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Antti22 · Post #621 » by **Antti22** » Sat May 16, 2015 7:52 am

I won a sig bet with a cocky Wizards fan on the GB, any good ideas you could share? Lets represent Brooklyn

. Who would have beaten the Wiz in 4

Post #622 » by **NyCeEvO** » Wed May 20, 2015 1:21 pm

Antti22 wrote:I won a sig bet with a cocky Wizards fan on the GB, any good ideas you could share? Lets represent Brooklyn . Who would have beaten the Wiz in 4

Did you come up with anything yet?

Who's the poster btw?

Antti22 · Post #623 » by **Antti22** » Wed May 20, 2015 7:37 pm

NyCeEvO wrote:
Antti22 wrote:I won a sig bet with a cocky Wizards fan on the GB, any good ideas you could share? Lets represent Brooklyn . Who would have beaten the Wiz in 4

Did you come up with anything yet?

Who's the poster btw?

Been extremely busy, havent been able to come up with anything, any help would be greatly appreciated. Poster is benb311 , only one who dared to take my bet of Hawks winning in no more than 6.

Jersey Generals · Post #624 » by **Jersey Generals** » Thu Jun 11, 2015 7:44 am

I was betrayed and cheated on by a woman to whom I gave everything I had. I literally and figuratively helped her rebuild her life when she was at her lowest, when she felt smaller than small. I was there to offer her a foundation on which she could grow back into the person she was always supposed to be. I gave her a home, a family that loved her, food on the table, I cooked and cleaned for her, allowed her to use me as a reference to achieve the job that she wanted and basically did anything I could to make her happy. All the while she made promises to me that fell by the wayside, promises about our future and what I meant to her. As we approached a year together, when I felt that she was pulling away, that there was someone else, I questioned her over it, but over and over again, I was lied to the extent that I would later find out that she left me early on my birthday to see him. Again, even as our relationship fell apart, she continued to deny that there was any such thing. In fact, as the weeks passed, I was blamed continuously that I was asking too much of her, that seeing her and talking to her was too much when all I wanted was to feel connected to my girlfriend once more. In the end, my heart was ripped out by a woman I did my best to help her forget her past and reshape her future. With all that being said, the reason I'm posting this and the moral of the story? Help someone if you can, even if it ends up bringing you more pain than you think you can handle. I would do it over again for that fact alone. One day I will find my own happiness, but at the end of the day, I can always smile at the fact that I played a part, however large or small, in allowing someone else to find their own. And that? That is worth all the pain my broken heart holds right now.

Post #625 » by **NyCeEvO** » Thu Jun 11, 2015 8:13 pm

Jersey Generals wrote:I was betrayed and cheated on by a woman to whom I gave everything I had. I literally and figuratively helped her rebuild her life when she was at her lowest, when she felt smaller than small. I was there to offer her a foundation on which she could grow back into the person she was always supposed to be. I gave her a home, a family that loved her, food on the table, I cooked and cleaned for her, allowed her to use me as a reference to achieve the job that she wanted and basically did anything I could to make her happy. All the while she made promises to me that fell by the wayside, promises about our future and what I meant to her. As we approached a year together, when I felt that she was pulling away, that there was someone else, I questioned her over it, but over and over again, I was lied to the extent that I would later find out that she left me early on my birthday to see him. Again, even as our relationship fell apart, she continued to deny that there was any such thing. In fact, as the weeks passed, I was blamed continuously that I was asking too much of her, that seeing her and talking to her was too much when all I wanted was to feel connected to my girlfriend once more. In the end, my heart was ripped out by a woman I did my best to help her forget her past and reshape her future. With all that being said, the reason I'm posting this and the moral of the story? Help someone if you can, even if it ends up bringing you more pain than you think you can handle. I would do it over again for that fact alone. One day I will find my own happiness, but at the end of the day, I can always smile at the fact that I played a part, however large or small, in allowing someone else to find their own. And that? That is worth all the pain my broken heart holds right now.

Sorry to hear that JG...

It's cool that you're still able to take something positive from the situation. No matter what positive things happen to her in the future, you know that she wouldn't have achieved it without your help. Nice bro...we got your back.

