OT - My girl got fat

[Fury]

baby, you're too big

[djkinetic]

I tried to avoid this thread since it's inception. I finally caved and spent the last 20 minutes at work reading it. It was worth every second.

LOL I did the same thing...pretty entertaining.

[Rican_Havok]

I had to login to say WOW!

[NYK 455]

Let's be honest, a lot of reason yall have this problem is cause you settle, period. If you want to hold out to get someone that you're attracted to, physically, spiritually, intellectually, that's one thing. It's another thing entirely to get a girl, tell her you love her, and leave her ass because she put on weight. That's some weak ****. You'd be more of a man to not lie to her face and tell her you love her in the first place. But some of you cats are desperate, need to get layed no matter what the cost, and will say anything to acquire what you desire.

[NYK 455]

Exactly you need a balance, and it depends on the individual and whats important to them. but yea I'd take an 8 with a 10 personality that shares my believes and has the same values as I do, than a 10 thats self absored and doesnt beleive in anything with a lame personality. I actually laugh when i see dudes with hot chicks that they cant stand to be with. I'm like really? is she putting it down that good? or are you just so weak that having others see you with this chick with worth all the other crap you have to put up with? its like if you date a chick JUSt because she is a 10, you have some serious personal issues ( probably relating to confidence and self image) that you need to work out before you can have a successfull relationship.

Yeah, putting up with hot chicks that are beyond air heads, and are self absorbed is not worth the trouble, at all. Save the headache, and date a woman, who may not be a 10, but is still attractive, and won't make you want to kill yourself. If that doesn't work, watch some porn and call it a night.

[Clyde_Style]

WARNING FROM THE SURGEON GENERAL:

Placing this thread between two slices of buttered bread and consuming it could lead to heart blockage and other severe health complications.

[mdemers938]

Sorry man

[Knicksman780]

Fat chicks are hard to kidnap...

[LOJ]

I think if OP is regretting making this thread.

[thegreat0ne81]

Looks obviously do matter, although they arent everything. Every man wants a woman thats built like beyonce or Jessica Alba depending on your specific taste, but at the end of the day most of us arent going to find that

And this is the problem right there. Most of you **** settle and treat below average women like goddesses because you think you can't get better. Then these **** women act like they are the ish because you idiots let them.

Most males disgust me in this area. I regularly meet girls who act like they are a 10 when they are a **** 6 because guys treat them like queens. They have neither the looks nor the internal qualities you look in a girls to get treated like that.

All guys need to better themselves and hold out for the best and these females will start behaving accordingly to get your attention. And we won't be having this obesity discussion that I keep hearing with guys over and over.

lol not sure what your point is to me. Not every woman out there that is smoking hot is going to want every man. And if a woman responds positively to you treating her like trash, well me personally thats not the type of woman Im looking for. Maybe your talking about racking up numbers so you can feel good about how many "10's" you've actually slept with. Me personally when I looked for a woman I was looking for a lifetime partner, a wife. Anyone JUST looking at the looks is a fool imo, there are alot of other factors. I'm not saying go out and look for a big woman or a below average woman and treat her like a queen because your desperate to get whatever you can get your hands on. I'm saying you look for what you want as far as looks are concerned, and then you also look for the other qualities that matter as well. If you want a successfull marraige this is very important. again maybe thats not what your looking for, and if thats the case your guidelines are going to differ greatly from the advice that I'm giving. And for the record my wife is a dime, I hear others say it often, and men are constantly trying to pick her up. While that is def one of the reasons I went for her, it was not the deciding factor. I dont care how hot your wife or your girl is there will always be parts of their bodies that will be less than perfect. Beyonce I'm sure has slipped in an area or two and had to workout and tone up. Jo-lo, all the hot hollywood types have slacked at one point or another, its normal. All i'm saying is that looks are not the most important thing, and when trying to find a woman that you plan to spend the rest of your life with you could possibly takea slight hit in the looks department in favor of getting alot more in other departments. Honestly looks dont always last. Women and men get old. those muscles can turn to flab, that perfect body, well stuff starts to droop and dip even if she isnt overweight. What then? she doesnt meet your standards anymore so your going to look for something else? Thats all I'm saying. I'm not telling him to drool over and put some extremely overweight woman on a pedistool because its the best he can do. But if we are all being real, alot of men out there arent walking around with Rihana clones on their arms. AND there are alot extremely good looking women out there that are stuck in single land because they havea lot of other issues that no man in his right mind wants to put up with for more than a couple of months tops. So again its not settling, and allowing women to look like anything, obviously you want a woman that is physcially attractive to you. But its realizing that even these movie stars and singers and woman that we are made to believe are the greatest looking things on this planet, they dont even walk around looking like that all the time. And if thats the most important thing to you when looking for a relationship, well i feel pretty bad for you honestly because your missing out on a relationship that could be deeper and alot more fulfulling than anything you've probably ever experienced.

