OT - My girl got fat

[ibraheim718]

So who is going to be the first chronic internet surfer that doesn't play basketball but loves to talk about it that is going to post a picture of the great shape they're in and their "dime" girlfriend????

[Mr. Natural]

The reason most people in the US are fat is because corporations are influenced by the profit motive to produce their food at the lowest cost possible. This has led to corn being inserted in nearly all food including as a sugar substitute and even as feed for cattle, pigs, chickens.

[Iron Mantis]

I've scoured this thread expecting to see some decent pics, for the sake of making contrast & comparison. But this has not occurred, and I'm incredibly disappointed; grieved even.

[Bran Fast Hands]

So who is going to be the first chronic internet surfer that doesn't play basketball but loves to talk about it that is going to post a picture of the great shape they're in and their "dime" girlfriend????

One hell of a chip on that shoulder.

And the reason that Americans are fat is because they want to get fat so they can sure McDonalds for force feeding them too many Big Macs, its all the corporations fault!

[Jmonty580]

Looks obviously do matter, although they arent everything. Every man wants a woman thats built like beyonce or Jessica Alba depending on your specific taste, but at the end of the day most of us arent going to find that

And this is the problem right there. Most of you **** settle and treat below average women like goddesses because you think you can't get better. Then these **** women act like they are the ish because you idiots let them.

Most males disgust me in this area. I regularly meet girls who act like they are a 10 when they are a **** 6 because guys treat them like queens. They have neither the looks nor the internal qualities you look in a girls to get treated like that.

All guys need to better themselves and hold out for the best and these females will start behaving accordingly to get your attention. And we won't be having this obesity discussion that I keep hearing with guys over and over.

lol not sure what your point is to me. Not every woman out there that is smoking hot is going to want every man. And if a woman responds positively to you treating her like trash, well me personally thats not the type of woman Im looking for. Maybe your talking about racking up numbers so you can feel good about how many "10's" you've actually slept with. Me personally when I looked for a woman I was looking for a lifetime partner, a wife. Anyone JUST looking at the looks is a fool imo, there are alot of other factors. I'm not saying go out and look for a big woman or a below average woman and treat her like a queen because your desperate to get whatever you can get your hands on. I'm saying you look for what you want as far as looks are concerned, and then you also look for the other qualities that matter as well. If you want a successfull marraige this is very important. again maybe thats not what your looking for, and if thats the case your guidelines are going to differ greatly from the advice that I'm giving. And for the record my wife is a dime, I hear others say it often, and men are constantly trying to pick her up. While that is def one of the reasons I went for her, it was not the deciding factor. I dont care how hot your wife or your girl is there will always be parts of their bodies that will be less than perfect. Beyonce I'm sure has slipped in an area or two and had to workout and tone up. Jo-lo, all the hot hollywood types have slacked at one point or another, its normal. All i'm saying is that looks are not the most important thing, and when trying to find a woman that you plan to spend the rest of your life with you could possibly takea slight hit in the looks department in favor of getting alot more in other departments. Honestly looks dont always last. Women and men get old. those muscles can turn to flab, that perfect body, well stuff starts to droop and dip even if she isnt overweight. What then? she doesnt meet your standards anymore so your going to look for something else? Thats all I'm saying. I'm not telling him to drool over and put some extremely overweight woman on a pedistool because its the best he can do. But if we are all being real, alot of men out there arent walking around with Rihana clones on their arms. AND there are alot extremely good looking women out there that are stuck in single land because they havea lot of other issues that no man in his right mind wants to put up with for more than a couple of months tops. So again its not settling, and allowing women to look like anything, obviously you want a woman that is physcially attractive to you. But its realizing that even these movie stars and singers and woman that we are made to believe are the greatest looking things on this planet, they dont even walk around looking like that all the time. And if thats the most important thing to you when looking for a relationship, well i feel pretty bad for you honestly because your missing out on a relationship that could be deeper and alot more fulfulling than anything you've probably ever experienced.

[Jmonty580]

Honestly I expected these type of response. Carry on settling.

Its a double edged sword. You don't want to settle but its also not a good idea to let someone go who might actually be normally out of your league because your too greedy.

