fishercob wrote:I know I'm in the huge minority here, but this is a game-changer to me.
I've only been in the presence of guns a handful of times in my life. The thought of someone "chambering" a round in a menacing way scares me to the point of pooping a teeny bit in my pants.
Knowing that Gilbert has dealt with a lifetime of pain through humor, doesn't this put his actions since the incident in some reasonable context? It's not an excuse, but golly gee I'm pretty damn sure some doctor would testify that Gil's post-incident actions are in some ways consistent with PTSD.
I totally agree Fisher. The book on Gil has always been that he is crazy like a fox- that beneath that quirky exterior was a lot of savvy. The Gil that has been out there the last week tweeting and making fake pistols with his fingers and directly taunting the Commish is not Gil- this is a freaked out kid who has completely lost touch with reality out of fear.
Actually my own personal feeling is that even before he got in trouble - from the early season moodiness to the fateful decision to put those guns in front of Crittenton's locker - just wasn't quite Gilbert Arenas. Who knows what it was - the stress of coming back from a devastating injury, the struggles of the team, maybe even that whole thing with Shaq - but there has definitely been something off about Gil emotionally even though no one could have expected him to play any better than he has on the court.
I don't excuse anything that he has done - Gil is smart enough (and experienced enough with his previous gun run-in with the law) that he should never have even considered pulling a stunt like he did with his weapons, and even if nothing else had happened, the way he was bullying a young kid like Crittenton who is barely hanging on in the league is something he should be ashamed of.
But I still think underneath it all, Gilbert is basically a good kid, and he has done enough good things and brought enough joy and shown enough loyalty to the Wizards that someone with the organization should reach out and get him the help he needs, whether it be counseling, medication, or just quiet time. Because he really needs it right now.