Wtf are you talking about? Who said i was telling him to get an airheaded 10 in looks and ignore all other aspects of a relationship? I was not.

Btw I don't know your wife and this is not a diss to her. But spare me the "other guys say she is a dime and hit on her". I see ugly girls be called dimes and be hit on, on a daily basis. Guys nowadays have such low standards its freaking ridiculous.

Yeah of course there is more to a relationship than looks. Looks fade. Duh. Depends on what you seek.

Would I love to bang Kate Upton? Of course. Do I think she would be a horrible gf based on the interviews she gives and how she reminds me of some of the girls I've met? Yep.

What I am saying when I say settle is that most guys don't have the balls to go out there and seek what they want. They met a girl who gives them a bit of affection and they hold on for dear life. They idealize her inner and outer beauty because they fulfill his basic needs for affection from a girl and sex.

Then said girl gets an inflated ego because the idiot treats her like gold because in his mind he can't get anyone else.

I find it hilarious.

Also you gave yourself away by basically equating a 10 in looks to high maintenance and airheaded.

No guy who actually has interacted with multiple 10s thinks that way. Are they higher maintenance that most girls? Yeah but they are not all airheaded idiots like you make them out to be.

Some models yeah they are airheaded, some actually have higher aspirations and do modeling to springboard themselves into bigger and greater things.

Lastly, before you think this is a brag thread it is not. I have had actual 10s like think victoria secret models walk away from me as soon as I try to talk to them. But I have also have amazing interactions with models from around the world.

Most guys are not willing to put the work in themselves nor the work in meeting these girls. They do the same thing you do and stereotype them as airhead and high maintenance. Interact with them before you make judgements.

[Knicksman780]

My wife got fat once...but I still wanted to have sex with her. However, I would always work late and go straight to bed. So we made a deal...on days she wanted to have sex, she would pull my penis one time, and I would roll over and give her what she wanted. On days she didnt want to have sex, she would pull my penis 150 times. We had a great relationship and her results were similar to that of a frequent user of the shake-weight.

[Clyde_Style]

My wife got fat once...but I still wanted to have sex with her. However, I would always work late and go straight to bed. So we made a deal...on days she wanted to have sex, she would pull my penis one time, and I would roll over and give her what she wanted. On days she didnt want to have sex, she would pull my penis 150 times. We had a great relationship and her results were similar to that of a frequent user of the shake-weight.

Sounds like a win-win solution, but her forearm must be huge.

[Since89]

Best part was the pics

[ITGM]

Best part was the pics

[Red X]

Best part was the pics

Oh god...

[Wes_Tiny_Abe_]

Put one of these machines inside your house.

Problem solved.

[Jmonty580]

Wtf are you talking about? Who said i was telling him to get an airheaded 10 in looks and ignore all other aspects of a relationship? I was not.

Btw I don't know your wife and this is not a diss to her. But spare me the "other guys say she is a dime and hit on her". I see ugly girls be called dimes and be hit on, on a daily basis. Guys nowadays have such low standards its freaking ridiculous.

