Woj/Shams: Ime Udoka Suspended for 2022-23 Season - Inappropriate Relationship, Conduct Violations

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Re: Woj Update - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season 

Post#542 » by azcatz11 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:33 pm

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Synciere wrote:
Most positions in an NBA organization are NOT public, in any form. Come on. General manager? Sure. How do we know this? Because when a team hires a GM, or President or Personnel, or Lead Scout, there's a press release. I worked for the Sixers for two years, trust, you've NEVER heard of me. LOL


Your information would be public on the sixers website (email address etc)

We can agree to disagree

So as long as a corporation lists an employees email address on their website they are public facing and it is "fair game" to wildly speculate on their sex life and share images of them online.


I'm not the one who posted any pictures.

Is it in bad taste, probably. Don't create a LinkedIn profile if you don't want pictures circulated.
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#544 » by Capn'O » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:35 pm

DaeDae wrote:The more I think about it, this may be the WILDEST NBA story I’ve heard in a long time.


You and I are looking at this the same way and the rest of the world has gone crazy. JUICAYYYYY!!!
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Re: Woj Update - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season 

Post#545 » by celticfan42487 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:35 pm

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I think he's saying there have been multiple coaches and executives who banged subordinates or associates of the organization and it's not newsworthy there so why here?


I agree it shouldn't be newsworthy, I feel like this is a violation of all the employee's privacy.

However whomever is the one higher up the ladder in the org should be fired though for improper conduct, and I'm sure the other employees have a good case on their hand for a lawsuit for gross mistreatment.

You can't really give consent to your boss, the power imbalance is too great. Part of the reason almost every company has this as a fireable offense I would assume in the world.

An NBA coach getting unexpectedly suspended is always going to be newsworthy tho. Especially one so highly regarded who just made the finals


It's true. I don't like that we know it's for sex with multiple married people who may or may not be employees or may or may not be working beneath him in the ladder (I haven't bothered to figure it out, I'm guessing the full details will be known in a couple of days and I'm too busy slacking with fantasy football to look into this one today lol).

I guess, the right way would have just been suspended due to violation of team policy. And no more details revealed. Or improper conduct whatever the right term is. We shouldn't know his personal life that he cheated let alone know he had multiple relations within the org, but know he must have done "something" under a wide umbrella of possibilities.

Of course that begs who checks on the org to make sure the punishment is valid and on that front I'm not sure. Supposedly you can sue for unlawful firing but this is America so I doubt employees get any rights protected in reality. But you get the gist.
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#546 » by Cavsfansince84 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:36 pm

The married women involved are also to blame. I doubt he went out of his way to seduce them. Imo they probably were pretty damn flirtatious for the whole affair(s) to happen in the first place. So I don't think it's a matter of him wanting to cheat on his fiance so much as being on the road with attractive women who are seeing if he wants to come to their hotel room and getting friendly with him over time. Which doesn't excuse it at all but I wouldn't lay it all at his feet either. Takes two to tango.
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#547 » by Exp0sed » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:38 pm

suspension for a year is ludicrous
I don't know exactly what he did, I also don't know what his contract states in terms of conduct or what corporate law says - if it's bad enough to get suspended for a year then it's bad enough to be a fireable offense

suspension for a year is just dumb, impractical and makes zero sense for all parties involved, including Uduka
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#548 » by DaeDae » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:41 pm

Cavsfansince84 wrote:The married women involved are also to blame. I doubt he went out of his way to seduce them. Imo they probably were pretty damn flirtatious for the whole affair(s) to happen in the first place. So I don't think it's a matter of him wanting to cheat on his fiance so much as being on the road with attractive women who are seeing if he wants to come to their hotel room and getting friendly with him over time. Which doesn't excuse it at all but I wouldn't lay it all at his feet either. Takes two to tango.


I don’t disagree.
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#549 » by bigpimpatl » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:42 pm

WuTang_OG wrote:[tweet] redacted[/tweet]


LOL the greet is a tongue out

dude knows exactly what he's going to do :lol: :lol: :lol:

sidenote this has been a fun distraction for me today
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#550 » by DaeDae » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:43 pm

Capn'O wrote:
DaeDae wrote:The more I think about it, this may be the WILDEST NBA story I’ve heard in a long time.


You and I are looking at this the same way and the rest of the world has gone crazy. JUICAYYYYY!!!


It’s absurd.
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Post#551 » by jokeboy86 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:43 pm

DaeDae wrote:The more I think about it, this may be the WILDEST NBA story I’ve heard in a long time.


