2. Individual versus team sport. I don't want to pick on this one too much because my comparisons would be as flawed as yours. For Bonner I think of someone who helped you practice and train, was part of a group that had a lot in place to be successful and enjoyed it when you won but also knew that it wasn't them getting the heavy lifting done. But like you said, you were the only one who won, and that's a bad comparison.
3. This is a big one and goes back to level, you made a big commitment to your field, but comparing that to the commitment professionals make is a huge reach. It's just not the same. I'm not that competitive either, and it's great that you chose your field, reached the peak and then did what you decided was best for you, but there were probably more levels above where you would've had to really multiply your commitment to compete successfully. Like the Olympics, how much harder would you have had to train if you decided to go for that in your field? For someone who puts in all that extra time, the results come to mean more. They might identify themselves more with the results too. Also, these guys try to reach the top over and over again, there has to be some motivation even after you've bought everything you could want. It sounds like you walked away on top, which is a great place to be. But repeating probably would've been harder.
4. Charles Barkley's and Dan Marino's lives would be a lot different if they had won. Maybe they'd be worse off in some way, but at that level there's some effect. Brett Favre's would be a lot different if he didn't win. This comes at the highest level for players at the top even of that, who believe their impact on a team game should still be enough to bring them out on top. We have people here from all over the world, following their guy from their place. If Szymon Szewczyk was on the NBA champs, some people in Poland would care.
Maybe in 200 years none of it'll matter. Money may or may not last that long either. 2000 years ago, Aztec and gladiator losers were put to death and maybe their heads were used as the ball. Maybe there's a drop of that left over in our blood, some more than others.
Edit: Now as fans, we're more than a little goofy...
