bulliedog8 wrote:truth18 wrote:Men and children can be raped as well. And although a lot of people will have issues, some easily overcome them. Some never do. Most are in between. Everyone is affected differently. Your comments about trauma being inherently worse than death stereotype rape victims.
Your last sentence is somewhat disgusting if that's alright to say. I know I am a guest here, and in no way is this a personal attack, but you need to research trauma. Hell, buy a DSM. They are usually under 10$.
How do you know how mentally strong this (supposedly) assaulted woman is? You think rape is some death touch for life?
It didn't seem to stop Rita Hayworth, Oprah, Fiona Apple, Tyler Perry, and countless others from being incredibly successful, well balanced people, with normal human issues. Now look, I'm not a fan of those last two people, but ****, some people are just stronger than others, man. Rape isn't some kind of permanently draining affliction for everyone. I guess if I lose an arm at some point, lose someone close to me, get a disease that can be beat or become blind, I'll just go commit suicide. Too devastating.
OT, sorry, but yeah, needed to be said.
You don't come back from murder. You don't get a choice. You don't come back as this physical self. Someone robs you of that.
Anyway, things are really starting to look like he didn't do anything. But the whole situation still feels odd. Maybe someone in his crew **** up and she's blaming it on him? Either way, the lawyer stuff and lack of criminal charges (NOT her coming out with this after years, being a woman, wanting anonymity, or even telling a crazy story [I don't believe her, but way more insane **** has gone down, I can't say that right now]) are starting to make me believe that she might be trying to pull some ****. Or maybe her family/friends/the first lawyer pushed her into this.
I'm still quite confused, but I liked Derrick's tweet. Being a man about it, if he's lying, **** will go down hard. He probably knows he hasn't done anything wrong and his other mistresses are not going to lie. At least I hope.
Go Bulls. Go truth. I want to believe in you Derrick.
Trust me, I dont have any problems with anyone ever coming at me personally. I wish realgm would let you go at people, makes trash talk and ish more fun. The board is too strict. So no need to apolagize.
And yes I know men can get raped, and boys (I swear every female teacher is doing stuff with these 14yr old students now a days). Heck I think I heard more men get raped than girls. But for now I was just talking about the girls.
I was just saying it can be pretty dang devastating having to live through that ish. No I dont know how mentally strong someone is, and I am sure a lot of people can get over it, but a lot of people could also suffer life long depression.
But like I said, it is my own messed up logic for it and I never expect anyone to agree with what I said.
You sound like an ignorant child and incredibly weak. Survival is hard and laying down is always easy. Growup and get some resolve.
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