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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#181 » by nomansland » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:33 pm

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I didn't say I think it's a choice; I said that the nature and origin of the behavior aren't well-understood and that it's a subject of controversy in the behavioral sciences. Maybe you should do MORE than 20 second of research on Google before you get flippant. Start with what the DSM-IV has to say about it. If you don't know what that is, take another 20 seconds on Google.



"For many, homosexuality is a lifestyle, which puts in firmly into the category of things with which one can disagree."

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Please elaborate on the differences between a lifestyle and a choice.


A lifestyle is the style in which one chooses to live.



There you go. You said it's a choice.
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#182 » by -Sammy- » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:34 pm

nomansland wrote:
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"For many, homosexuality is a lifestyle, which puts in firmly into the category of things with which one can disagree."

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Please elaborate on the differences between a lifestyle and a choice.


A lifestyle is the style in which one chooses to live.



There you go. You said it's a choice.


Yes... a lifestyle is a choice. What's your point?
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#183 » by kodo » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:37 pm

While I am against the law, moving the Final Four assumes the organizations responsible for hosting the Final Four would exercise the law against fans of gay orientation.

I don't think it's safe to assume that, I'm sure there are plenty of tolerant Indiana residents who will be involved w/ the Final Four.
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#184 » by flying_mollusk » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:37 pm

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flying_mollusk wrote:Youre kind of saying the same thing. The person is using the religious freedom law as a defense. He is saying that by requiring him to get consent, and saying 12 year olds cant do it, you are violating his religious goal of having sex with a 12 year old. The consent law itself is violating his religion.


The consent law doesn't override the child's law of dominion of her her person; that's a first-order law that necessarily preexists any laws about what she, as a person, can and cannot legally do.

In other words, I can't claim that my religion REQUIRES Jennifer Aniston to marry me, so she HAS to marry me. Her dominion over her person overrides my religious claim. The same is true of the 12-year-old. The man's claim that his religion REQUIRES him to marry her doesn't override HER dominion over her person, and since the law states that a 12-year-old CANNOT give consent to marriage, it's impossible. Trust me; people have tried to do this a billion times. Why do you think there aren't 15-year-olds marrying their 18-year-old boyfriends every day under religious pretexts? Because the law governing consent overrides religious-freedom laws.

flying_mollusk wrote:But really, no laws come before other laws. There are no first or second order laws. Not sure where you are getting this. In order to do that, they would have to say, in the actual text, that the religious freedom law is second to the consent law. They made no distinction.


They don't HAVE to make the distinction. You have to understand this in terms of logical progression. In the eyes of the law, before one can say 'this PERSON wants to MARRY', the laws needs to define what a person IS and what marriage IS. Fortunately, those terms have already been defined, such that by the time one says 'this PERSON wants to marry', the law will reply by asking 'does the person in question fit the legal definition of adult personhood?' Since in the case of the 12-year-old, the answer is 'no' (because the law defines an adult person as someone who is older than 12), the 12-year-old will be recognized as a child, and the law states that a 12-year-old cannot give consent to marriage.

This is exactly why homosexuals couldn't marry for the longest time; because the law had defined what marriage is. The right-to-marry legislation that's swept the country in recent years was all about changing that definition.

What I mean by orders of laws is that laws that define an entity are properly basic laws, so they necessarily come before laws that concern how defined entities can operate.

In other words, you have to define something before you can talk about what it's capable of, and by defining a 12-year-old as a child, the proposition of the 12-year-old marrying necessarily becomes impossible in the eyes of the law.


This is why you don't hear about the freaks from 'To Catch A Predator' trying to marry their 13-year-old girlfriends (ha ha).


This is incorrect. Just because law 1 defines something a specific way, or was passed first, does not mean it trumps law 2. The definition of consent, the definition of child, the definition of marriage are all parts of laws, and intertwine with how a person can act Therefore when a child can consent to marriage under the law is itself inconsistent with some religious beliefs. In doing so, the when a child can consent to marriage order, or set of laws, or definitions, all implicate the religious freedom laws.

Look at Warren Jeffs and the fundamentalist Mormons. He wanted to marry child brides. Some child brides wanted to marry him. Her parents were ok with it.

By defining marriage in a way that precludes an adult from marrying a child bride, you've violated the religious freedom of all three. The religious freedom law, which specifically says it applies to every single law, including marriage defining laws, says you cant do that.

Without upsetting you, I can tell you that your viewpoint on how one law affects another law is incorrect. The religious laws gives Warren Jeffs a defense to his actions, whether it might marriage or raping a child.
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#185 » by flying_mollusk » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:40 pm

BombsquadSammy wrote:
nomansland wrote:
BombsquadSammy wrote:
A lifestyle is the style in which one chooses to live.



