James_Raptors wrote:
Maybe I'm just different and have irrational expectations.
For example, at one point in time in my life, many years ago mind you, I was well on my way to a professional career in sports (not basketball). I'm an extremely competative person in general. I hate losing. I don't accept losing and I would never resign myself to losing, even if the hill I had to climb was rediculous and maybe it was illogical to think I could overcome it.
I guess my main point is that these athletes aren't just playing a game. On one hand I want them to be honest and even though it's a contradiction, I don't want to know, I don't want them to say, publicly, if they expect (re: accept) losing as though it's a forgone conclusion. There's always a chance of victory no matter what the odds are and that's one of many factors that keeps your hopes alive, even in an adverse situation against a steep climb.
I would say 2 things:
1) I've been involved in and around sports a lot myself, and I agree a lot of people in the field operate that way.
2) Even if you assume that way is the only way...I don't think it is, but can certainly see the argument...I don't think the external projection of that need follow the MJ 'everything is a war, 24/7' ***hat mold.
Kareem, Hakeem, Duncan, Russell, etc...all of these guys were winners too, but didn't need to overtly project it all the time in all contexts. MJ, Bird, WIlt...those guys do. What I'm saying is, especially because of MJ's profile, we have narrowed the frame too much on what a winner acts like all the time.
I think you can be a competitive guy and be capable of making a joke like Bargs did. I personally don;t think Bargs is all that competitive, so in this case I think your complaint is probably viable, but I only think that because his play backs up the guess. I could see an atypical athlete mind like a Steve Nash make a joke about losing, and not take it to mean we can't have his type on the team.