payitforward wrote:nate33 wrote:sfam wrote:To say Trump HAS NOT sexually assaulted women, which prompted my response - in addition to dismissing Trump's own words where he says he does this without permission, where he says he walks in on women changing because he owns the pageant and all the rest, you have to dismiss all of these women who came forward.
This list missed those that came after the middle of October, but I think you get the point. These are not new stories, never have been.
Again, some people still believe Bill Cosby is without fault, so I don't doubt the power to suspend disbelief. But none of these people benefited from coming forward. Quite the opposite in fact- they were hounded by Trumps Trolls.
Trump has been a target for 40 years because he's rich and a known womanizer. The fact that some unsubstantiated allegations exist means nothing. And any 10-year-old allegation that came forward in the past year involving known Democrat operative attorneys like Gloria Allred are HIGHLY suspect.
Every one of those instances that could conceivably be characterized as "assault" have been vehemently denied by Trump and there is no proof of any of them whatsoever. Most are highly suspect because they occurred in public places but have no witnesses, or the allegations came forth many years later after Trump was on the verge of winning the presidency.
I'm not saying Trump is a saint. There is no doubt in my mind that he has spent much of his life objectifying women. I just don't think it's uniquely awful or even all that surprising. I'd say his behavior is roughly in line with about half of the rich and famous people in Hollywood and politics. When you are rich, powerful and reasonably good looking, you get used to many women throwing themselves at you and you eventually learn to treat all of them with much less respect. It's certainly not a good character trait, but it's not the same thing as assault.
So... here's what you said, nate:
1. "The fact that some unsubstantiated allegations exist means nothing." -- "Some," nate? Haven't there been quite a large number of them? Hasn't he in fact stated explicitly that he engages in this activity repeatedly? So... how does that combination "mean nothing" pray tell?
2. "any 10-year-old allegation that came forward in the past year involving known Democrat operative attorneys like Gloria Allred are HIGHLY suspect." I.e. they're suspect in that they come from a political enemy -- at least that's what I take you to mean. Then again, we wouldn't expect to see them coming from his political allies, would we? Are allegations of corruption against the Clintons also "HIGHLY suspect" if they come from political enemies of the Clintons? In short, don't negative allegations often (maybe usually) come from an enemy rather than a friend? Does that mean they are "suspect" by definition?
Should they be cast aside, or should the issues be investigated? Lets say corruption in the case of the Clintons & sexual assault in the case of Trump? Both? Neither? Only investigate the Clintons? Only Trump?
3. "Every one of those instances that could conceivably be characterized as "assault" have been vehemently denied by Trump and there is no proof of any of them whatsoever." If denied, then eo ipso false? If denied, then eo ipso not worth investigating? Oh, and isn't admitting & bragging about it a kind of "proof?" If not of any particular one of these instances "vehemently denied by Trump" then a fortiori of others? No? He's lying, & the women are too?
4. "I'd say his behavior is roughly in line with about half of the rich and famous people in Hollywood and politics." Forgive me for asking, nate, but how the hell would you know, if you don't mind explaining...?
5. "When you are rich, powerful and reasonably good looking, you get used to many women throwing themselves at you and you eventually learn to treat all of them with much less respect. It's certainly not a good character trait, but it's not the same thing as assault."
Tell me this: where did anyone suggest that what you describe would be the same thing as assault? But, once again, in this thread not for the faint of heart, how the hell would you know whether that's true? & how would you know whether/& how often women have been "throwing themselves at" Donald Trump? How the hell would you know what Donald Trump eventually learned about how "to treat all of them?"
In fact, you don't know any of this stuff, do you nate? In fact, you just made it all up. It's a common debating technique -- to shift the ground of what's being discussed. In this case, you confected a little tale that turns Donald Trump's admitted -- hell, self-proclaimed! -- pattern of putting his hands on women's privates into the unfortunate result of "women throwing themselves at" him.
Good job, nate: you just made them, the women, responsible for Trump's self-proclaimed groping. You might want to ask yourself whether you really want to do that. Whether you want to sink to that in order to defend this guy.
5. "Most are highly suspect because they occurred in public places but have no witnesses, or the allegations came forth many years later after Trump was on the verge of winning the presidency." But, neither of those facts mean a thing. The first is false as a generalization; many occurred in not at all public places.
The 2d, that women made the allegations public when doing so
could harm the person who assaulted them, doesn't make them suspect either. Do you think it's easy for a woman to come out and say "that 'rich & powerful' (to use your designation) man assaulted me?" Or do you think it might be a difficult thing to do? Seems to me that when you feel maybe you can actually get back at the perpetrator might be the time you screw up your courage. Would that be hard for you to understand?
None of the above proves that Donald Trump did or didn't do anything, of course. And "where there's smoke there's fire" is neither legally significant nor always true.
Hence, if you like, you can continue to dismiss all this & blame women for how Donald Trump brags that he treats them. But, in that case, it might be sensible to avoid trying to take the higher moral ground anywhere else in this thread. The moral grime with which you'll have covered yourself doesn't come off that easily.