Pickled Prunes wrote:
Everything you said is true. But instigating a physical altercation doesn't solve anything either. If anything it will amplify Embiid's frustration. With a few words and a little decorum Embiid could have had this guy ostracized from the NBA.
How many more people read the article specifically because of the incident? Embiid has pushed this story into a much brighter spotlight. There were infinitely better ways for Embiid to make his point.
On this, I agree with everything you said. 100%. Hek, 110%. All true.
There's a word for this, called the Streisand Effect.
But, I don't think the spotlight is the only issue. Basically everybody who follows the NBA knows that Embiid hasn't played yet this year and that he only played 39 games last year. That's not news.
Not everybody knew about Embiid's brother who died and naming his son after that brother and dedicating his career to them, and that's fine. How many players dedications to someone can you name off the top of your head?
The reporter wrote a story saying Embiid should play if he's going to dedicate his career to his son and brother and . . . I still say that wasn't a good thing to say.
So, Embiid shoves the reporter and yells at him, but this isn't a secret Embiid wants to keep. It was a piece of writing that pissed him off. Now everyone knows the story of his brother and son, but he wasn't trying to keep that a secret. Everyone knows he shoved a reporter, which he shouldn't have done, but I don't think he minds that getting out either.
EMbiid wasn't trying to draw attention away from his brother and son. He was sending a message that if you talk about them, He's going to get angry, and you won't like him when he's angry. And I think he's OK with that. I think he perhaps even wanted to draw attention towards the fact, that, as far as he's concerned, this is off limits from criticism and reporters, be warned.
So, he might not care if more people read the reporters article, so long as most of them know that he shoved the reporter for writing it. (just my guess)
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And now there's an open debate on, what should or shouldn't reporters call into question, like what a player has dedicated their career to and there are people who've taken Embiid's side (not for the shove, but understanding why he got angry), hek, even me, and I'm an Embiid hating Knicks fan.
So I would guess, that personally, Embiid has no regrets. He was already kind of in conflict with fans on not playing and him saying "I've given Philadelphia a lot" -which I don't think he should have said that. I think that was arrogant, but that's another story.
I would never put up to question what a player has dedicated their career too. I'll say a ton of mean things about a player I don't like, but I would never use their dedication in any way against them.
So - - he shouldn't have done the shove - we agree on that. I don't think he regrets the shove, though I'm only guessing.
And where the NBA comes down on this, and if they say anything about the reporter crossing the line will be interesting to see, as it's free speech, but it was still, I think, the wrong thing for the reporter to call into question. And I don't think the NBA wants reporters writing stories like that.
Just my 2 cents.
The Strisand effect is a great story, but I don't think it applies here.
https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/67299/how-barbra-streisand-inspired-streisand-effect