Yeah of course there is more to a relationship than looks. Looks fade. Duh. Depends on what you seek.

Would I love to bang Kate Upton? Of course. Do I think she would be a horrible gf based on the interviews she gives and how she reminds me of some of the girls I've met? Yep.

What I am saying when I say settle is that most guys don't have the balls to go out there and seek what they want. They met a girl who gives them a bit of affection and they hold on for dear life. They idealize her inner and outer beauty because they fulfill his basic needs for affection from a girl and sex.

Then said girl gets an inflated ego because the idiot treats her like gold because in his mind he can't get anyone else.

I find it hilarious.

Also you gave yourself away by basically equating a 10 in looks to high maintenance and airheaded.

No guy who actually has interacted with multiple 10s thinks that way. Are they higher maintenance that most girls? Yeah but they are not all airheaded idiots like you make them out to be.

Some models yeah they are airheaded, some actually have higher aspirations and do modeling to springboard themselves into bigger and greater things.

Lastly, before you think this is a brag thread it is not. I have had actual 10s like think victoria secret models walk away from me as soon as I try to talk to them. But I have also have amazing interactions with models from around the world.

Most guys are not willing to put the work in themselves nor the work in meeting these girls. They do the same thing you do and stereotype them as airhead and high maintenance. Interact with them before you make judgements.

1.Your posts clearly make it sound like dudes are settling because they arent walking around with dimes.
2.I've seen what your talking about happen, but your missing a peice. Yes these guys will latch on to the first girl that shows them affection, but these guys dont live in a bubble. You go out, you live your life and they quickly start to notice that other women, especially when you get out of high school and college are taking notice. When you hit the high 20's and up women are looking at men in a completely different way. These guys often start to realize they've settled and they move on and develop a higher confidence.
3.100% sounds like a brag oppuruntinity to me. I have no reason to doubt any of your "accomplishments" but i find that most dude who have smashed and been with 10s as we are reffering to them, dont really brag too much about it. I'm not even going to defend my claim on my wife, think what you please. This is an internet message board, my self value has nothing to do with people thinking I'm the man on here (or off of here for that matter) because my wife is hot lol. So call her a 1 if it makes you feel good.
4.You sound extremely immature and unknowledgable. I hope your like 18 or something. All i can say is wait till you get older and get a little more experience, you'll learn a few things and they'll start to make more sense. When I was younger I thought i knew it all too, funny how time changes things.
5. read through what I posted. I did not generalize. All good looking women are clearly not airheads. My wife I personally find to be very attractive and she is extremely educated and intellegent, even speaks 3 languages fluently. Good looking women dont have to be airheads, thats not what I'm saying. all i said is its rare to find a woman like that. Sometimes you make sacrifice a little in the looks department if the woman is a 10 in other areas that are important and appeasing to you. However in your mind, if the girl isnt a knockout you looking from the outside think the dude is settling and latching on to the first woman that is showing him attention. Thats not always the case, especially in a man who isnt interacting with the opposite sex for the 1st time. You make alot of assumptions about men based on what their girl looks like and i just think thats waaaaay off base. A knockout victoria secret model may not be the most important thing on the list for everyone. Some people actually value other things just as much if not more than looks. And i'm not saying looks dont matter, but almost everything you post about comes back to looks, you seem to be obbessed with it.

[Wes_Tiny_Abe_]

Am I the only one on here who thought Precious looked sexy as hell throughout the entire movie?

[Zeb]

I had the same problems years ago. I told her one day that she gotta loose some weight (she gained around 40 pounds too) and then she started crying, blaming me that I destroyed her life. Well, in the end, she went to the gym, but it was too late.
She lost probably 20 pounds, but she never regained the body she used to have when we first dated.
1 or 2 years later I finally broke it off, but I should have done this way earlier.

Love the irony in your avatar.

[The Black Death]

Am I the only one on here who thought Precious looked sexy as hell throughout the entire movie?

Yes.