Thats thinking strictly from a looks stand point. If you think a girl is out of your league to being with, you probably werent going to have a successfull relationship with her anyways though.

Its funny as I get old I see things differently. I remember seeing guys leaving girls for a chick that I would think we less attractive and your like WOW, he left that for that? WHAT? Now I'm older and i'm like, man there is alot more to relationships than just looks. Its something that alot of yougner guys are just completely ignorant to honestly.

[seren]

So who is going to be the first chronic internet surfer that doesn't play basketball but loves to talk about it that is going to post a picture of the great shape they're in and their "dime" girlfriend????

One hell of a chip on that shoulder.

And the reason that Americans are fat is because they want to get fat so they can sure McDonalds for force feeding them too many Big Macs, its all the corporations fault!

LOL. Very stupid comment. Coming from New Zealand, sounds like you know nothing about the issues here. Don't worry. Same things will happen there eventually.

[Fat Kat]

The reason most people in the US are fat is because corporations are influenced by the profit motive to produce their food at the lowest cost possible. This has led to corn being inserted in nearly all food including as a sugar substitute and even as feed for cattle, pigs, chickens.

There was a thread a couple of years ago that a lot of guys posted their picture in. I think that it was started by a poster named KingK posting pics of him with some girls at a bowling alley or something. Funny thing is, the guy was a huge Eddy Curry fan and look just like Eddy Curry.

[DishAndSwish]

When it comes to random pickups or short term flings, we obviously all would like a perfect 10. But when it comes to relationships, given the choice between the two, I would rather be with a low maintenance chubby 6 rather than a high maintenance perfect 10. The latter are just not worth the hassle, headache or the money.

In that sense, whenever one enters into a long term relationship, it can always be viewed as "settling" -- hence the term "settling down" -- because there are so many people out there and strictly by the numbers, chances are there's likely someone out there arguably better in terms of being more attractive or compatible than your current partner. But if one truly feels that way, then he'll likely never be happy in any relationship.

[Bran Fast Hands]

So who is going to be the first chronic internet surfer that doesn't play basketball but loves to talk about it that is going to post a picture of the great shape they're in and their "dime" girlfriend????

One hell of a chip on that shoulder.

And the reason that Americans are fat is because they want to get fat so they can sure McDonalds for force feeding them too many Big Macs, its all the corporations fault!

LOL. Very stupid comment. Coming from New Zealand, sounds like you know nothing about the issues here. Don't worry. Same things will happen there eventually.

mate I'm just poking some fun at you lot, nothing to take seriously.

[Jmonty580]

When it comes to random pickups or short term flings, we obviously all would like a perfect 10. But when it comes to relationships, given the choice between the two, I would rather be with a low maintenance chubby 6 rather than a high maintenance perfect 10. The latter are just not worth the hassle, headache or the money.

In that sense, whenever one enters into a long term relationship, it can always be viewed as "settling" -- hence the term "settling down" -- because there are so many people out there and strictly by the numbers, chances are there's likely someone out there arguably better in terms of being more attractive or compatible than your current partner. But if one truly feels that way, then he'll likely never be happy in any relationship.

You can have your cake and eat it too though lol. Like you dont have to settle for a girl that is chubby if you dont find her attractive just because she is low maintance. And just because a girl looks good doesnt mean she isnt down to earth, good personality and low maintance. But I hear what your saying. Sometimes you do have to do a trade off for the long term relationship, and looks in the long term just arent that important. Looks only sustain you for so long and the aweness of the looks then wears off. I can remember being in the company of dimes and then after spending a couple of weeks with them that ranking quickly drops off. Falling for looks is fools gold. At the same time who wants to sleep with a girl that can man handle you in bed and out eat you when you take her out for dinner? Balance is the key.

[Wes_Tiny_Abe_]

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[Wes_Tiny_Abe_]

[towelie]

When it comes to random pickups or short term flings, we obviously all would like a perfect 10. But when it comes to relationships, given the choice between the two, I would rather be with a low maintenance chubby 6 rather than a high maintenance perfect 10. The latter are just not worth the hassle, headache or the money.

