Woj/Shams: Ime Udoka Suspended for 2022-23 Season - Inappropriate Relationship, Conduct Violations

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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#581 » by Capn'O » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:20 pm

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Now we got a guy who goes by "Spank" out here like "whoa man, that's over the damn line!"
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#582 » by Duke4life831 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:20 pm

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Duke4life831 wrote:Well I think I have finally got to the point where even I can admit Im the guy that must be no fan at parties haha.

Honestly the first thing I thin about with this story is, how crappy Ime's fiance must feel, how crappy the husband or husbands must feel, if this did involve women that had children, how crappy they must be feeling right now.


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Post#583 » by Clyde Frazier » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:20 pm

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This is the part about the story getting leaked which is pretty disconcerting. The internet really sucks sometimes.
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Post#584 » by Optimus_Steel » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:22 pm

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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#585 » by Duke4life831 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:23 pm

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Duke4life831 wrote:Well I think I have finally got to the point where even I can admit Im the guy that must be no fan at parties haha.

Honestly the first thing I thin about with this story is, how crappy Ime's fiance must feel, how crappy the husband or husbands must feel, if this did involve women that had children, how crappy they must be feeling right now.


I'd venture to say the emotion is more of 'embarrassment'. The entanglements seem to organized and I've seen such organization before in lifestyle circles. I think the parties that may have the biggest problem with this situation are the kids and the Celtic organization.


I get this entire thing is speculation, but if this was all copesthetic for the parties involved, I dont see this becoming a major storyline like this. This most definitely has the feel of some really pissed off people who want him gone and the work environment is now shot because of what happened. I dont see that being the situation if everyone involved was cool with it.
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Post#586 » by Eyeamok » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:23 pm

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Too soon?


"Epidemic of gold digging whores"

Is this meant to be funny or belong in this topic?



It is funny, Its hilarious actually.

I can only assume that you didn't listen to it and just read the title.


But thats fine, comedy isnt for everyone.


This was so funny. It "pokes" fun at men, women and people in general. Ahhh comedy and a sense of humor where have you gone? :(
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#587 » by BlazersBroncos » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:23 pm

Should be fired just for being so stupid.

Cheat outside the org and definitely dont cheat with one of your bosses wives.

The Celtics were a title contender. This is Ime putting himself above the organization and team. Its immature and selfish.

Cut the bait now and fire him.
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Post#588 » by WuTang_CMB » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:23 pm

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Magic_Johnny12 wrote:Not a trusted or verified source BUT if true :o 8-)


Read on Twitter


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If this is all fact, especially the last part, don't suspend him, just fire him outright.


Nah because they would have to pay him. They leaked this on purpose to force him to resign.
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Post#589 » by nikster » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:25 pm

Clyde Frazier wrote:
Read on Twitter


This is the part about the story getting leaked which is pretty disconcerting. The internet really sucks sometimes.

Yeah, it's gonna be hard to shake that. For some of these women the only exposure the public and some future prospective employees are gonna have of them is of these allegations.
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#590 » by ShazamDaShiznt » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:28 pm

Wait wait wait, I didn't have time to read all of this.....did Udoka sleep with his bosses wife???? Wow he outParkered Tony himself then :lol:
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Post#591 » by Eyeamok » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:28 pm

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Antinomy wrote:I’m not justifying what he did, but some of you are gassing up the Nia Long thing — she’s 52, not 30.

She’s still fine, but she’s not fine-fine. She’s 50-fine.

And they were together for 12 years or so. At some point, human nature starts to kick in. (We also don’t even know their relationship status)

On the flip side, the staffer he was involved with is actually married! And it’s to the guy she went to high school with.


I had to google this person and once I saw she was in her 50's I couldn't believe the responses. Sorry but rich powerful guys are always going to be looking for younger women. Most guys control themselves as there's more to life than a shag, but everyone's at the very least looking just a bit. We're still human.


We are looking a lot not just a little bit. Most men think the internet was created for sports, porn and porn. And I don't think they are wrong. :lol:
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#593 » by JimmyPlopper » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:31 pm

Interim Coach Mazulla had some indiscretions as a young man. Hopefully all behind him now. From Celtics board:

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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#594 » by WuTang_CMB » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:32 pm

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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#595 » by TheSuzerain » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:35 pm

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Duffman100 wrote:An entire season for this? Seems like a huge punishment for a consensual relationship.


I think what people are missing is it wasn't consensual to the other parties involved soon to be wives or husbands..

If it was that simple it wouldn't be a big deal...but the truth is he wrecked other people's lives.

He deserves to be fired for his actions and blackballed from the league.

Cheating is a.terrible thing that does so much harm to the lives of the people it effects.

This is **** insane.

Your employer is not the morality police.
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Post#596 » by nikster » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:35 pm

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gst8 wrote:I dunno man. You spend a good portion of your awake adult life at work. These types of things are bound to happen.


Lol yeah if you're a piece of ****. Goes for both parties involved.


That's your opinion. I don't really care one way or the other.

But I'm guessing this happens on some level in thousands of workplaces every day.

Proximity is one of the key drivers of relationship development.

Yeah its importantant to understand why these things happen, and to realize morality is never black and white. Cheating is a **** behavior but don't think necessarily makes you a **** person.

I love examples like MLK cheating on his wife, because it forces you to face the ambiguity of judging people
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#597 » by wow09 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:39 pm

Why even bother putting this out with all this vague info it only leads to speculation which makes this whole thing get talked about more and likely makes it seem worse than it is.
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Post#598 » by azcatz11 » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:41 pm

wow09 wrote:Why even bother putting this out with all this vague info it only leads to speculation which makes this whole thing get talked about more and likely makes it seem worse than it is.


For the entertainment value. Whoever leaked the story probably hates Ime and has an axe to grind. Or they just “did it for the lulz”
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Re: Woj/Shams - Ime Udoka is likely facing a suspension for the entire season - inappropriate consensual relationship 

Post#599 » by Joshyjess » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:45 pm

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Catchall wrote:If the woman that Udoka slept with is really the wife of another executive within the organization, then yeah, that's really dirty and disrespectful to the organization. It's not something that can just be brushed aside.


Ferengi Rules of Acquisition #112 and #113: Never sleep with the boss' sister or wife. Rather, always sleep with the boss.
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Post#600 » by Dubnation » Thu Sep 22, 2022 7:45 pm

TheSuzerain wrote:
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Duffman100 wrote:An entire season for this? Seems like a huge punishment for a consensual relationship.


I think what people are missing is it wasn't consensual to the other parties involved soon to be wives or husbands..

If it was that simple it wouldn't be a big deal...but the truth is he wrecked other people's lives.

He deserves to be fired for his actions and blackballed from the league.

Cheating is a.terrible thing that does so much harm to the lives of the people it effects.

This is **** insane.

Your employer is not the morality police.


In many cases, they are. Morality clauses are very common these days, and actually more prominent than the small print on many employment agreements in the HR packet.

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