thegreat0ne81 wrote:Wtf are you talking about? Who said i was telling him to get an airheaded 10 in looks and ignore all other aspects of a relationship? I was not.
Btw I don't know your wife and this is not a diss to her. But spare me the "other guys say she is a dime and hit on her". I see ugly girls be called dimes and be hit on, on a daily basis. Guys nowadays have such low standards its freaking ridiculous.
Yeah of course there is more to a relationship than looks. Looks fade. Duh. Depends on what you seek.
Would I love to bang Kate Upton? Of course. Do I think she would be a horrible gf based on the interviews she gives and how she reminds me of some of the girls I've met? Yep.
What I am saying when I say settle is that most guys don't have the balls to go out there and seek what they want. They met a girl who gives them a bit of affection and they hold on for dear life. They idealize her inner and outer beauty because they fulfill his basic needs for affection from a girl and sex.
Then said girl gets an inflated ego because the idiot treats her like gold because in his mind he can't get anyone else.
I find it hilarious.
Also you gave yourself away by basically equating a 10 in looks to high maintenance and airheaded.
No guy who actually has interacted with multiple 10s thinks that way. Are they higher maintenance that most girls? Yeah but they are not all airheaded idiots like you make them out to be.
Some models yeah they are airheaded, some actually have higher aspirations and do modeling to springboard themselves into bigger and greater things.
Lastly, before you think this is a brag thread it is not. I have had actual 10s like think victoria secret models walk away from me as soon as I try to talk to them. But I have also have amazing interactions with models from around the world.
Most guys are not willing to put the work in themselves nor the work in meeting these girls. They do the same thing you do and stereotype them as airhead and high maintenance. Interact with them before you make judgements.
very ignorant