There you go. You said it's a choice.


Yes... a lifestyle is a choice. What's your point?


Religion is a choice too. If your religion requires you to violate an anti-discrimination law, maybe you can convert?
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#186 » by treefi » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:42 pm

Stop combining sports with politics. Yes, the new legislation should be nullified and it probably will be considering the outrage occurring already within Indiana(the only people who can change this now) and across the country... NOT because the NCAA decided to move the Final Four from Indiana based on "we no likey!"... That is crazy and sets a dangerous precedent. Sports (especially the NFL) is already way too interlinked with politics(President appears on ESPN several times per year to analyze & discuss sports) through the US military and by blindly supporting the endless global war on terror & NSA surveillance state.

Hell no I do not want the NCAA, NBA, NFL, NHL, and MLB becoming influential politically & tempted to "relocate" the Super Bowls and Final Fours to alternative locations just because the original location's state governor passed new legislation they don't like. No thanks.... and I am 100% against this law.
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#187 » by nomansland » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:46 pm

BombsquadSammy wrote:
nomansland wrote:
BombsquadSammy wrote:
A lifestyle is the style in which one chooses to live.



There you go. You said it's a choice.


Yes... a lifestyle is a choice. What's your point?


"I didn't say I think it's a choice"

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The point is, it's not a choice. You seem to be intermixing terms to try and evade that issue.
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#188 » by -Sammy- » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:46 pm

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This is incorrect. Just because law 1 defines something a specific way, or was passed first, does not mean it trumps law 2.


That's not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is that the law defines certain things in certain ways, and and laws that are logically subsequent to those definitions MUST agree with them, or you have a logically nonsensical premise.

12-year-olds are regarded by the law as CHILDREN, and the laws says that CHILDREN cannot marry, which is why you don't see 12-year-olds getting married. There is, however, an exception to what the law says about this: parental/guardian consent.

flying_mollusk wrote:Her parents were ok with it.


And THIS is why Jeffs was able to marry children- not because the law determined that his religious freedom overrode the law on children marrying, but because the law recognizes parental/guardian consent in place of personal consent (which a child cannot give).

flying_mollusk wrote:The religious freedom law, which specifically says it applies to every single law, including marriage defining laws, says you cant do that.


That's correct, but what it DOESN'T do is change the legal definition of what marriage IS. Marriage is defined legally as a civil union between two consenting persons. Because a child cannot GIVE consult, a child cannot, by definition, partake in any union that requires consent (the exception I noted earlier imparts consenting-person status to the child in those cases).

flying_mollusk wrote:Without upsetting you, I can tell you that your viewpoint on how one law affects another law is incorrect. The religious laws gives Warren Jeffs a defense to his actions, whether it might marriage or raping a child.


No; Jeffs was able to do what he did because of parental-consent exceptions to consent laws, not because of religious laws. Your comment about rape says it all; why do you think rapists don't get off on religious grounds?
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#189 » by -Sammy- » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:49 pm

nomansland wrote:
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There you go. You said it's a choice.


Yes... a lifestyle is a choice. What's your point?


"I didn't say I think it's a choice"

- BombsquadSammy


The point is, it's not a choice. You seem to be intermixing terms to try and evade that issue.


I said that some people view homosexuality as a choice. What's evasive about that?
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#190 » by ingvald » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:51 pm

BombsquadSammy wrote:
nomansland wrote:
BombsquadSammy wrote:
A lifestyle is the style in which one chooses to live.



There you go. You said it's a choice.


Yes... a lifestyle is a choice. What's your point?


Just curious- when did you consider all your options and choose to be attracted to <insert gender here>? I mean, if its a choice, I'm guessing that you wanted to make an informed decision regarding a fundamental human trait. So did you look at some pics, read some articles, go on dates with a variety of men and women, have sex with both men and women, and then decide who turned you on?

Or at some point when you were 12 or 13, did you notice a girl (or boy), get butterflies, and think to yourself "wow, she's really cute..."
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#191 » by cl2117 » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:51 pm

BombsquadSammy wrote:
nomansland wrote:
BombsquadSammy wrote:
Yes... a lifestyle is a choice. What's your point?


"I didn't say I think it's a choice"

- BombsquadSammy


The point is, it's not a choice. You seem to be intermixing terms to try and evade that issue.


I said that some people view homosexuality as a choice. What's evasive about that?

