xKLNx Phenom wrote:Here's the problem, I'm naturally a really unconfident guy, and that has always been my biggest problem with girls. I try to walk with a swagger or confidence, and talk to my friends with it, but it's really hard to talk to her. I moved my seat to sit right next to her, and we haven't talked in the 3 days, mostly because she doesn't say a peep in that class. The best opportunity for me to talk to her is when we are both waiting for the bell to rang, as we are outside the class. (Just the 2 of us.) That's where most of our convo's come from, and I have a hard time talking to her unless it's just the two of us. I'm really confused, and nervous as well.
I honestly don't know if I have the balls to just tell her I like her. I have 2 classes with her, and I wouldn't be able to live with myself. I have more self-doubt than anyone. I lost 37 pounds so I would have no fat on my body, so I wouldn't have any excuses. It sucks when someone means more to you than they know.
Thanks for the help...
Start off casually. Since you're now sitting close to her, wait until after class tomorrow, and while she's gathering her stuff say hi, and ask her what she thought of today's lecture, or something casual along those lines.
Build up day by day, and slowly she'll become comfortable with you.
Then after about a Week or so, ask her if she'd casually like to grab a cup of coffee, or lunch.
If she says yes, then you're on the right track. Keeping going out with her casually, then after a while ask her out on a real date.
--Mags
