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OT - Love .. 

Post#1 » by Eralp » Sun May 18, 2008 7:43 pm

It can be a really off-topic situation but i wanna talk about that.I fallen in a love with a girl named tuğ
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Post#2 » by jove9 » Sun May 18, 2008 10:06 pm

If she's refusing you, it is what it is.

You said that she changed your life in a positive way, right? Then be glad that she came along and set you in the right direction.

Forcing things will only end in disaster.
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Post#3 » by Eralp » Mon May 19, 2008 6:05 pm

Maybe you are right, but she affected me in some negative ways. alright it is not a big problem, but i can't understand what a person should do against a girl. girls are some really hard people man. first, she is talking with you and smiling, secondly, she is angry against me and say "i hate you" . Shortly, i completely mixed up.

Really really hard..
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Post#4 » by PocketRockets » Mon May 19, 2008 6:28 pm

Eralp wrote:Maybe you are right, but she affected me in some negative ways. alright it is not a bir problem, but i can't understand what a person should do against a girl. girls are some really hard people man. first, she is talking with you and smiling, secondly, she is angry against me and say "i hate you" . Shortly, i completely mixed up.

Really really hard..


That's right bro. Women are crazy. If you really love her, then give her time and let her see how good you are. No offense, but maybe she doesn't like sappy poems and crap and you should man up and stop being so girly. Some girls believe it or not, want to be with a man. Plus I'm assuming you're a guy, so it's okay to be a little rough, you know? It makes it all the more special when you get romantic because she'll know you have a "softer" side too.

If you just want to hit it, then just go out a lot. Alcohol is the best love potion. Don't rape or force her or anything, but most of the time she'll be ready to jump on you after a couple a couple of drinks.
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Post#5 » by Amel » Mon May 19, 2008 7:46 pm

get you act together

man up!
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Post#6 » by DraftBoy10 » Mon May 19, 2008 10:12 pm

:nonono:
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Post#7 » by Ribalding » Tue May 20, 2008 12:14 am

I've decided to run for a spot on the school board, for what it's worth.

Eralp, here is my advice:

You need to learn to express yourself. Women are not visually motivated. They are communication motivated. That means "if you can't accurately convey your feelings to a woman and/or understand her communication, she is going to move on".

Summary : Unless you look like Fabio (and have his money), you need the ability to woo. And you can't woo without communication skills.

**Please disregard this if neither you or the siren in question are native English speakers.**
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Post#8 » by TiMacMania » Tue May 20, 2008 2:51 pm

never show to a girl that you love her


once she knows it you are done
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Post#9 » by Transistor » Tue May 20, 2008 3:42 pm

treat her like crap, chicks dig that
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Post#10 » by DraftBoy10 » Tue May 20, 2008 7:58 pm

DraftBoy10 wrote::nonono:


Hahaha. Vator. You're just mad cause the ideas came to me first.
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Post#11 » by jove9 » Tue May 20, 2008 10:46 pm

Transistor wrote:treat her like crap, chicks dig that


Only chicks with low self-confidence will let you treat them like crap. The question then is, do you really want a girl with low self-confidence?

I go by the rule that you should never treat girls horribly anyway. I don't know about you....
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Post#12 » by A.J. » Wed May 21, 2008 2:56 am

Transistor wrote:treat her like crap, chicks dig that



That makes me wonder what chicks you hang with. :wink:
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Post#13 » by TiMacMania » Wed May 21, 2008 3:44 am

A.J. wrote:-= original quote snipped =-




That makes me wonder what chicks you hang with. :wink:


well, the funny thing is that it kinda works lol
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Post#14 » by Vator » Wed May 21, 2008 4:22 pm

DraftBoy10 wrote:-= original quote snipped =-



Hahaha. Vator. You're just mad cause the ideas came to me first.


I know you were just kidding, but I don't need you giving some of these guys any "ideas" :wink:

Especially ones that could result in them ending up on the news and spending a few years in the slammer where they can really find out the true meaning of love. :cuddle :droop: :eyebrows:
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Post#15 » by tha_rock220 » Thu May 22, 2008 1:23 am

Have any of you guys ever been to jail??? I got pepper sprayed once.

Eralp I don't know how old you are, but you shouldn't thinking about things like love. That's how girls take advantage of you. And don't treat them like **** either. That's a myth.
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Post#16 » by jove9 » Thu May 22, 2008 2:39 am

I got busted by the cops for beating up a hooker once.

I actually tried to get away by stealing a car, but I was stupid about it and stole the car right in front of the cop. That only increased my wanted level and I had more pigs after me. So then I said to hell with it and just tried to shoot them all and run them over.

There's a lesson to be learned here, kids. If you're going to bust out your pimp-hand and smack the hookers around, be sure you're near a safehouse.
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Post#17 » by Baller 24 » Thu May 22, 2008 3:01 am

tha_rock220 wrote:Have any of you guys ever been to jail??? I got pepper sprayed once.

Eralp I don't know how old you are, but you shouldn't thinking about things like love. That's how girls take advantage of you. And don't treat them like **** either. That's a myth.



:rofl: :bowdown: I read your post before you edited it haha.
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Post#18 » by A.J. » Thu May 22, 2008 3:06 am

jove9 wrote:I got busted by the cops for beating up a hooker once.

I actually tried to get away by stealing a car, but I was stupid about it and stole the car right in front of the cop. That only increased my wanted level and I had more pigs after me. So then I said to hell with it and just tried to shoot them all and run them over.

There's a lesson to be learned here, kids. If you're going to bust out your pimp-hand and smack the hookers around, be sure you're near a safehouse.


:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

I can only imagine it
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Post#19 » by tha_rock220 » Thu May 22, 2008 6:28 am

jove9 wrote:I got busted by the cops for beating up a hooker once.

I actually tried to get away by stealing a car, but I was stupid about it and stole the car right in front of the cop. That only increased my wanted level and I had more pigs after me. So then I said to hell with it and just tried to shoot them all and run them over.

There's a lesson to be learned here, kids. If you're going to bust out your pimp-hand and smack the hookers around, be sure you're near a safehouse.


So was your name Tony, CJ, or Niko???

I read your post before you edited it haha.


Let's keep that on the dl. That experience lead to a drastic reduction in my drinking, and I realized it was stupid to post my legal troubles on a message board
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Re: OT - Love .. 

Post#20 » by Jaykoolzboy » Thu May 22, 2008 9:42 am

Eralp, I understand your situation ( I was in the same situation before), here is what I come up with.

If girls rejects you (like Mutombo rejections) that means they are just not interest in you, that doesn't mean you are bad or whatever, it is just that they don't want to be together with you for some reason, and it is really hard to overcome that. You have to understand the situation and just move on. You will meet someone who enjoys your love in the end. Trust me on that.

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