Shall we just cut to the chase: BombsquadSammy do you in your personal opinion think being gay is a choice?

Yes or no answer please (feel free to clarify afterwards, but at least start with yes or no).
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#192 » by -Sammy- » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:51 pm

flying_mollusk wrote:
BombsquadSammy wrote:
nomansland wrote:

There you go. You said it's a choice.


Yes... a lifestyle is a choice. What's your point?


Religion is a choice too. If your religion requires you to violate an anti-discrimination law, maybe you can convert?


Yes; religion is a lifestyle, which I already defined as 'a style in which one chooses to live.'

I say that if a person's religion requires that they violate a law, we should evaluate both the religion and the law. But we have to be clear in determining that that's what's actually happening.
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#193 » by flying_mollusk » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:53 pm

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flying_mollusk wrote:
This is incorrect. Just because law 1 defines something a specific way, or was passed first, does not mean it trumps law 2.


That's not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is that the law defines certain things in certain ways, and and laws that are logically subsequent to those definitions MUST agree with them, or you have a logically nonsensical premise.

12-year-olds are regarded by the law as CHILDREN, and the laws says that CHILDREN cannot marry, which is why you don't see 12-year-olds getting married. There is, however, an exception to what the law says about this: parental/guardian consent.

flying_mollusk wrote:Her parents were ok with it.


And THIS is why Jeffs was able to marry children- not because the law determined that his religious freedom overrode the law on children marrying, but because the law recognizes parental/guardian consent in place of personal consent (which a child cannot give).

flying_mollusk wrote:The religious freedom law, which specifically says it applies to every single law, including marriage defining laws, says you cant do that.


That's correct, but what it DOESN'T do is change the legal definition of what marriage IS. Marriage is defined legally as a civil union between two consenting persons. Because a child cannot GIVE consult, a child cannot, by definition, partake in any union that requires consent (the exception I noted earlier imparts consenting-person status to the child in those cases).

flying_mollusk wrote:Without upsetting you, I can tell you that your viewpoint on how one law affects another law is incorrect. The religious laws gives Warren Jeffs a defense to his actions, whether it might marriage or raping a child.


No; Jeffs was able to do what he did because of parental-consent exceptions to consent laws, not because of religious laws. Your comment about rape says it all; why do you think rapists don't get off on religious grounds?


Nope, Jeffs did not get away with it. Jeffs went to jail for statutory rape, even if though some girls parents gave consent.

But these guys give people like Warren Jeffs a defense that he did not have when he was prosecuted.
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#194 » by LLcoleJ » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:56 pm

BombsquadSammy wrote:
nomansland wrote:
BombsquadSammy wrote:
I didn't say I think it's a choice; I said that the nature and origin of the behavior aren't well-understood and that it's a subject of controversy in the behavioral sciences. Maybe you should do MORE than 20 second of research on Google before you get flippant. Start with what the DSM-IV has to say about it. If you don't know what that is, take another 20 seconds on Google.



"For many, homosexuality is a lifestyle, which puts in firmly into the category of things with which one can disagree."

- BombsquadSammy


Please elaborate on the differences between a lifestyle and a choice.


A lifestyle is the style in which one chooses to live.


When did you choose to be heterosexual ?
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Post#195 » by flying_mollusk » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:56 pm

BombsquadSammy wrote:
flying_mollusk wrote:
BombsquadSammy wrote:
Yes... a lifestyle is a choice. What's your point?


Religion is a choice too. If your religion requires you to violate an anti-discrimination law, maybe you can convert?


Yes; religion is a lifestyle, which I already defined as 'a style in which one chooses to live.'

I say that if a person's religion requires that they violate a law, we should evaluate both the religion and the law. But we have to be clear in determining that that's what's actually happening.


Just to give you some background, every single one of these laws intentionally does not include language about "evaluating" the religion or person's sincerity of choice. They leave that out on purpose. They just want you to be able to say it is a religious belief. That is because you will get Christians who never go to church, cheat on their spouses, commit crimes, or otherwise violate their religious tenets. So if they want to use the defense to discriminate against gays, they don't want their sincerity questioned by a judge.

That's why this law is basically designed to discriminate. It lets anyone say tomorrow they are Christian.

Also, the law says nothing about how long the religion has to exist or if it is recognized. That is also intentional. You can start a religion tomorrow.
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Post#196 » by -Sammy- » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:56 pm

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Just curious- when did you consider all your options and choose to be attracted to <insert gender here>? I mean, if its a choice, I'm guessing that you wanted to make an informed decision regarding a fundamental human trait. So did you look at some pics, read some articles, go on dates with a variety of men and women, have sex with both men and women, and then decide who turned you on?