In that sense, whenever one enters into a long term relationship, it can always be viewed as "settling" -- hence the term "settling down" -- because there are so many people out there and strictly by the numbers, chances are there's likely someone out there arguably better in terms of being more attractive or compatible than your current partner. But if one truly feels that way, then he'll likely never be happy in any relationship.

In my experience, chubby overweight girls are worse than the grossly obese. The former tends to have that self-important attitude and sense of entitlement, and if you dare challenge their weight, you're just being shallow or placing society's unreasonable ideals of beauty on her. They're usually damn lazy as well and are the type who'll go to the gym just to walk on the treadmill for 30 minutes. That air of superiority never really goes away imo, and these are the type of girls who grow up to be total elephants as they age, blaming their later obesity to childbearing.

The grossly obese may be more unattractive, but they tend to have much more humble personalities. They're usually more depressed than the above, but it's that depression that eventually spurs them to take control of their life, shed the pounds, and also keep it off since they've learned how to control their diet and actually exercise.

I've known more obese girls who eventually lost the weight (and now look damn good) than I do chubby, "I'm a plus-size girl" who slimmed down. Plus-size girls pretty much stay plus-size for the rest of their life cause they never change their attitude.

[DishAndSwish]

When it comes to random pickups or short term flings, we obviously all would like a perfect 10. But when it comes to relationships, given the choice between the two, I would rather be with a low maintenance chubby 6 rather than a high maintenance perfect 10. The latter are just not worth the hassle, headache or the money.

In that sense, whenever one enters into a long term relationship, it can always be viewed as "settling" -- hence the term "settling down" -- because there are so many people out there and strictly by the numbers, chances are there's likely someone out there arguably better in terms of being more attractive or compatible than your current partner. But if one truly feels that way, then he'll likely never be happy in any relationship.

You can have your cake and eat it too though lol. Like you dont have to settle for a girl that is chubby if you dont find her attractive just because she is low maintance. And just because a girl looks good doesnt mean she isnt down to earth, good personality and low maintance. But I hear what your saying. Sometimes you do have to do a trade off for the long term relationship, and looks in the long term just arent that important. Looks only sustain you for so long and the aweness of the looks then wears off. I can remember being in the company of dimes and then after spending a couple of weeks with them that ranking quickly drops off. Falling for looks is fools gold. At the same time who wants to sleep with a girl that can man handle you in bed and out eat you when you take her out for dinner? Balance is the key.

Oh, I hear what you're saying. Obviously, in an ideal world, I'd want a girl whose both a 10 in looks and a 10 in personality. And while a high maintenance girl can be a headache, there is the opposite extreme that can be frightening as well as I do prefer a girl who likes to put in effort to look good and stay in shape. Balance is indeed the key.

[Jmonty580]

Exactly you need a balance, and it depends on the individual and whats important to them. but yea I'd take an 8 with a 10 personality that shares my believes and has the same values as I do, than a 10 thats self absored and doesnt beleive in anything with a lame personality. I actually laugh when i see dudes with hot chicks that they cant stand to be with. I'm like really? is she putting it down that good? or are you just so weak that having others see you with this chick with worth all the other crap you have to put up with? its like if you date a chick JUSt because she is a 10, you have some serious personal issues ( probably relating to confidence and self image) that you need to work out before you can have a successfull relationship.

[GoNYK1288]

I tried to avoid this thread since it's inception. I finally caved and spent the last 20 minutes at work reading it. It was worth every second.

[Starks1994]

Can some sum up what has happened so far?

This thread just got a bunch of new hits are we are as lost as someone trying to get into Mad Men a season later

[Wes_Tiny_Abe_]

[Jmonty580]

Can some sum up what has happened so far?

This thread just got a bunch of new hits are we are as lost as someone trying to get into Mad Men a season later

I could be missing a season but he complained his girl had gotten too fat. he really cared about her, but wasnt happy being with an overweight girl. He nicely dropped a hint and she dumped him. After that a bunch of advice about how to handle chubby or thick or fat, whatever you want to call them chicks. Some say have some pride and stay away, some say some of them are ok, blah blah blah. different strokes for different folks pretty much. Lots of relationship advice.