Post#562 » by Romeiro Celtic » Mon May 15, 2023 10:52 pm
Guys, I really need this help:
Well, I've met this girl, let's call her Julie, on June/2022 while doing an internship on a hospital and while she's on residency. We didn't talk at first, but followed each other on instagram. On January I slowly started to interact with her through her stories and we started talking by February, while she was on vacation traveling. We took things slow and had our first date by the end of March (29th), we had a coffee, talked a lot and had a great time together, leading to our second date right on the next sunday (April 2nd). It was amazing, we went to a museum and then had dinner together, but right after it when we were on the car, she asked me to keep things slow, because she wanted to be sure of her feelings and of everything that was happening to us. I agreed in no time.
On Easter I gave her chocolate with a kind card and a spotify playlist QR code that I created. We started connecting more, going out more often, but we never kissed, we only held hands and hugged. By the middle of April (18th), it was her birthday and I made this really significant gift, talking to a few of her best friends and making a surprise for her, which she loved. And then we kept things going really nice and well, going out, talking a lot about each other and being very open all the time.
On May 3rd I asked her to be my girlfriend. She didn't say yes, but she didn't say no either, she asked me to wait a little, while she's solving some internal issues she has right now (all of them she told me about and explained me everything about them), but really asked me to wait for her, we finally kissed for the first time and I accepted to wait for her, since I truly believe we're meant to be together. Ever since, I've been waiting and I feel like this is somehow killing me from the inside, because I know all her friends, her family knows about me, my family knows about her, my friends know about her and we keep developing intimacy, but she never gives me an answer. I don't want to be pressuring her about it, I don't want to be all over her being that annoying guy asking her to give an answer. I feel that I truly love her and all my actions say so. She's a bit different from me in terms of expressing emotions, she's a bit more distant and does it less often, but she still does and shows to me how much she appreciates me. What should I do now? Do I ask her again or just keep waiting? Next month she'll be out of town and we won't be seeing each other + there's valentines day where we live...
EDIT: Forgot about this: between our date to the museum and her birthday, we had a date night where we went to my favourite restaurant and it was one of the most significant nights we've had so far, but as I was dropping her home, she asked me to talk a bit on the car and asked again for us to keep things to going slow, since she really wanted the things to go right and wanted a serious relationship. I agreed once more. And things kept going really well.
My goodness. Wow