OT - My girl got fat

Fat Kat · Post #21 » by **Fat Kat** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:34 pm

Teppler wrote:Are you going to live a victimized life forever because you're afraid to be labeled shallow?

Now be honest- do you have options? Are you honest with her on how you feel or are you afraid of creating ill will or hurting her feelings.

If you have to pretend you're ****ing someone else you aren't only lying to yourself but to your girl as well. This type of thing brings along psychological baggage and it piles up as the weeks, days, months and years pass by.

Live the life that makes you happy and everything around you will start to radiate that same energy. Note that this does not mean disregard consequences. Still gotta deal with them but weigh your decisions, make your calls then don't look back and apologize to anyone.
It looks from your post you're just dying for someone to give you the okay to move on. Here you go. Follow your bliss, just be conscious it doesn't take you to a dead end.

This.

Post #22 » by **GONYK** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:35 pm

Quick Kick wrote:
Fury wrote:How long have you been with her?

Two years. Shes a great girl and she knows me like no other woman ever has. Im 31 and shes 25. Now this makes me worry more. What happens if I get her pregnant? If shes this lazy now, imagine what shell look like after kids? Oh my god Im getting sick thinking of it. Im gonna call her fat tonight. Ill let yall know how it goes.

If you guys really love each other, and your relationship is that healthy, just tell her. You should be able to be honest her.

Don't just walk up and call her a fatass though. As someone who also dates plenty of puerto ricans, that's a great way to get your sh*t broken

Jay10 · Post #23 » by **Jay10** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:36 pm

Quick Kick wrote:
Fury wrote:How long have you been with her?

Two years. Shes a great girl and she knows me like no other woman ever has. Im 31 and shes 25. Now this makes me worry more. What happens if I get her pregnant? If shes this lazy now, imagine what shell look like after kids? Oh my god Im getting sick thinking of it. Im gonna call her fat tonight. Ill let yall know how it goes.

i'm sure we'll hear about you in the news later on tonight. :lol:

LOJ · Post #24 » by **LOJ** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:36 pm

Quick Kick wrote: Im gonna call her fat tonight. Ill let yall know how it goes.

Oh man careful how you word it....

Fury · Post #25 » by **Fury** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:36 pm

At least you know you can outrun her if you call her fat. Break it to her outside in open space.

Ginger Bean · Post #26 » by **Ginger Bean** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:38 pm

Get ready for your body bag.

Fat Kat · Post #27 » by **Fat Kat** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:40 pm

Quick Kick wrote:
Fury wrote:How long have you been with her?

Two years. Shes a great girl and she knows me like no other woman ever has. Im 31 and shes 25. Now this makes me worry more. What happens if I get her pregnant? If shes this lazy now, imagine what shell look like after kids? Oh my god Im getting sick thinking of it. Im gonna call her fat tonight. Ill let yall know how it goes.

If you get her pregnant, it's a wrap. Leave now, thank me later. Pregnancy is a built in excuse for the fat and lazy women to get huge. My son is 8 weeks old and my wife is back to her pre-pregnancy weight. I didn't have to tell her to work out, she did it because she wanted to.

Teppler · Post #28 » by **Teppler** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:41 pm

LOJ wrote:
Quick Kick wrote: Im gonna call her fat tonight. Ill let yall know how it goes.

Oh man careful how you word it....

This fat puerto rican broad is gonna either going to murder this dude or break down and cry. TBH I'd be scared of both, maybe the first a little more than the second :lol:

Puerto Rican girl rage is no joke.

Is there any way you can record it? Try just casually slipping it into a conversation.

Post #29 » by **GONYK** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:42 pm

Fat Kat wrote:
Quick Kick wrote:
Fury wrote:How long have you been with her?

Two years. Shes a great girl and she knows me like no other woman ever has. Im 31 and shes 25. Now this makes me worry more. What happens if I get her pregnant? If shes this lazy now, imagine what shell look like after kids? Oh my god Im getting sick thinking of it. Im gonna call her fat tonight. Ill let yall know how it goes.

If you get her pregnant, it's a wrap. Leave now, thank me later. Pregnancy is a built in excuse for the fat and lazy women to get huge. My son is 8 weeks old and my wife is back to her pre-pregnancy weight. I didn't have to tell her to work out, she did it because she wanted to.

Yup. It's either she's self motivated or she isn't. If she's not, you're screwed.

My girl now works out 4 days a week and gets downright mental if she misses a day. I know I'll never have to worry about her.

DocZaius · Post #30 » by **DocZaius** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:44 pm

the question is, are you fat yourself??

nykballa2k4 · Post #31 » by **nykballa2k4** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:46 pm

Fury wrote:At least you know you can outrun her if you call her fat. Break it to her outside in open space.

^^This.

Primary risk: Her breaking all your stuff at home. You call her fat at home, and your TV, Laptop etc about to incur her wrath.

Be nice about it, let her know you love her, and that you see the two of you together for a long time, but that with the weight she put on, it's scaring you. Go with the health angle, because then it doesn't seem as selfish.

SonOfMars · Post #32 » by **SonOfMars** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:49 pm

If we don't see you post tomorrow, is it safe to assume that you're dead?

red32 · Post #33 » by **red32** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:49 pm

Join "Get In Shape w/Melo" training camp in the summer.

Jay10 · Post #34 » by **Jay10** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:50 pm

Mac1Money wrote:If we don't see you post tomorrow, is it safe to assume that you're dead?

NY_Kn1cks · Post #35 » by **NY_Kn1cks** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:50 pm

just get her a gym membership as a gift today

Jay10 · Post #36 » by **Jay10** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:51 pm

NY_Kn1cks wrote:just get her a gym membership as a gift today

that's worse. :lol:

DocZaius · Post #37 » by **DocZaius** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:52 pm

If you are fat yourself, get both yourselves on a diet/exercise regimen together.

Whatever you do, don't tell her she is fat.

Forbes · Post #38 » by **Forbes** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:54 pm

Damn call our girl fat is the worst...it gotta keep it real. Say something like: Listen you're getting a little too big, you know the sex hasn't been good and thats what suffering the most. I dont want to get the urge to go elsewhere for pleasure. Not to mention my eyes will keep getting worse the with each extra pound you gain. You don't want me to go blind and not be able to look at you right?
Also throw in a few I love you's and say you don't wanna stop. It will mess up her head for a couple days but if she really cares for her relationship she'll.
I been with my girl for 5 years, she has a sick ass video model body, however I have slacked off on keeping her on point and she gained about 40 pounds also.. She doesn't look fat for some reason he just heavy. However she saw that the sex wasn't enjoyable as it once was(for her because she felt fat)(didn't matter to me because her waist an ass is 28-44) so she started going to the gym on her own. Now the sex is great again.
My girl know I'm out even if I love her and she fat. I'm shallow and picky as hell and only want the est for myself. No reason to settle when you can have any girl you want. Every dude should honk like there no girl they can't have and make their girl know that.

DocZaius · Post #39 » by **DocZaius** » Sat May 12, 2012 7:56 pm

I never understood how someone can gain more than 10 lbs at a time....

How much does someone need to eat to do that??

isiah_thomas · Post #40 » by **isiah_thomas** » Sat May 12, 2012 8:07 pm

NY_Kn1cks wrote:just get her a gym membership as a gift today