers, and filter out any unsavory customers. Obviously you don't know how the high end escort service works, but are basing your knowledge on the low level street game you may have seen on tv.

And in conclusion, the high end escort is not forced to work against her will. At that rate and working independently she chose that line of profession. If you feel pity and sadness over that, then you must be very judgemental.
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Re: OT:Have you ever experienced a prostitute? 

Post#138 » by prophet_of_rage » Tue May 13, 2014 7:48 pm

Why do athletes visit prostitutes?
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Post#139 » by Damas » Tue May 13, 2014 7:54 pm

echelonNYK wrote:Nah. But a while back i was at this Bus Station and this woman came by and on a occasion would look at me and even sat next to me at one point. I wasn't really feeling her like that so i kinda just ignored it.


Wow some guys clearly don't know when a woman is interested and when a women is minding her own business.
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Post#140 » by Damas » Tue May 13, 2014 7:54 pm

prophet_of_rage wrote:Why do athletes visit prostitutes?


Cheaper, no dining out, won't bitch at you about something and will leave after you bust your nut.

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