On another note, now that you have more time on your hands, you'll be posting regularly again right?

Jersey Generals · Post #626 » by **Jersey Generals** » Thu Jun 11, 2015 9:54 pm

I honestly don't know. I have no idea where my life is going to lead me now. I wanted to marry this woman beyond reason. I wanted to be there every night when she goes to sleep and every morning when she awoke. I may be going on a sabbatical from life around the area for a while.

Post #627 » by **NyCeEvO** » Fri Jun 12, 2015 12:42 am

Jersey Generals wrote:I honestly don't know. I have no idea where my life is going to lead me now. I wanted to marry this woman beyond reason. I wanted to be there every night when she goes to sleep and every morning when she awoke. I may be going on a sabbatical from life around the area for a while.

I understand bro.

All jokes aside, I'm here for you dude. Life can throw some crazy, inexplicable curveballs that can make you feel like checking out.

Keep your head up. There was a time I thought I'd never meet another person who I thought would be as right as the first one. It was kinda depressing for a bit and I just focused on me for awhile.

Then out of nowhere I found someone who was better than the first. If you would've asked me after the initial split, I would've said no one could be better.

I know it hurts really bad right now. Just lay low and do you for awhile. With a guu like you, I'm sure things will work out better than you could've planned with this most recent one.

Jersey Generals · Post #628 » by **Jersey Generals** » Fri Jun 12, 2015 8:36 pm

I don't doubt that there are other women out there that can make me just as happy. It's just a matter that the circumstances surrounding our relationship make me call into question everything I ever did with her, and after a year with her, it makes me feel like a complete and total moron. A moron with a broken heart.

Post #629 » by **NyCeEvO** » Fri Jun 19, 2015 2:39 pm

Jersey Generals wrote:I don't doubt that there are other women out there that can make me just as happy. It's just a matter that the circumstances surrounding our relationship make me call into question everything I ever did with her, and after a year with her, it makes me feel like a complete and total moron. A moron with a broken heart.

You may have a broken heart but you're no moron. Others have been tricked and fooled for longer periods of time and repeatedly because they had good hearts and wanted to believe that things could work out.

You're not a moron. You're a guy who wanted, deserved, and hoped for the best. No one can blame you for that and you shouldn't blame yourself either.

jeff1624 · Post #630 » by **jeff1624** » Sun Jun 28, 2015 8:56 pm

Jersey Generals wrote:I was betrayed and cheated on by a woman to whom I gave everything I had. I literally and figuratively helped her rebuild her life when she was at her lowest, when she felt smaller than small. I was there to offer her a foundation on which she could grow back into the person she was always supposed to be. I gave her a home, a family that loved her, food on the table, I cooked and cleaned for her, allowed her to use me as a reference to achieve the job that she wanted and basically did anything I could to make her happy. All the while she made promises to me that fell by the wayside, promises about our future and what I meant to her. As we approached a year together, when I felt that she was pulling away, that there was someone else, I questioned her over it, but over and over again, I was lied to the extent that I would later find out that she left me early on my birthday to see him. Again, even as our relationship fell apart, she continued to deny that there was any such thing. In fact, as the weeks passed, I was blamed continuously that I was asking too much of her, that seeing her and talking to her was too much when all I wanted was to feel connected to my girlfriend once more. In the end, my heart was ripped out by a woman I did my best to help her forget her past and reshape her future. With all that being said, the reason I'm posting this and the moral of the story? Help someone if you can, even if it ends up bringing you more pain than you think you can handle. I would do it over again for that fact alone. One day I will find my own happiness, but at the end of the day, I can always smile at the fact that I played a part, however large or small, in allowing someone else to find their own. And that? That is worth all the pain my broken heart holds right now.

Sorry about everything you're going through. Can't imagine how awful it is to be betrayed that way. But holy crap, bro. You have no idea how meaningful your words are to me. I'm not gonna delve into what I'm referring to, but I think those words took away any fear I had going forward.

Jersey Generals · Post #631 » by **Jersey Generals** » Tue Aug 4, 2015 10:23 am

I'm glad I could help, Jeff.

