MartyConlonOnTheRun wrote:WeekapaugGroove wrote:jschligs wrote:Update: this “vacation” still sucks.
My wife and I don't argue often but traveling when our kids were toddlers was one we'd fight about. It's pretty rough with littles but of course she would win and we did a decent amount traveling with them. Positive spin, my kids are 4 and 8 now and are great travels. Some is just them being older but the reps when they were little definitely help.
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Did you see the difference between one kid and two? Current toddler loves traveling and has done Jordan, Moab, Cancun, Boston, Austin in the past six months and with the exception of the time zones he did good. I do have big fears with the extra car seat and baggage along with my wife having to hold one. She's the better parent but I can be the pack mule with 70% of the luggage and the kid. If she also has to carry a kid and luggage everything just becomes a strain (airport, checking, lines at attractions, etc).
My kids are 3.5 years age difference so my daughter was at least at an age where she could somewhat be reasoned with when we were traveling with the baby. We always heaped tons a 'youre such a good little traveler' praise on my daughter and shes the type to like that and be a good little trooper when things start going sideways.
Time, always give yourself more time for everything than you think you need.
The extra car seats do make for a big luggage load. Get to the airport early and use carts. Luckily neither of my kids had ear issues with planes so for the most parts flights were chill.
I highly recommend the airbnb over a hotel. Having an actual room to put kids to bed in early is a life saver. Wed also plan out days in two parts with a mid day nap/chill time so the kids weren't terrorists by the evening.
Probably the most challenging time is right after you potty train. We took trips right before starting with both kids.
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