Only thing that surprises me is that Woj/Shams are breaking something like this before TMZ. I thought TMZ had a sports site cause you would think something juicy like this they would have the scoop.
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#552 » by DaeDae » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:44 pm

bigpimpatl wrote:
WuTang_OG wrote:
Read on Twitter


LOL the greet is a tongue out

dude knows exactly what he's going to do :lol: :lol: :lol:

sidenote this has been a fun distraction for me today


Me too. :lol:
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#553 » by MagicFan12345 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:44 pm

I am going to laugh if Ime is suspended for the season and the interim coach wins a championship and Celtics decides to keep the interim coach permanently and fire Ime
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#554 » by AbeVigodaLive » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:45 pm

Cavsfansince84 wrote:The married women involved are also to blame. I doubt he went out of his way to seduce them. Imo they probably were pretty damn flirtatious for the whole affair(s) to happen in the first place. So I don't think it's a matter of him wanting to cheat on his fiance so much as being on the road with attractive women who are seeing if he wants to come to their hotel room and getting friendly with him over time. Which doesn't excuse it at all but I wouldn't lay it all at his feet either. Takes two to tango.



Sure. As noted, it's consensual. But it's all about clout and even celebrity.

It's a much worse look for the guy shown on tv 73 times every game compared to the person sitting at their desk or whatever behind the scenes.

Likewise, the news of that dirty rotten Johnny Bliskowski getting caught banging the once-virtuous and now evil cheating vixen who broke my heart Helen Forliti in the office supplies room isn't gonna make the RealGM forum.

Well... until now.
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#555 » by stillgotgame » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:46 pm

Wife of the redacted? Yeah, that's a problem.
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Re: Woj Update - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season 

Post#556 » by nikster » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:47 pm

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I agree it shouldn't be newsworthy, I feel like this is a violation of all the employee's privacy.

However whomever is the one higher up the ladder in the org should be fired though for improper conduct, and I'm sure the other employees have a good case on their hand for a lawsuit for gross mistreatment.

You can't really give consent to your boss, the power imbalance is too great. Part of the reason almost every company has this as a fireable offense I would assume in the world.

An NBA coach getting unexpectedly suspended is always going to be newsworthy tho. Especially one so highly regarded who just made the finals


It's true. I don't like that we know it's for sex with multiple married people who may or may not be employees or may or may not be working beneath him in the ladder (I haven't bothered to figure it out, I'm guessing the full details will be known in a couple of days and I'm too busy slacking with fantasy football to look into this one today lol).

I guess, the right way would have just been suspended due to violation of team policy. And no more details revealed. Or improper conduct whatever the right term is. We shouldn't know his personal life that he cheated let alone know he had multiple relations within the org, but know he must have done "something" under a wide umbrella of possibilities.

Of course that begs who checks on the org to make sure the punishment is valid and on that front I'm not sure. Supposedly you can sue for unlawful firing but this is America so I doubt employees get any rights protected in reality. But you get the gist.

Yea it's a tough spot when your that public. A one year suspension for violating team policy would still cause a media frenzy. Would lead to tons of speculation and I feel it would be damn near impossible for the organization to keep the truth from getting out, as I'm sure at least several employees must have had some idea of what went down.
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Post#557 » by Eyeamok » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:48 pm

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DaeDae wrote:That’s my thing. This dude is a millionaire, on national TV regularly, runs in pretty substantial circles and is AT MINIMUM attractive enough to pull Nia Long and be her Fiance. He literally could have chosen almost any other woman on earth - and many of them would have been down with it, married people not - and he would not be suspended today. He chose one of the only 5-10 women on EARTH that could potentially ruin his career by sleeping with her.

If the story is true of course…..


Amazing isn't it? :lol:

The guy is a certified moron.


Come on man!!! Forbidden fruit is always the sweetest.

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Re: Woj Update - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season 

Post#558 » by nikster » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:50 pm

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Your information would be public on the sixers website (email address etc)

We can agree to disagree

So as long as a corporation lists an employees email address on their website they are public facing and it is "fair game" to wildly speculate on their sex life and share images of them online.


I'm not the one who posted any pictures.

Is it in bad taste, probably. Don't create a LinkedIn profile if you don't want pictures circulated.

So you changed your argument from "if you don't want to have your image shared and speculation about your sex life on a national level you shouldn't be in a public facing position" Now it's fair game just for having a linkedin profile
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Post#559 » by WRau1 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:50 pm

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Post#560 » by SlovenianDragon » Thu Sep 22, 2022 6:51 pm

Duffman100 wrote:An entire season for this? Seems like a huge punishment for a consensual relationship.


I think what people are missing is it wasn't consensual to the other parties involved soon to be wives or husbands..

If it was that simple it wouldn't be a big deal...but the truth is he wrecked other people's lives.

He deserves to be fired for his actions and blackballed from the league.

Cheating is a.terrible thing that does so much harm to the lives of the people it effects.
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