As for me, I thought I'd give an update. Needless to say, I'm not doing well. My life has been completely ruined by this and I don't really know if it's possible for me to come back from this.

vincecarter4pres · Post #632 » by **vincecarter4pres** » Tue Aug 25, 2015 10:36 pm

Figured I check in on the board today for whatever reason, sorry to read all that JG. You'll get it back on track one day, it will likely take awhile though and chances are it will always be a period in your life and series of events you always think about and wonder why and what if, or keeps you guarded, etc.

Good luck man, keep your head up.

Jersey Generals · Post #633 » by **Jersey Generals** » Sun Aug 30, 2015 12:42 am

Thanks, Vince. It's good to hear from you.

The "helping her rebuild her life" that I was alluding to was this: we met a week after she got out of detox for her heroin addiction. She did not tell me until we had already admitted our love for one another. So I had t decide whether I wanted to stay with her or not, which I ultimately did without hesitation. Afterwards, my family and I were basically the ones that she used as support to help rebuild her life and get out of her debt from her addiction, only to leave me the second her needs changed.

Post #634 » by **Rich Rane** » Sat Nov 14, 2015 12:59 am

Post #635 » by **NyCeEvO** » Sat Nov 14, 2015 1:13 am

This world is crazy...smh

Post #636 » by **NyCeEvO** » Sat Nov 28, 2015 5:28 am

Happy Thanksgiving (Black Friday/Cyber Monday) to all!

Post #637 » by **NyCeEvO** » Fri Jan 1, 2016 5:54 am

Happy New Year y'all! I really hope 2016 is better than 2015 for us lol.

Jersey Generals · Post #638 » by **Jersey Generals** » Mon Jan 11, 2016 9:35 am

Now that Billy King is gone, I feel I can come back and actually post. Here is an update from my story:

For the first time in my life, I'm really proud of myself. After the woman that I planned on marrying left, I managed to rebuild my life in six months the right way. Rather than jump back into dating like I have done in the past, I rebuilt my life with new friends, a new career path, new hobbies, a new perspective and all the positivity that comes with it. While it is still a work in progress and I still have so much more to do, I'm excited for my new life. I'm not perfect, and I never will be, but I have grown so much from that selfish, arrogant jerk that was afraid of commitment and only thought about himself that I used to be five years ago. It took me a while to find a way to balance my old, outgoing personality with my new quiet one, but I finally managed to do it. I am happy in who I have become and strive to be better each day. Here's to the next chapter!

jeff1624 · Post #639 » by **jeff1624** » Wed Jan 20, 2016 4:48 am

Jersey Generals wrote:Now that Billy King is gone, I feel I can come back and actually post. Here is an update from my story:

For the first time in my life, I'm really proud of myself. After the woman that I planned on marrying left, I managed to rebuild my life in six months the right way. Rather than jump back into dating like I have done in the past, I rebuilt my life with new friends, a new career path, new hobbies, a new perspective and all the positivity that comes with it. While it is still a work in progress and I still have so much more to do, I'm excited for my new life. I'm not perfect, and I never will be, but I have grown so much from that selfish, arrogant jerk that was afraid of commitment and only thought about himself that I used to be five years ago. It took me a while to find a way to balance my old, outgoing personality with my new quiet one, but I finally managed to do it. I am happy in who I have become and strive to be better each day. Here's to the next chapter!

Glad to hear that man.

Post #640 » by **NyCeEvO** » Fri Jan 22, 2016 3:33 am

Jersey Generals wrote:Now that Billy King is gone, I feel I can come back and actually post. Here is an update from my story:

For the first time in my life, I'm really proud of myself. After the woman that I planned on marrying left, I managed to rebuild my life in six months the right way. Rather than jump back into dating like I have done in the past, I rebuilt my life with new friends, a new career path, new hobbies, a new perspective and all the positivity that comes with it. While it is still a work in progress and I still have so much more to do, I'm excited for my new life. I'm not perfect, and I never will be, but I have grown so much from that selfish, arrogant jerk that was afraid of commitment and only thought about himself that I used to be five years ago. It took me a while to find a way to balance my old, outgoing personality with my new quiet one, but I finally managed to do it. I am happy in who I have become and strive to be better each day. Here's to the next chapter!

Way to go JG!!