xKLNx Phenom wrote:Here's the problem, I'm naturally a really unconfident guy, and that has always been my biggest problem with girls. I try to walk with a swagger or confidence, and talk to my friends with it, but it's really hard to talk to her. I moved my seat to sit right next to her, and we haven't talked in the 3 days, mostly because she doesn't say a peep in that class. The best opportunity for me to talk to her is when we are both waiting for the bell to rang, as we are outside the class. (Just the 2 of us.) That's where most of our convo's come from, and I have a hard time talking to her unless it's just the two of us. I'm really confused, and nervous as well.
I honestly don't know if I have the balls to just tell her I like her. I have 2 classes with her, and I wouldn't be able to live with myself. I have more self-doubt than anyone. I lost 37 pounds so I would have no fat on my body, so I wouldn't have any excuses. It sucks when someone means more to you than they know.
Thanks for the help...
Listen, in HS, I was exactly the same way. I had no confidence and spent the whole time with braces which took away any confidence I did have (unless I was playing sports). Once I got to college, I decided to stop letting my lack of confidence mess up opportunities to meet people and I realized that talking to girls really isn't that hard. You don't even have to walk with real swagger or any of that nonsense, I'm just a always smiling and welcoming. If I make eye contact with someone, I head nod or say hi. I've become pretty damned social, and the girls I've dated have all looked good. They wouldn't be dimes by the ridiculous standards on these boards (where even super models and celebrity chicks get hated on) but my team all gives props to chicks I've brought home. It gets a lot easier as you get older, but looking back on all the blown chances I had to meet girls and maybe go further...I was an idiot. Take a few chances, you'll never break that mind set unless you resolve to just go for it.