postcall wrote:Rotten Apple wrote:postcall wrote:There is nothing "usual" about what you are describing imho. But not an attack on you just that situation since it puts everyone at risk.
It is usual in cases like this, people don't partake in activities like this sober they need liquid courage. Why do you think she was drinking before hand
Ok I see what you are getting at; just disagree but not saying I am right. I have seen people have a few drinks to relax for courage but not I am going to get very drunk to do something. Unless blackmail was involved. But I might be being naive. Thanks for responding to my post appreciate the time you took to explain. I may have read into it the wrong way.
Nah I get what you meant, I could have worded my piece better and I agree with you to an extent, I pretty sure she drunk on her own and I'm pretty sure they threw more drinks(not literally but figuratively ) at her when she get there. Depending on what she drunk vs what Rose and crew were drinking you could def see why she could have been as wasted as she said she was.
I think the entire case was bad judgment on all accounts
Rose and co for trying to get someone who was obviously not 100% down with their plans and on Doe for getting involved with them if she didn't want that.
This could have all been avoided.