Or at some point when you were 12 or 13, did you notice a girl (or boy), get butterflies, and think to yourself "wow, she's really cute..."


cl2117 wrote:Shall we just cut to the chase: BombsquadSammy do you in your personal opinion think being gay is a choice?

Yes or no answer please (feel free to clarify afterwards, but at least start with yes or no).


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When did you choose to be heterosexual ?



I'm going to answer all three of these in one post, because I don't think you guys are following me.

I wrote that "For some people, homosexuality is a lifestyle."

Somebody asked me to define 'lifestyle', so I did: 'a style in which one chooses to live.'

I wasn't advocating a position; I was explaining the nature of the issue the thread is discussing.

I didn't take a position, and I'm not going to because it's not salient to the discussion, which is about the Indiana law and the Final Four, not Sammy's social views. If y'all want to discuss my views on the subject of homosexuality, start a thread to that end on the GB.
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Post#197 » by FrieAaron » Wed Apr 1, 2015 5:59 pm

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NotaHypeJob wrote:The comparison between blacks and gays is always stupid, a person can't hide their blackness.


You're right. Gays have the great fortune of being able to live their lives in fear hiding who they are so they don't find themselves victims of fate. Sad that any group of innocent people should have to rely on such a mechanism.

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Did I disagree with the fact that gay people can hide their homosexuality? My point is they shouldn't have to and discrimination is discrimination. I don't agree with marginalizing their struggle for equality just because they have the option of hiding their true identities.

The black experience in America is no doubt different than the gay experience, which is different from the female and Muslim experience. But all deserve equal treatment and share the same goal.
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Post#198 » by -Sammy- » Wed Apr 1, 2015 6:01 pm

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Nope, Jeffs did not get away with it. Jeffs went to jail for statutory rape, even if though some girls parents gave consent.



Oh, okay. Well, that helps make my point, all the same, which is that he couldn't get off on a religious-freedom defense.
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Re: Should Final Four be relocated from Indiana to protest recent anti-gay legislation? 

Post#199 » by nomansland » Wed Apr 1, 2015 6:02 pm

BombsquadSammy wrote:
nomansland wrote:
BombsquadSammy wrote:
Yes... a lifestyle is a choice. What's your point?


"I didn't say I think it's a choice"

- BombsquadSammy


The point is, it's not a choice. You seem to be intermixing terms to try and evade that issue.


I said that some people view homosexuality as a choice. What's evasive about that?


Ah, I interpreted it to mean that you personally think it's a choice. My mistake if you don't. Do you?
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Post#200 » by cl2117 » Wed Apr 1, 2015 6:04 pm

BombsquadSammy wrote:
ingvald wrote:
Just curious- when did you consider all your options and choose to be attracted to <insert gender here>? I mean, if its a choice, I'm guessing that you wanted to make an informed decision regarding a fundamental human trait. So did you look at some pics, read some articles, go on dates with a variety of men and women, have sex with both men and women, and then decide who turned you on?

Or at some point when you were 12 or 13, did you notice a girl (or boy), get butterflies, and think to yourself "wow, she's really cute..."


cl2117 wrote:Shall we just cut to the chase: BombsquadSammy do you in your personal opinion think being gay is a choice?

Yes or no answer please (feel free to clarify afterwards, but at least start with yes or no).


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When did you choose to be heterosexual ?



I'm going to answer all three of these in one post, because I don't think you guys are following me.

I wrote that "For some people, homosexuality is a lifestyle."

Somebody asked me to define 'lifestyle', so I did: 'a style in which one chooses to live.'

I wasn't advocating a position; I was explaining the nature of the issue the thread is discussing.

I'm not advocating a position here, and I'm not going to because it's not salient to the discussion, which is about the Indiana law and the Final Four. If y'all want to discuss my views on the subject of homosexuality, start a thread to that end on the GB.

It's not that I'm not following you, it's that I think it's important to understand where someone is coming from when debating something as charged as this.

Honestly, and people can judge me all they want for it, but I wouldn't bother debating the topic with someone who firmly believes that homosexuality is a choice. It's just not worth my time or energy (especially not on the internet). But if you're coming from a different place, than I feel like there may be something to be gained intellectually from the discussion (even if we disagree the whole time and never see eye to eye, the discussion itself could prove fruitful).

So again, if you don't mind answering a straight question when asked: do you personally believe that homosexuality is a choice?

I'll go first: I don't think it's a choice or a lifestyle, I think it's part of who you are and you can't change it.
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