CT LIX: Return of the Megathread

Post #821 » by **Kilroy** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 5:50 pm

Not at all... I honestly can't figure out what the hangup is about that...
If there's a rule about banging sibling's friends, it's probably been broken about 100 billion times.

The point of everything I posted is that I think you're making an incredibly simple situation, ridiculously complicated.

You're also trying to accept responsibility for this girls feelings/actions... Which is at the very least presumptuous of you...

Also, you never find a serious relationship when you're looking for it... Who knows, this girl could be the one...

If you're attracted to her, and she's attracted to you, that's an opportunity and a gift, not a 'situation.'
If you aren't really attracted to her, then what's the point? Go find someone you are attracted to.

Identify what you want and go after it with everything you have... Your greatest regrets in life will be about missed opportunities, not failed attempts...

Mamba Mentality · Post #822 » by **Mamba Mentality** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 5:51 pm

ennui wrote:And fwiw - not to rehash this - the bigger issue is that the girl in question is your sister's best friend. I had a similar conundrum last year, but I went for it. Luckily, she was cool about it because it basically amounted to a one night stand.

Dunno if that helps.

That seems to be the key fact missing out of everyone advice.

Post #823 » by **Kilroy** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 5:58 pm

The Regime wrote:
Kilroy wrote:Let me see if I follow all the nuances of Regime's problem...

So a young woman, of legal age... An 'adult' if you will... May want to have sex with him...

But he's not sure he want's to allow this to happen, because he is 'looking for something more serious.'

I believe the Latin term for that is "Dumbass"...

So I'm thinking the young woman perhaps doesn't want to have anything more serious with Regime because in all likelihood, he is in fact a dumbass....

Whatever happened to the concept of a "Side Piece?"

Girls are smart... They talk about 'serious relationships' and go out and bang 15/20 guys while they're looking...

Oh... And stay safe Tugs... You find yourself in a position Regime never will...
Because he doesn't want to get blown...

I appreciate the candid advice but you're forgetting one key fact.....she's my sisters best friend. The whole side piece concept doesn't necessarily work when girls link back to your family one way or another. It's essentially a deathtrap.

I guess I haven't been specific enough. There's more to this than me passing up ass. I'm burnt out trying to impress girls just so I can get in their pants for one night. I've been there and done than too many times, it just doesn't have that same appeal anymore.

You changed it after I posted... Again, it's simple... You aren't attracted to her. Find someone you are.

My comment about side piece was just in reference to your search for miss right... Because that concept is silly... If you aren't dating people because you're trying to find a relationship, then you never will find one... So if you need the concept of a side piece to get you out dating, fine... You'll know when you should drop all the 'others' and focus on one.

EArl · Post #824 » by **EArl** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 7:51 pm

I came here to pay my respects to Simba.

Mamba Mentality · Post #825 » by **Mamba Mentality** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 8:08 pm

EArl wrote:I came here to pay my respects to Simba.

Wasn't funny in the other thread, isn't funny here. Sop being such a EArl.

Post #826 » by **Kilroy** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 8:21 pm

I was trying to be encouraging...
I feel like I turned into Gunny Highway somewhere along the way...

Mamba Mentality · Post #827 » by **Mamba Mentality** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 8:28 pm

I actually thought you gave some pretty good advice Kilroy, I don't know what EArl is going on about. This is the one time he isn't getting smoked on this board...let him enjoy it.

Post #828 » by **Kilroy** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 8:40 pm

The Regime wrote:I actually thought you gave some pretty good advice Kilroy, I don't know what EArl is going on about. This is the one time he isn't getting smoked on this board...let him enjoy it.

EArl be like...

Doormatt · Post #829 » by **Doormatt** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 9:15 pm

That gif is so sus

ennui · Post #830 » by **ennui** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 9:19 pm

Its hella sus

ak7 · Post #831 » by **ak7** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 9:24 pm

earl you suck

Post #832 » by **Slava** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 9:31 pm

Any of you guys read A Confederacy of Dunces? Easily one of the most hilarious books I've read. Also the writer's description of New Orleans increases my romanticism of that city. I really need to visit before I leave the south.

ennui · Post #833 » by **ennui** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 9:57 pm

Nah, ill check it out though. Im currently reading Omerta by Mario Puzo and 2010: Odyssey 2 by Arthur C. Clarke.

Post #834 » by **Slava** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 10:51 pm

Man, the Russian TV images of the downed Malaysian flight is disturbing as hell.

Mamba Mentality · Post #835 » by **Mamba Mentality** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 10:59 pm

Slava wrote:Man, the Russian TV images of the downed Malaysian flight is disturbing as hell.

The European, and even Asian media is really nonchalant about showing dead bodies nowadays. :noway:

Post #836 » by **Kilroy** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 11:06 pm

Doormatt wrote:That gif is so sus

Purposely so... Because EArl.

hermes · Post #837 » by **hermes** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 11:19 pm

what is sus?

Post #838 » by **Slava** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 11:23 pm

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ItdQMpennBA[/youtube]

Awkward as ****! :lol:

EArl · Post #839 » by **EArl** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 11:24 pm

Kilroy wrote:
The Regime wrote:I actually thought you gave some pretty good advice Kilroy, I don't know what EArl is going on about. This is the one time he isn't getting smoked on this board...let him enjoy it.

EArl be like...

I missed this :kiss

EArl · Post #840 » by **EArl** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 11:25 pm

LakeShowAK7 wrote:earl you suck

Okay 8th place.